Finally met taurus guy!!

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Well it's been a few months and I'm back!!! OK so I finally seen Taurus guy....well actually me and some friends went to Atlanta for my B-Day weekend ...four day celebration....before I went down there ...Taurus guy knew I would be coming, so I told him it will be nice to finally meet if he was cool with it....because of short notice he first sausage would be working those days I was coming...Taurus guy lives about three hours from Atlanta but still in the same state....the Taurus guy actually invited me to his home...well he insisted rather...but I told him no I will be with my sister and friends....at the hotel....so about two weeks ago is actually when I went to ATL....but two days before I was actually leaving he called me and told me that he got Saturday off so we can spend time...he seemed so excited telling me....but still acting calm...so Thursday is when me and my sister and friends arrived to ATL, we checked in our hotel and went out and stuff....Taurus guy called me that evening, and I told him I had made it....mind you the Taurus guy works three jobs....but he was working a 12 HR shift that week overnight....until Saturday....so Friday I was out all day with my sister until we had differences....Friday that evening I spoke to Taurus guy...he was just asking what was I doing, and he was picking up his daughter...so he ended up sending me his address to his house ....because Saturday we would be spending time together.....so I'm not gonna lie I was getting a little nervous because now it's about to be in real person....so any how the Taurus guy got off Sat morning at 6am.....so because me and my sister had a hotel in his city Friday night ....we met when he got off of work....now I drove my car he had his car....we went out to breakfast..(he paid) then back to his house...when I first seen him everything had matched up to what he described his looks to be...the chemistry I got from him just flowed...it felt like I knew this guy and just distance was keeping us apart...but any how because he's a police officer his job can be demanding....OK fast fwd so once we get to his house , we laid down ...he hadn't been to sleep so the plan was to rest then we would go out to spend the day....I know it sounds weird but it didn't feel like he was a stranger...he didn't make a move neither did I ...so about three hours later his alarm goes off and he says we should get up and head out....I suggested him getting more rest but he says he's fine .....so I took a shower....put on clothes, he had music playing from his computer room, he called me in there and he started showing me videos of him and his friends on the cruise...him goofing around....he was doing this little dance for me...was so crazy...he also showed me a video that officers have to pass which was a driving test...we both was just laughing...he showed me pics of him and his daughter also....played some music ...most of the songs were what I listened too....so now it's noon and we head out
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(Continued)..........because I'm in a rental vehicle...we take my car, he didn't mind at all...so we go get something to eat...he asked me days prior we can do whatever I wanted to do...so we went to Atlanta...so to be honest I wasn't expecting anything from him...due to the fact I knew him and I were friends...but I was very attracted to him....I got the vibe he was also attracted to me...but wasn't sure...any how so we're driving though the city...just talking ..definitely not a dull moment...we went to a few places and stores...shopping just enjoying each other company. We never made it to Atlanta because we kept stopping at places...so now it's 10:30pm and we're back at his house, yes we spent literally the whole day together...I was tired and he was too...I remember laying down on his bed ...he kept calling me...but I was sleepy from all that driving we did....I then Went to take a shower....when I came out in my night clothes....he kept staring at me....he was playing his game ...letting me know that's what he be doing when we be talking on the phone....he then went to take a shower....I was watching t.v....I put on a movie....he came out and got in the bed with me, but he was on his phone looking at massage chairs, he implied thatch give him a massage and I did...he had oil so I did ....(I know but damn I couldn't resist) so while I'm massaging him I could tell he liked it....I gave him a kiss on his ear ( what was I thinking lol) so I then stopped...and we continued watching t.v and he massaged me ....I was in my bra and boy shorts...but he didn't fondle me or anything....he said after he stopped that he can't be kissing on me like I did him ....things would get heated....in my mind I wanted to be touched ....so I ask him why not....any how we almost had sex....it seemed like he was really tired, here I am almost naked ...so is he but he said he wanted to respect me.....yesss never had this ever happen to me....we ended up laying down....he fell asleep .....but still I couldn't believe this is happening....he did only get 3 hours sleep so ...hopefully that was the reason....next morning we both get up... he had to go get his daughter and I was leaving headed home...had to meet back up with my sister and friends...when him and I got up he said that there was not enough time....didn't know what he was trying to say....he also told me he know that what happens/ almost happens was not something I really wanted to do....and that maybe I wasn't thinking.....(this guy is really respecting me) we hugged and said our goodbyes and for me It was back to reality.....well I had fun overall....he didn't contact me until the next day....we talked about things....I told him I had a good time with him and enjoyed his company....he said he did too.....opinions opinions— Did I make a mistake? Is he not interested? What you think?
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@Op- That is one downfall... Something that happens in life you have little control over like you must bend... Your mentally right off the bat is, this guy has kids will he make time for me? And can you really be there for him and then his kid too? Mentally, and psychologically stable..

1. First priority think about what you need right now?
2. Second priority- Think about this guy alot?Think about his focus in life and whether or not he's ready for something meaningful. AND OF course are you compatible enough..
3. Third priority- You have to think about his kid too, can you step up to the plate as a step parent..

Think if this does work out and you are going out already..
I believe it is hard to date someone with kids and you have none. THIS is where independence, compromise, adaptation, a go with the flow attitude at all times come to play.
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@busyeyes88 thank you....I'm at a point in my lifecwhwee I'm focusing on me right now....my life is in FL...so that's where I would stay....looking at the big picture, he's in GA and I'm here...someone will have to move....and I don't think we know each other well like that...I would need more from him as Far as friendship...but I'm totally fine with the way things are now...
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@libra24 I still think you should be careful with this one:

https://www.dxpnet.com/opinion/taurus/what-should-i-do-5726063/?p=2

I wouldn't want to give you negative vibes and i understand why you would see progress but i don't think it is for the long haul. It's just my opinion and that's what you asked.

Keep in mind that he's probably looking for a woman who can help him raise his daughter,if he doesn't get back with his wife that is. So just be realistic and don't put all your hopes on him.

A relationship for him,probably is not the same relationship that you're looking for.

He would want to be near his daughter so between work and her,it would leave him little time for you. You won't be able to go on like this for years,someone will have to compromise,ask yourself if you can do that.

Please don't take my words for other than it sounds,just think about what it is that you want,not now,later.

Either way,best of luck to you.
Good post.
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Just because he didn't put his dick in her it doesn't mean he respects her or he is looking for anything serious.

I felt he might have been a bit disappointed or dismissive when he couldn't put his dick in her.

It doesn't seem like he has much time to offer to a partner.

They don't live that far away but it's not been the easiest of meet ups.

I'd just be cautious and realistic with this one.
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@evalani290 yes those are some great questions I need to ask myself because I feel like it won't work because I'm over here and he's over there....not only that but I want someone close to me....and it doesn't seem like this Taurus guy will compromise....however even though I'm big on compromise, I wouldn't if I felt like the other person is not given me the same...I love kids and even tho I don't have any of my own ....u agree with you about wanting to be close to his child, he's not married....baby mom of course.
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@FirstDecanTaurianWomen0428 ...I agree also dating someone with kids can be hard, and being mentally / physical is a big part. Where I'm at in my life now ...I'm focusing on my career, building and maintaining....I will say security is VERY IMPORTANT to me. That's something I notice about Taurus guy also, he loves to work....very ambitious guy I will add.... so am I, I feel as tho I can relate to him in that way....when we did link up we went to an outlet store he kept tapping me (weird) I guess he was trying to get my attention, he showed me his credit score on his phone...I don't know why he did though, our conversations include future things. Like he told me he wants to buy a house, he wants to rent out properly, and he's going back to school....talk about ATTRACTION....