How do they act when they want you back?

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deelana750
@deelana750
7 Years

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I broke up with this guy and he told me he still wanted to be my friends and spend time with me. He also told me I could call him whenever I needed him and he didn't need to be intimate with me to be around me and that he wants to see me when he's back in town. Then he messages me the next day to see how I am and since then he's been liking my tweets everyday.

I have absolutely no idea what this behavior means or how I should proceed. when I agreed to be friends I thought it meant after a grace period of letting each other heal from the break up. I am friends with his sister and family so us just not talking and being shitty to each other just because its done seemed silly to us both. I'm not sure if he genuinely wants to be friends or if he's trying to get me back in a romantic sense.

Someone please help, I don't date a lot and I am so confused all the time.

Thank you!

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deelana750
@deelana750
7 Years

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Actually I left. He wanted to remain friends immediately and the next day liked my tweets, messaged me to ask how my days was. Our entire relationship was tricky because hes my best friends little brother and I am close with his family. He also lives about 4 hours away from me and his family. I still do not know why he thought I was a good choice for a partner. We have known eachother for years and I am always at his parents house and recently, we are both single at the same time and he confessed feelings for me but I didn't take him seriously because we had been drinking. He then kissed me the next day and pretty much we hung out and have since been seeing each other whenever we can, talking on the phone, texting every day. He started to call me his girl and make "jokes" about marriage and having babies together? I am greatly taken aback by this because I usually date guys who never want commitment. He recently asked me to come hang out with his family and wanted to start telling people about us. Then, he just fell off the face of the planet. Started answering my messages a full 24 hours after but assuring me he's not ignoring me. I am going through a lot and need stability and support in my life right now and I don't think he can provide that for me because hes so focused on his new job and then theres the distance.. so idk. I thought him being distant was him hinting that he didn't want to be with me anymore so I pushed him out. He called me the next day and told me he still wanted to be friends and that he thinks that we should see each other when hes home next and that I can call him whenever I need him or need to vent or anything like that. He basically offered me everything I got while in a relationship but without sex or the title because he told me he didn't need to be intimate with me to enjoy being around me. He also was flirting a bit on the phone and I can BET that if he hang out he would flirt. What I'm ultimately wondering is: Is he staying close with the hopes of rekindling the relationship or is he just genuinely trying to be my friend?

SORRRY FOR THE NOVEL. Thank you for reading x