Getting the Taurus attention

Well, obviously Taurus men have a reputation when it comes to "ignoring people" ..I am experiencing this first hand
I am a Taurus Sun, Virgo moon, Aries Venus and Leo Mars with Aquarius ascendant..
I have known and "cyber-crushed" over a guy that I follow on a SM platform..of course I used to like some of his pics and comment when it felt appropriate.
Couple of weeks ago, I ran into this guy in an event ..and he recognized me immediately .. he started asking me about my life and what I do and stuff..it's when I found out he's a Taurus too (Pisces moon, Gemini Venus, Taurus Mars, Leo Ascendant..I googled that )he's a couple of years older than me..
I felt that there was a spark ..when he asked about my business again, I gave him my business card..
I felt that I was over the moon..I was happy for two days straight!
That's until he stopped liking my pics all together (he was online when I posted a number of them! Yes, I'm a creep.. I checked!) ..and he never texted me.
So once I decided it was a losing battle.. he DMs me! My fav basketball team had just lost bitterly to our rivals..so he messaged me saying hardluck! And he's sorry about that 😢..
(A guy his age doesn't DM random people right?)
Like I would normally do with any other guy, I thanked him and started on a new topic.. we were both funny so the convo was light and funny, but it died quickly..
The next day I wished him good luck because he had an important presentation at work . he replied to my DM politely ..
And that's it ..
For about two weeks ..nothing ..not even a like (although I steadily continue to like the photos he publish when I'm online) ..

It's driving the Aries in me craaazy ..I want to get him to notice me ..like could it be all in my head ..the spark, the flame, the glittering eyes and shy smiles?
Why did he DM me?

How can I get him to notice me?
How can I stop being a creep and stop checking when he's online .. and stop the stupid Virgo moon from over analyzing and obsessing -_-?
Help?

how do you stop stalking and obsessing? get a life.

yes, i know it sounds harsh but the way you stop obsessing is by focusing on other more pressing things. that is what he is doing. if he comes back round, great. you might want to reach out to him in a week to see how he is but beyond that occupy your time with the rest of your life ie your business, friends, family. come on, it's christmas. isn't there something else you could be doing?

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Posted by SuzanneL
..like could it be all in my head ..the spark, the flame, the glittering eyes and shy smiles?
Why did he DM me?

it absolutely is.

i didn't see anything special he did except for message you which really isn't a good indicator of attraction.

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Thank you!
I guess crushing over him for a while messed with my judgement ..
I guess I projected my feelings onto him ..

Posted by jeane
how do you stop stalking and obsessing? get a life.

yes, i know it sounds harsh but the way you stop obsessing is by focusing on other more pressing things. that is what he is doing. if he comes back round, great. you might want to reach out to him in a week to see how he is but beyond that occupy your time with the rest of your life ie your business, friends, family. come on, it's christmas. isn't there something else you could be doing?

Harsh indeed but I need this ..
Thank you!

Posted by Ands2016

Posted by SuzanneL
..like could it be all in my head ..the spark, the flame, the glittering eyes and shy smiles?
Why did he DM me?

it absolutely is.

i didn't see anything special he did except for message you which really isn't a good indicator of attraction.

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i think ands is right. with this guy's vig he is going to be here there and everywhere and the air influence is going to make him chatty and flirty and fickle. i wouldn't put too much stock in him just yet.

Posted by SuzanneL

Posted by jeane
how do you stop stalking and obsessing? get a life.

yes, i know it sounds harsh but the way you stop obsessing is by focusing on other more pressing things. that is what he is doing. if he comes back round, great. you might want to reach out to him in a week to see how he is but beyond that occupy your time with the rest of your life ie your business, friends, family. come on, it's christmas. isn't there something else you could be doing?

Harsh indeed but I need this ..
Thank you!

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meant in the kindest way! 🙂

Posted by wicked
Lets assume he knows what to do with your business card. Man is old enough to ask you out/call u. Give him space and time to decide. With his Mars in taurus it could take some time.. and your venus in aries shouldnt be too impatient 😉

I know most of the tips I read today ..but they don't sink in until someone else shouts them at me..

Thank you for your kindness ..

Posted by jeane

Posted by Ands2016

Posted by SuzanneL
..like could it be all in my head ..the spark, the flame, the glittering eyes and shy smiles?
Why did he DM me?

it absolutely is.

i didn't see anything special he did except for message you which really isn't a good indicator of attraction.

i think ands is right. with this guy's vig he is going to be here there and everywhere and the air influence is going to make him chatty and flirty and fickle. i wouldn't put too much stock in him just yet.

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You are both right!
He is indeed here and there and everywhere ..he is charming, handsome and he knows it !!
I did the classic mistake of thinking (Ok, but I'm special) *face palm*

I shouldn't have put any hope into this ..

Posted by Twodrinks
How to get a Taur man's attention...be elusive. Seriously lol.

Lol!
Yea? I thought I needed to befriend a Taurus male first..
Thanks for the advice..Will keep it in mind for any future needs :p

Posted by SuzanneL

Posted by jeane

Posted by Ands2016

Posted by SuzanneL
..like could it be all in my head ..the spark, the flame, the glittering eyes and shy smiles?
Why did he DM me?

it absolutely is.

i didn't see anything special he did except for message you which really isn't a good indicator of attraction.

i think ands is right. with this guy's vig he is going to be here there and everywhere and the air influence is going to make him chatty and flirty and fickle. i wouldn't put too much stock in him just yet.

You are both right!
He is indeed here and there and everywhere ..he is charming, handsome and he knows it !!
I did the classic mistake of thinking (Ok, but I'm special) *face palm*

I shouldn't have put any hope into this ..

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hey, you may be special! i don't want to step on your flowers just yet but i would see how it plays out first before doing the aries thing (similar to the libran thing so i hear you sister!) of getting carried away at the potential.

be the bull you are and plod along, slow and steady.

Posted by SuzanneL

Posted by Twodrinks
How to get a Taur man's attention...be elusive. Seriously lol.

Lol!
Yea? I thought I needed to befriend a Taurus male first..
Thanks for the advice..Will keep it in mind for any future needs :p

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i disagree with 2drinks. i took the friend route. i was around but not too much, accessible but not always available. i took my time, surveyed the him and the scene and then dropped some very big hints when i got tired of waiting!

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Posted by Ands2016

Posted by SuzanneL
..like could it be all in my head ..the spark, the flame, the glittering eyes and shy smiles?
Why did he DM me?

it absolutely is.

i didn't see anything special he did except for message you which really isn't a good indicator of attraction.

Thank you!
I guess crushing over him for a while messed with my judgement ..
I guess I projected my feelings onto him ..

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Hey, Have you been in a relationship with him for 2 months to know he's can be that great person you're looking for....or for 6 months....? What you're feeling can be true, BUT what it's based on is not necessarily so. Get a life. Even if he doesn't come back, you KNOW you can experience that great connection, you're alive, it CAN and WILL happen with someone else, someone who will CHOOSE to be with you.
You're fabulous WITH OR WITHOUT him 😉