Few questions for taureans :-)

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*THE QUESTIONS ARE NOT CONNECTED TO MY SITUATION W/ MY BULL* so pls dont make assumptions 🙂 its just a taurean's psyche intrigues me and y'all are anything BUT boring.

1) after you are over a person who you loved and deeply cared for because it didnt work out. Do you just disappear?

2) Whose more important a lover or a friend you've known for a couple yrs?

3) what would you do if the one that got away came back to you?

4) how do you get over someone you love? Its hard for y'all to get over someone you've invested in so does it even happen?

5) is it true you want a bad boy/girl who will mature and be good just for you?
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1.) I disappear as soon as it doesn't work, why the hell would I stick around? Good luck Chuck!

2.) Is a lover someone I'm just fucking? I guess it depends on the people and what context they are more important, idk this question confuses me.

3.) Well if they are the one who got away... why wouldn't I just do a happy dance. But I don't think I have any of those.

4.) No, its not very heard. I might cry for like a day, and then I just stop thinking about them. But idk that goes for someone I've dated for a year or two. Guess I really don't invest much anymore.

5.) No, I want someone who can be as bad as me.
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1) Anyone who has proved injurious or poisonous to myself is dropped. That is deep pain and offense. They are essentially dead to me. Literally and figuratively.
Minor, not deeply entrenched is a 'Godspeed'. I am neutral. Neither pro or con. I wouldn't go out of my way to be unpleasant nor do I go out of my way to be pleasant.

2) Lover is someone who is mine and does not seek to play playground games. I love my friends, I love my lover. Two different spheres. I place a very high value on friendship. I haven't chosen my lovers friends. They didn't choose mine. There may be disapproval on either side but it's a mistake to ask or expect a Bull to give up someone who has been there through low and high for a long time. Respect issue. We typically find friendship in places others don't understand.

3) Bid them good day mentally. I've moved on.

4) I find the person themself speeds that along. True feeling takes a very long time but something snaps into place and it's a relief to have clarity on many levels. What doesn't kill ya...

5) Nope. I want someone honest, with their head screwed on straight, their shit together and coming at me proper. Never have had patience for fence sitting, indecision or piss poor behavior. The gods listened.
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*THE QUESTIONS ARE NOT CONNECTED TO MY SITUATION W/ MY BULL* so pls dont make assumptions its just a taurean's psyche intrigues me and y'all are anything BUT boring.


--**i do disappear ! But it takes a couple of weeks ! & it all depends on how we broke up .. If it's mutual usually around for a bit on & off

I haven't been in this situation but my friends are like family to me so their very important to me & so is love ! I will never pick one over the other I will keep it neutral

I probably wouldn't even want his ass anymore by then ... But I would be nice

I usually stAlk their FB pages lol until I can heal ! Usually when I've saw them move on it motivates me to move in I'm always holding on to that little bit if HOPE !

I want mature but not bad ! I'm not putting money on any ones books ! & I'm not accepting jail calls nor letters lol

Taurus may 3
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1) Yes. I loved and cared for them and it didn't work out. Out of sight out of mind, it's easier to work through it.

2) Assuming I care for both I would hate (and shouldn't) have to choose. They're both important to me in their own way.

3) Circumstances, circumstances...

4) The bigger the investment the harder it is to let go. It takes a while but of course it happens sooner or later.

5) "Bad boy" type is definitely not my thing and I'm not adopting one in hopes of him maturing either lol! And I wouldn't want someone to be good exclusively to me and an ass to others. Not cool.
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1) after you are over a person who you loved and deeply cared for because it didnt work out. Do you just disappear?

Don't really disappear - just stop communicating with them. What's the point?

2) Whose more important a lover or a friend you've known for a couple yrs?

I would think they'd be equally important. And they both would/should know and understand this too.

3) what would you do if the one that got away came back to you?

Meh, never had one of those. Taureans work hard at their relationships - we're usually the ones that get jipped.

4) how do you get over someone you love? Its hard for y'all to get over someone you've invested in so does it even happen?

See VB's response.

5) is it true you want a bad boy/girl who will mature and be good just for you?

OH HELLLLL NO. See VB's response.


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thebullforever
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1) after you are over a person who you loved and deeply cared for because it didnt work out. Do you just disappear?

Yes, I don't see a point to being friends with the person.

2) Whose more important a lover or a friend you've known for a couple yrs?

lover.

3) what would you do if the one that got away came back to you?

nothing, it didn't work the first time, so why would it work now? Too much prior relationship baggage to worry about or deal with. Best to avoid it entirely.

4) how do you get over someone you love? Its hard for y'all to get over someone you've invested in so does it even happen?

Its a slow process for me but I just cut them off entirely and think of the negatives when I think about them, its easier to deal with when you're thinking of things you couldn't stand about the other person

5) is it true you want a bad boy/girl who will mature and be good just for you?

Not at all. We want someone who is devoted, not someone we have to try and pin down.
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Going back to the 4th question.........A close taurean friend of mine...he started liking my lil sister (gemini) her bf cheated on her and it her hard (she has venus in taurus..so you can imagine). My taurean friend pursued her after their break up ofc but she wouldnt give him the time of the day. She was hurt and swore off of guys. He pursued her for a an entire yr but he never confessed cuz she pushed him away...i tried to set them up cuz he is a good guy and will def. treat her like a princess but she is stubborn. After the 1st yr he stopped pursuing her but my sis told me he gets all fidgety around her+blushes and even i've caught him gazing at her. Its been like 4 yrs now and he has remained single for her. Is that the norm among you guys?
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Going back to the 4th question.........A close taurean friend of mine...he started liking my lil sister (gemini) her bf cheated on her and it her hard (she has venus in taurus..so you can imagine). My taurean friend pursued her after their break up ofc but she wouldnt give him the time of the day. She was hurt and swore off of guys. He pursued her for a an entire yr but he never confessed cuz she pushed him away...i tried to set them up cuz he is a good guy and will def. treat her like a princess but she is stubborn. After the 1st yr he stopped pursuing her but my sis told me he gets all fidgety around her+blushes and even i've caught him gazing at her. Its been like 4 yrs now and he has remained single for her. Is that the norm among you guys?

yeah... Idk I'm not interested in people who aren't interested in me. Its a pretty big turn off, but I don't have a penis so *shrug*