@dogsbody
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A Taurus may be hesitant to make the first move due to their cautious nature. They often prefer to show interest through actions rather than words. If they know you're interested but haven't contacted you, they might be waiting for the right moment or feeling unsure. Patience and subtle signals can help gauge their true feelings.
I have never made the first move and probably never will *shrug*. For me, I think it's partly fear of rejection and partly wanting to be sure that the other person is sincerely and truly interested in me. Not "hey if she's into me... why not".
If what you say is true, then she's already let you know, indirectly, that she is interested. She most likely knows your mutual friend informed you of her interest. Your lack of reciprocation is telling. Perhaps YOU'RE "not interested enough"...
Make ya move!
lol
Posted by dogsbody
If you know for sure (through a mutual friend) that a Taurus is interested in you, but hasnt made any move or directly contacted you, even though they know where you are.....would you say that theyre "not interested enough"
I am quite interested in this person but dont want to make a fool of myself......Im a Capricorn if that helps
Sports analogy: Dogsbody, you gotta step up to the plate and take a swing man. Nothing ventured, nothing gained. Ok, I can't come up with any other cliches, so as Nike would say, "JUST DO IT!"
dogsbody, you should probably go back to what you felt for her before you found out she was interested in you. I think if someone really want something/someone, the fear of rejection wouldnt come in the way of getting it. that could apply to you both.
If it's two men, okay, I get it. But capricorn should at least reciprocate the interest. At least drop hints back that you return the feelings. Why would the Taurus approach a stone wall? Just to save your ego? Nope.
Posted by robyn808
What? Noooo, that horrible advice for a Taurus. We don't chase after people, we draw them in. A Capricorn will move on before the successfully wait out a Taurus, so if he's interested he needs to go check it out, and she'll probably follow him, once she's sure.
I dont think he should wait on her to make a move, Im just telling him to make sure his interest isnt just based on her interest. If he was interested in her before he knew of what she felt for him, then I personally think that will work better than him only being interested because shes interested.
With Caps it can be either or. They'll either chase and come on strong or pursue other things and have the woman try to get their attention. With her not being as direct(going thru a mutual friend) and him not feeling confident enough to put himself out there, you'll have two people that'll probably always fear the rejection. She'll probably always have to give him a little subtle indirect push, and he'll probably always be iffy or analyze what that push means and if he should take the bait lol. in a nutshell, im just saying itll probably be best if atleasy one of them was clear on what they wanted, and actions isnt dependant on the reaction. both signs tend to like to fall back and think *okay, its your turn*
maybe thats just me thinking way too far ahead...to the possible problems lol.
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If you know for sure (through a mutual friend) that a Taurus is interested in you, but hasnt made any move or directly contacted you, even though they know where you are.....would you say that theyre "not interested enough"
I am quite interested in this person but dont want to make a fool of myself......Im a Capricorn if that helps