@Scorpiaaaaassss
11 Years
Taurus man afraid of me..
Understanding Why a Taurus Man Might Be Afraid of You
A Taurus man may feel intimidated if he perceives your presence as challenging or intense. His reactions could stem from a need for stability and comfort, making him wary of confrontation or strong emotions. Building trust gradually and showing genuine kindness can help ease his fears and create a more relaxed connection.
Posted by Scorpiaaaaassss
Hello ! I recently create a topic called "An other problem with a taurus man" in which I explain the "problem" !
So, this taurus man seems to be clearly AFRAID or SCARED of me !
When I'm alone and him too he panics like I never seen, or when I'm close to him physically (like next to him) or when I walk in his direction I can read in his face "OH SHIT OH SHIT OH SHIT" lol it's actually funny BUT problematic, because I decided to try to talk to him seriously about my feelings in july, but I feel like he's gonna look down and say "no" because he is afraid !
I don't know, maybe when I stare at him I look..angry but I don't think so, actually people say to me that it's more a stare as if I challenged him, I don't really know how to explain, imagine a scorpio stare very intense lol
But actually in my head I don't challenge him at all !
When I try to smile at him, he suddenly ignore me, but not ignoring like "i don't care" more "i see EVERY SINGLE THING but not you"So I don't really know how to deal with this, because I want to make him comfortable, to show him that I'm not angry against him..
I hope you will answer !
Bye 😄
Really really simple. Just walk up to him and initiate a convo, and don't stare at him and scrutinize him...He will probably be super nervous. I've experienced all this. I felt like a total retard and could not function properly in her presence.
So when I speak to him, I look down ?
But at the same time if I don't stare it gives the impression that I don't care + I can't not stare, it's automatic lol ..
But why did you feel like a retard, I'm mean, I'm not going to eat him or something..
Posted by Scorpiaaaaassss
So when I speak to him, I look down ?
But at the same time if I don't stare it gives the impression that I don't care + I can't not stare, it's automatic lol ..
But why did you feel like a retard, I'm mean, I'm not going to eat him or something..
If you want to be extra slick, yeah, pretend like you are a little shy. It'll make him more comfortable. Really though, whatever you do, don't just stand there with your eyes boring into him, investigating his shyness/anxiety. She looked like she was going to eat me, yes. Admit that you've thought about it.
It depends on which sense you speak..hahaha 😄
Yes actually I know that he is afraid to not be accepted the way he is, but I know the REAL him haha and I know his insecurities if I can say, but yeah I think I'm not judgemental, not when it's about a REAL personnality, it always interesting because I discover other way of thinking
So I saw him today, and as always he looks at me but I feel like my stare is not like the "loving stare" but more like a blank stare...
You scorpios have an intense, intimidating stare. Makes people nervous or even offended. I get both offended and nervous when Scorpios stare at me lol but I just stare back with my "I'm not afraid of you" stare 😛
Posted by Impulsv
Listen to this man he's the expert.
Because of Scorpio moon effect. Scorpio knows better.
Posted by thefierybull
You scorpios have an intense, intimidating stare. Makes people nervous or even offended. I get both offended and nervous when Scorpios stare at me lol but I just stare back with my "I'm not afraid of you" stare 😛
lol.
Posted by Impulsv
Listen to this man he's the expert.
Jajaja.
Reverse also happens, although in Scorpio not so evidence.
Posted by Scorpiaaaaassss
So when I speak to him, I look down ?
But at the same time if I don't stare it gives the impression that I don't care + I can't not stare, it's automatic lol ..
But why did you feel like a retard, I'm mean, I'm not going to eat him or something..
Are you a 1st decan Scorpio? I have a friend 1st decan Scorpio - she have a very intense look.
That stare:
My ex bull made mistakes - huge mistake. I talked less and walking around the house. He knows what it was...
Then He said M, I have to throw garbage. I looked at him with a blanked stare ( I saw him nervous).
I held his hand and smile - Darling, I'm going to throw it tomorrow morning. Not tonight.. check the time it's
12:00 midnight. as He cannot explained what it was- he threw the garbage midnight and came back right away.
