Have any of you Taureans ever changed your mind...

and reconciled with an ex?

Thought it might be easier to ask this way 😉

When I usually break it off with someone I never go back...I will stay and try and fix it, I will bend backwards to make it right but when it gets to the point where I think I have done all I can, I walk away...and the good thing about it is that I will let you know when im reaching that point..Once I go I won't come back..once I lose that love I can never feel the same again. The reason why I try hard is because I don't like to look back and have any regrets or think what if...And believe me when I leave I leave..lol I change numbers, emails, everything, its like a hibernating healing process..once I'm healed and I see him I will say hello and move on..But never again will I go back.

So to answer your question, No I have not.

In what way do you let them know?

Posted by TaurusBadGirl
When I usually break it off with someone I never go back...I will stay and try and fix it, I will bend backwards to make it right but when it gets to the point where I think I have done all I can, I walk away...and the good thing about it is that I will let you know when im reaching that point..Once I go I won't come back..once I lose that love I can never feel the same again. The reason why I try hard is because I don't like to look back and have any regrets or think what if...And believe me when I leave I leave..lol I change numbers, emails, everything, its like a hibernating healing process..once I'm healed and I see him I will say hello and move on..But never again will I go back.

So to answer your question, No I have not.

I won't lie, I have gone back to two people once after we broke up; needless to say, obviously it didn't work out, but to TaurusBadGirls point, 90% of the time, I do not go back. I do EVERYTHING in my power to make it work, but once it becomes obvious that it's not, pride does step in, and I have to cut my losses and go. Further, especially given my two experiences of going back, for me, it doesn't work. It's as if the relationship has been tainted/poisoned, and there is NOTHING I can do to rid the relationship of the taint/poison. Also, when I leave, there are no regrets, because I know in my heart of hearts I've given my all and gone ABOVE and BEYOND.

Posted by USCTaurusGal

Posted by TaurusBadGirl
When I usually break it off with someone I never go back...I will stay and try and fix it, I will bend backwards to make it right but when it gets to the point where I think I have done all I can, I walk away...and the good thing about it is that I will let you know when im reaching that point..Once I go I won't come back..once I lose that love I can never feel the same again. The reason why I try hard is because I don't like to look back and have any regrets or think what if...And believe me when I leave I leave..lol I change numbers, emails, everything, its like a hibernating healing process..once I'm healed and I see him I will say hello and move on..But never again will I go back.

So to answer your question, No I have not.

I won't lie, I have gone back to two people once after we broke up; needless to say, obviously it didn't work out, but to TaurusBadGirls point, 90% of the time, I do not go back. I do EVERYTHING in my power to make it work, but once it becomes obvious that it's not, pride does step in, and I have to cut my losses and go. Further, especially given my two experiences of going back, for me, it doesn't work. It's as if the relationship has been tainted/poisoned, and there is NOTHING I can do to rid the relationship of the taint/poison. Also, when I leave, there are no regrets, because I know in my heart of hearts I've given my all and gone ABOVE and BEYOND.

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Yeah that is why I never have regrets because I give it my all...I hate to have in my head that little voice "what if" none of that for me. I tried and tried. I promise I won't look back.

Posted by NikkiMse1978
In what way do you let them know?

I tell them..."just know Im trying my hardest to make this work if I see its not going anywhere I will start to lose intrest and once I do Its out of my control because as much as I care now if I lose what I feel I wont be able to get it back, no matter what"

Love needs to be fed, nourished, 2 people need to work on the relationship..if you see that the other doesn't care or they are not putting in any effort then that relationship is going no where...It takes 2 for it to shine and bloom.

So mingle me this.
You can meet your ex for dinner or drinks just fine, catching up on passed time, without any worry that there might be something there still. Your current girlfriend or boyfriend has absolutely nothing to worry about?

Fascinating if so because I couldn't do that until a very long time has passed.

Yes, but it requires a good pitch.

Posted by Ormas
So mingle me this.
You can meet your ex for dinner or drinks just fine, catching up on passed time, without any worry that there might be something there still. Your current girlfriend or boyfriend has absolutely nothing to worry about?

Fascinating if so because I couldn't do that until a very long time has passed.

I can do that. I went to see an ex Taurus of 7 years, 3 months after breaking up with him and have a chat of everything. I thought it was sufficient time for him to get over it. But I needed the information on his end why he thought it didn't work. I may have imposed myself because he seemed to be anxious and could not look at me directly in the eye.

I don't know the rest of his chart but I have an aries moon an Venus in Gemini. Those who are more versed tell me this the reason why these things don't phase me and can quickly pick up and go.

Posted by USCTaurusGal

Posted by TaurusBadGirl
When I usually break it off with someone I never go back...I will stay and try and fix it, I will bend backwards to make it right but when it gets to the point where I think I have done all I can, I walk away...and the good thing about it is that I will let you know when im reaching that point..Once I go I won't come back..once I lose that love I can never feel the same again. The reason why I try hard is because I don't like to look back and have any regrets or think what if...And believe me when I leave I leave..lol I change numbers, emails, everything, its like a hibernating healing process..once I'm healed and I see him I will say hello and move on..But never again will I go back.

So to answer your question, No I have not.

I won't lie, I have gone back to two people once after we broke up; needless to say, obviously it didn't work out, but to TaurusBadGirls point, 90% of the time, I do not go back. I do EVERYTHING in my power to make it work, but once it becomes obvious that it's not, pride does step in, and I have to cut my losses and go. Further, especially given my two experiences of going back, for me, it doesn't work. It's as if the relationship has been tainted/poisoned, and there is NOTHING I can do to rid the relationship of the taint/poison. Also, when I leave, there are no regrets, because I know in my heart of hearts I've given my all and gone ABOVE and BEYOND.

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Just out of curiosity, what if the relationship was tainted/poisoned by a Taurus? Noting against you both in general. I just want to know what if it was the Taurus that messed things up? You guys say you go above and beyond, see I have done that for a Taurus showing him i want to be with him. It was him that poisined the relationship when in fact I did nothing for him to promote that type of behavior. I am slowly getting over him but I was just curious. Do you think Taurus leave and stay away out of guilt or just becuase you don't care.

Posted by Impulsv
I'm in your same delima sensualcancerchick. Curious to know the answer if a Taurus would go back because they know it was their fault and didn't give it their all. Would they be curious enough to try again and give it a good try. I sense also that Taurus may stay away because of guilt.

Taurus guys can sometimes, and most often self-sabotage their relationships. He can, or may tell you, how hurt he has been by past relationships. You will be thinking within your self-dialogue .. I will wait, wait, wait ... be patient, patient, patient. And he will KNOW. They can say words behind text msgs, that they would never speak to your face. HE is thinking ... "play with yourself .. and think of ME." When you finally come to the point of realizing that he rarely called and you stated a goodbye, he MAY come around and reappear, because he knows it WAS his fault and didn't give his all. He reappears, and yes, he shows up, out of guilt.

My bull has not come around.. when he talked about his feeelings it was always face to face.. but to me he is like a gemini 2 faced...he says one thing and his actions says another.. he said he wanted somebody like beyonce to show him how much a girl cares and loves him well damn it, I WAS HIS BEYONCE! I sure did Dance for him and several times...lol He just a fool and I am slowly moving on. I was on the verge of loving him and what stopped me was my common sense to just let it go.