Im a scorpio woman. Im 26 and my Taurus guy is 23. Ive never dealt with a Taurus before. They're not usually my type. But ive known this one for about 11 years since we were young. We just started up about a month ago. It was very unexpected and we're still figuring stuff out. So far we're in the friends with benefits stage. Neither one of us wants a commitment cuz we just both got out long term relationships this year that didnt end well. Even tho i dont want anything serious i still like him very much. We're very sexually compatible and we laugh ALOT together. He says its only physical but his actions speak other wise. The past couple times we've been together he's shown signs of being very jealous and possessive. Which is ok with me. What im having trouble with is every time i try to be extra nice or kinda cutesy i can feel him clamp up. Now im a woman who knows what she wants and ive already told him i dont want a relationship so he has nothing to worry about. How do i get him to drop his guard and allow me to be affectionate towards him outside of sex? I feel he thinks that when i do things like that it means i want something serious or im trying to reel him in. When really i just want us to make each other feel good. Help lol