I looked at him with kindness - He grabbed my hand and confessed his problems.
Scorpioaasss, I'm sure you can do it. Divert that energy into positive result. tone down the alarm. He's going
to run.lol.
Sit down or stand there looking very feminine and attractive and let him come to you.
I agree with TLS about playing shy.
Or just be quiet and smile.
You looking soft and vulnerable creates magnetism.
Let him be the active assertive one.
Otherwise he will struggle to satisfy your needs as a woman.
Oki dokiii so I'm going to try tomorrow to smile, because once I really wanted to, so I stare at him BUT he stares back like "hypnotize" so we were like " O_O" for like 10 seconds..
But the fact is when I just glance, he's already afraid and "ignores"
Ok and I think about the way I stare at him and actually i'm not sure but I think it's either "I want you" or "i'm going to revenge" stare haha.. 😱
You need to add nice smiles with your stares thats how I got use to my scorp ex's stares we would lock eyes I would be like oh shit target locked then I would get nervous as hell but as soon as she would shoot that smile I felt relief because I knew that beautiful girl was into me like I was into her
Posted by Scorpiaaaaassss
Oki dokiii so I'm going to try tomorrow to smile, because once I really wanted to, so I stare at him BUT he stares back like "hypnotize" so we were like " O_O" for like 10 seconds..
But the fact is when I just glance, he's already afraid and "ignores"
Ok and I think about the way I stare at him and actually i'm not sure but I think it's either "I want you" or "i'm going to revenge" stare haha.. 😱
Ok, please explain "I'm going to revenge" stare....
lol
Posted by LentoBull91
You need to add nice smiles with your stares thats how I got use to my scorp ex's stares we would lock eyes I would be like oh shit target locked then I would get nervous as hell but as soon as she would shoot that smile I felt relief because I knew that beautiful girl was into me like I was into her
This is key. One momentary sweet smile sends more of a clear signal, than all of the hours of obsessive staring combined.
OK TOMORROW I SMILE OR FRIDAY AND I EXPLAIN YOU EVERYTHING 😄
Thank you for replying 😄 😄
When I stare I look at everything. The shape of your face, the lines round your eyes, the way your head tilts, the smile, the frown, the little flicker of the eyes, the upturned corners of your lips, any micro expressions you give off, how you hold yourself, the outline of your shoulders, the texture of your hands...
Oh and I definitely look at your arse too! ?
haha I don't see him those days, well yes but I was very busy so I couldn't just sit and watch him haha but my friends always said to me "I saw a stare from him.." "he stare hungrily at you" ..
Ok so I realize that my LAST school year is done in 3 weeks and I need to smile + to make him confortable + see him to speak after the exams + work for my exams haha
But I don't know if he's gonna "answer" well to my smile so I don't really dare and because there's always my friend or his friends and I'm very very very private, like REALLY I can't show an affection sign in front of people I just CAN'T...
Posted by busyeyes88
@OP. Maybe you should both do less staring and start speaking..
+1 I was thinking this very same thing!
Haha trust me, I try everything
The thing people don't get about this connection of Taurus boy Scorpio girl is that were both fixed feminine energy signs that are used to attracting people towards us with out having to initiate or chase. which I think is a reason why these two always are attracted to each other but never really make a move towards each other until one of them just says f it and goes for it most of the time it's Scorpio who does the initiating because even though the Taurus maybe In mad love with the Scorpio girl his fear of her presence/power/sexiness will keep him doughting himself.
This is the thing I don't understand about taurus : they can love with all their heart, but don't initiate everything because of shyness...
Posted by Scorpiaaaaassss
This is the thing I don't understand about taurus : they can love with all their heart, but don't initiate everything because of shyness...
The trouble with Bulls is they have no balls...
Oooooh I'm gonna scuttle away and hid under my scorpion rock...
That's because we did always have more brains than balls O'Connell
Posted by Scorpiaaaaassss
This is the thing I don't understand about taurus : they can love with all their heart, but don't initiate everything because of shyness...The trouble with Bulls is they have no balls...
Oooooh I'm gonna scuttle away and hid under my scorpion rock... ?
