Does Taurus guy hate me?

Usually contact was either intense or sporadic, but early September it dwindled to...nothing 😢 I have sent maybe 2/3 messages over the last month but not received a reply to any of them. Light hearted, how's it going type, none of the confrontational, what's going on ones. I just wondered about the ghosting, the last time I saw him, we had a good time so suppose I'm just a bit like wtf?!

Text him "I'm coming over"....and wait for the reply....

Depending on the reply, I will advise you on how to proceed.

No way!!!

I didn't advise that you go over there...

I advised that you text him 'stating that you were coming over there....and just wait for the reply.'

This is the only way you will know.

Hmmm, the vibe isn't right for that. I'm feeling rejected about it, so if he said "sure, come over" I wouldn't go because I'm unsure why this has happened.

Or, I think it's potentially my fault, being a very little bit enthusiastic.

If he responds 'sure, come over.'

It's a great sign.

That he's prepared to want me for sex..that's what it would mean. I want MARRIAGE!

You're not getting it.

You're asking for advice and you're not taking it.

It doesn't matter if you felt you had a good time whenever you saw him, the last interaction you had was him ignoring you.

You want to marry a guy that ignores you? Come on man.

Are you a Water sign?

Are you a Water sign?

Yeah, the advice is too much for me! I'm not ready for that step. I was just more curious about the complete cut off.

**I'm an air sign** not an single drop of water in my whole chart!

No one will be able to give you a direct answer.

There are a myriad of reasons that can attribute to it.

If you plan to build a future with a Bull, I strongly advise that you grow a thick skin.

We're not always straightforward in the 'vulnerability or communication' department.

For an Air sign you're quite the p*ssy!

No pun intended.

I can take communication in all it's given forms..but the silent treatment, damn!

I am a libra! What do you mean "communicate with me this way"??

Perfect sense, thank you! Another reason why I love Taureans, they make sense of me more than I do of myself! My brain just moves so fast, I forget how to be specific and pay attention to details.

Well my chart is:

Libra sun, sag moon, sag mars, virgo venus.

He has:

Taurus sun, aqua moon, aries mars and venus.

We have been communicating on and off for most of this year. Like runner and chaser..each taking a turn. We got together, it was really nice..nothing so powerful that it became overwhelming, just a nic energy between us. Then he got distant, and communication started to whither away. The last time I saw him, we were talking a lot about our spiritual similarities, and a lot of other cool things. He asked me to message him later, but whenever i have, he hasn't answered with a single word. It's been the case in the past that he took longer to respond or whatever, always something at least. Now for the first time, there's nothing.

Yeah, I'm in complete agreement that it's just not decent. Despite how I feel, I'll never contact him again unless he contacts me first. Not from a place of pettiness, just because if it's fruitless, there's no point. Thanks for helping to get some clarity, time will help too 🙂

Then I'm doomed! We connected, I'm old and experienced enough to know that for sure. And I'm also sure he's already had his next conquest and I wish him well because it's so beneath me to hold grudges or negativity. He doesn't believe in love or commitment, I know it comes from fear despite how he tries to deny it. But, that's his issue, I wasn't trying to change his mind.

I just wasn't ready to give up so quickly.

He's leaving a loooong trail of broken hearts behind him. At least we didn't start what couldn't be finished, and I'm happy to have had the experience. He was a 10, but hell, so am I!

Yay!