He wants me to meet his friends...I think..

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So there is a concert coming up and I asked if he wanted to go. He said he will be going with a lot of his friends so he said if you want to join our gang you are more than welcome. I accepted this invitation and now I'm thinking eep!!

Ok I'm a pisces and some of you may or may not know how pisces are...we think the worst. I helps us keep guarded cause our emotions run so deep, we think the worst so if it comes true we expect it and if it's better yeah!

Anywho...I'm kinda getting nervous about it. I'm worried (I think this should be the pisces tagline besides I don't know or I don't care oh yeah whatever) that if I go by my lonesome, I would be ignored and/or I would be on the outskirts of the group. I'm also worried the taurus moon will kick in and I would be somewhat possesive over him (I just know some girls are going to come) and they will monopolize his time. I wouldn't state such a thing but I'm afraid my mood would be affected.

So my question is should I bring someone to avoid this? I would want to but if this is a test in some way to see how I get along with his "circle" would he think of this move badly? What should I expect? I mean every person is different but for a pisces we mingle with all of our friends and our guests...we float around like butterflies. I can be withdrawn at times and observe... which I always do around people I do not know.

I'm overthinking this I'm sure (tons of virgo and taurus in my chart), so I kinda want to have my thoughts in order here.

Any thoughts?
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I don't know the details and history between you two. Not enough info. All I can gather from this is that it sounds like a very casual, friendly invite. I would do that to someone if they were a meager acquaintance and I wasn't attracted to them at all. Not a good indicator of deep feelings. I don't test people. They reveal themselves over time.

Is he a taurus? Us fixed signs are better equipped to handle straight forward communications. Might be hard for a pisces though.
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He is indeed a taurus.

As far as the history I would keep it kinda short and sweet, if possible. We meet on an online dating site (no suprise) and we kept in contact, he would give me his number and suggest we meet. I said it sounded like fun and never did. So after that we moved to FB friends and the same old he gives me his number and suggest we meet and I replied we should and never did. Fast forward to about 6 months later I finally texted him and we ended up going out. We had a blast and I slept over for the night. I know, I know. We snuggled and did a lot of talking. He told me about his past and childhood. I just listened. A few days later we meet up again to play some disc golf at his favorite course. I never played and we are both competitive, so that was fun and interesting.

That date was a 11 hours long, I didn't stay over for reasons I will not state here, but I could tell he didn't want me to go. We keep in contact either everyday or every other day with both of us initating.

He offered to cook for me, played and sang in front of me, we watched tv together, spent about a couple of hours together just staring into each others eyes not saying anything and just caressing each other. He offered to get a disc for me that was out of the way and a pain in the arse to get. Stuff like that.

I know there is an attraction cause he stated so...

As far as the communication factor I'm pretty much guarded, but if he asks me a direct question I will answer it honestly and direct. I ask him a few questions, but I don't prod. I figure he will reveal them once he is willing and wants to. I'm in no rush.

Let me know, if you need more info.
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Oh as you can tell we are very early in...what ever this is. I leery of placing names of things.

This could be something very casual and it could be the start of something more, I have no freaking fracking idea.

On our first date he was going to take me to see his brother's band play, but he was at work and the time he got off they were done playing, plus they were playing at a place 40 minutes away. So we went to a bar instead.
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Those details have not been worked out due to it's in August. I like to plan but I don't want to seem pushy lol. Everywhere we been I went to his house and we drove to where ever we are going to go. We never meet up at another place.

Yeah I'm thinking that. We have very similar taste in music, but none of my friends do. lol so they will have to suffer, but I would buy them beer in return. lol

But you are indeed correct, if it is just me we could ride together.