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Omg P, you pulled me out of Lurkerville just to laugh out loud at that!!
Maybe it's a male bull/female Scorpio thing because I've never had a problem with male Scorpios making a move on me & I'm pretty blunt with my intentions too, probably too forward actually lol
Posted by Scorpiaaaaassss
This is the thing I don't understand about taurus : they can love with all their heart, but don't initiate everything because of shyness...The trouble with Bulls is they have no balls...
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Especially after you emasculate them....lol.
Sooo today "nothing happened" just his friens smiling at me like "iknoweverything🙂" and him as always suffocate with his cigaret..........................................................
and I speak with my friend and she said to me that I look at him with a very INTENSE stare and that's why he is so "scared" of me....
Actually I don't want to smile because it's too hypocritical, like I don't want to smile without saying anything...but I think I need to..
I can't speak for all the bulls but to me that smile will be like saying a thousand words to him without actually saying anything and I'm sure he'll love it
Posted by LentoBull91
That's because we did always have more brains than balls O'Connell
Two balls... One brain... I see a shortfall of brain already... ?
I'm just kidding!
Posted by Scorpiaaaaassss
This is the thing I don't understand about taurus : they can love with all their heart, but don't initiate everything because of shyness...The trouble with Bulls is they have no balls...
Oooooh I'm gonna scuttle away and hid under my scorpion rock... ?
Omg P, you pulled me out of Lurkerville just to laugh out loud at that!!
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Glad to be out and about doing my community service _
Posted by Scorpiaaaaassss
This is the thing I don't understand about taurus : they can love with all their heart, but don't initiate everything because of shyness...The trouble with Bulls is they have no balls...
Especially after you emasculate them....lol.
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Beaten by a Scorpion... Pfffft... You should be embarrassed!!
Posted by LentoBull91
I can't speak for all the bulls but to me that smile will be like saying a thousand words to him without actually saying anything and I'm sure he'll love it
Oh wow ... well.. I think I'm going to smile 😄
Posted by Scorpiaaaaassss
This is the thing I don't understand about taurus : they can love with all their heart, but don't initiate everything because of shyness...The trouble with Bulls is they have no balls...
Especially after you emasculate them....lol.
Beaten by a Scorpion... Pfffft... You should be embarrassed!!
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Yet I feel this overwhelming sense of relief.....lolol
Posted by Scorpiaaaaassss
This is the thing I don't understand about taurus : they can love with all their heart, but don't initiate everything because of shyness...The trouble with Bulls is they have no balls...
Especially after you emasculate them....lol.
Beaten by a Scorpion... Pfffft... You should be embarrassed!!
Yet I feel this overwhelming sense of relief.....lolol
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Fella, that's just a bad case of gas! _?'?
HELLO ??
So todayyyy I think he smiles at me
like a "intimate smile" not the smile that everybody can see ! but i'm not really sure, but yeah I think he smiles at me !
And btw I was with friends outside and he comes and actually I was .. thinking so I don't see him first and one of my friend said to me that when he sees me he start to remove his eyes of me and act like "shy" and very embarassed !!!
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Hello ! I recently create a topic called "An other problem with a taurus man" in which I explain the "problem" !
So, this taurus man seems to be clearly AFRAID or SCARED of me !
When I'm alone and him too he panics like I never seen, or when I'm close to him physically (like next to him) or when I walk in his direction I can read in his face "OH SHIT OH SHIT OH SHIT" lol it's actually funny BUT problematic, because I decided to try to talk to him seriously about my feelings in july, but I feel like he's gonna look down and say "no" because he is afraid !
I don't know, maybe when I stare at him I look..angry but I don't think so, actually people say to me that it's more a stare as if I challenged him, I don't really know how to explain, imagine a scorpio stare very intense lol
But actually in my head I don't challenge him at all !
When I try to smile at him, he suddenly ignore me, but not ignoring like "i don't care" more "i see EVERY SINGLE THING but not you"
So I don't really know how to deal with this, because I want to make him comfortable, to show him that I'm not angry against him..
I hope you will answer !
Bye 😄