HasTaurus man moved on. Please I need help!!

I was dating Taurus man for four months and we broke up after having a big argument. He said I did not listen and I was being nasty to him by the choice of words I was using. He said I really hurt him and he was vulnerable. I decided to go to therapy to see if I could get answers.We didn't speak for 7 weeks. I have since realized my mistakes and decided to reach out. I sent him a email expressing how sorry I was and wanted to know if we could meet one day just to talk. He wrote back stating how much he missed me and thought about me often. He also stated that he still loves me an would like to see me again. We met three days later went out to eat and walked and talked for hours.He said he accepts my apology and knows that it's sincere. He said he noticed the difference in me. I told him that I know I will have to build his trust again and it's up to me.I asked him if we could start all over again possibly with dating and not seeing anyone else and his response was I guess you will be doing some serious making up.I asked if he was dating and he said no.I asked him if he was seeing and corresponding with someone will he be honest and tell me and he said yes.He's on a dating site and he does not know that I know. My girlfriend is on the same site and saw him. Is my Taurus man playing with my feelings? What can I do to win him back that will let him know that I'm serious? He's very stubborn.Please help me out.

I am a Taurus woman. My birthday is 4/23 and his is 5/10.

Just give it time, and communication is key. Of course being honest is mandatory with each other. So he lied about the dating site. So maybe he's feeling shit out. But he still lied. Strike one he is capable of lying.

Two, what kind of argument was it? Why did it happen in the first place? Everyone has arguments, so why do you think he went silent...

And I often tell people you have to make it up to me, it takes awhile to forgive and forget.. I forgive but never forget what someone does or says. It's all about action...

What is the reason you like him so much to keep up with him, if he is on a dating site maybe not ready. So ask him for a monogamous relationship and see.

But it's only been four months, do you feel you asked enough questions about him to know this is the right one, treats you right, is stable, knows how to compromise, adapt on all levels. Do you want kids and marriage life with him?

How many times have you met? Have you been over to his place? Have you any more red flags beside lying? Have you messed around?

@Firstdecantaureanwoman4/28 we dated for four months. We both have kids from previous marriages and we both dont want anymore. We saw each other every weekend.We spent a lot of time together. He bought me gifts and cooked for me and always took me out. I met his kids and friends.He does not have family in the state we live in. He has met mine.

That sounds nice. So why the sudden detachment?

Switch it around and you do the cooking, take him out, spice up the environment, do something spontaneous with him. And see if that helps.. he did say that you owe him. So start. It's all about give and take, and sometimes one has to be less stubborn..to work a Taurus vs Taurus relationship..

Ask him where you see each other right now. And you also have to take care of yourself and kids for now and just don't fight. Takes awhile to forgive.. if he isn't worth trusting in what he is doing now.. maybe it's not as strong as you think.

He lied.

He could have said he was on a dating site.

He could have said he's on a dating site but isn't really active on it.

He could have said he's on a dating site and has had a couple of dates.

He could have told the truth... But he didn't.

While you put your cards on the table and were honest he chose not to do the same.

Why?

Watch his actions... Not his words...

Sure, he's a single guy but you have four months under your belt. He should have been more respectful to you and not lied.

He said he still loves you and is happy to try again. If so, then you need to date him and not rush things. Treat it as if you were starting over. He's still keeping his options open so you should too to avoid becoming too involved.

It sounds like you're accepting all the blame for this argument while he sits with his feet up.

The balance tips far too much in his favour so be careful on re-kindling something which appears to be more on his terms than equal terms.

clap clap clap---Agent hit the nail on the head, be wary of a situation where the power has mainly shifted in his hands because he now has the power to love you or destroy you depending on his mood and you do not want that kind of experience.

For him to let you go and not even try to reach out to you during the break is also very revealing about his feelings for you. My gut says he wasn't that into you least not enough to try and reconcile which is why he let go. Do you really want a man that is willing to let you go so easily?

Make sure the doing and giving is balanced where you both are equally invested thus if he does nothing, you do nothing and the break up is official, it's over. It takes 2 to tango, 2 to make a relationship work and it can only work if he truly can be available to make it work.

Thank you everyone for your help. I honestly did not view it this way. Looking at ut from this point of view is helpful.

@AgentP911 it does appear just as you said. Inspite of how I feel I should just give up trying if his options are open.