Taurus are very cautious. We always evaluate the situation and person before being absolutely certain. We sit and observe for a long time. We have to be sure that you are the one that is worthy of our love, because when we love, we love deep and are not able to let go very easily.
Confirming status depends on the person, if we've been hurt before, it could take some time, for each person it could be a different time frame. Things have to fit, make sense and be comfortable for the Taurus. Some younger Taurus will confirm boyfriend/ girlfriend status pretty quickly, but they are still inexperienced, and most times move very quickly which does not always work out in the long run.
I have been with my guy for 2 years and had not called him my boyfriend in front of his face until a year in a half into the relationship. I guess the word had to fit the situation and it only felt right to say it when I really meant it.
Some of us choose to get to know just who we are with before we go to bed with them. It for me means that I place a higher value on sex than some need to fill to get the rocks off for a night. I am a Taurus with a Venus in Gemini myself.
Venus is not a major part of serious emotional involvements. You can't just say he has a Venus in Gemini and say he is automatically fickle. I am the most fixated person of anyone around me and have maintained a long distance relationship without thinking about moving on. I have a Mars in Leo, for men that along with the sun sign are more important to look at than a Venus sign imo. The Venus sign represents what I am attracted to (the fickle type) not who I am. It represents your method of love and what you require. I require a strong intellectual bond in a partner, for example. If you can't communicate, you won't get to the next step with me.
Good luck with him and remember to focus on the big picture a little more. The Venus in him can be more important than mine and figure in a little more depending on the aspects it makes. But for me the Mars is thing you should look at, if it is in a mutable sign and house than you might have something to watch out for on top of the Venus in Gemini.
Confirming status depends on the person, if we've been hurt before, it could take some time, for each person it could be a different time frame. Things have to fit, make sense and be comfortable for the Taurus. Some younger Taurus will confirm boyfriend/ girlfriend status pretty quickly, but they are still inexperienced, and most times move very quickly which does not always work out in the long run.
I have been with my guy for 2 years and had not called him my boyfriend in front of his face until a year in a half into the relationship. I guess the word had to fit the situation and it only felt right to say it when I really meant it.
Good luck!