I'm a bisexual girl and Taurus girl keeps flirting with me

So.. For a long time now.
She has a man with who she's been in a relationship like 4 years. He's often on business trip though. Sometimes he leaves for 3-4 months.
Anyway we have had that grazily intense emotional connection with that Taurus girl. I do believe we truly are soulmates, we have that telepathic connection.

So since I was in love with her, I asked her to stay away from me. I didn't really tell why but I'm sure she knows.
I just didn't want to keep having that relationship where she has a man but at the same time sends a lot of flirty messages to me. Like says that she has so big bed but feels so alone there with kiss emoticons etc.

She kept contacting me but then I blocked her. Sounds rude but I asked her to keep the distance.
Now we had like 6 month break from any communication. I really almost forget her existence because I focused on other stuff/other people but now she messages me from another number and we have a deep talk on some topics... Now I cannot get her out of my head.
But it's the 3rd or 4th time I tried to block her from my life but she keeps coming in. Why she does that?
And always sooooo flirty!

It's like I want more than just messages full of love. But she does have a man. Do you think I'm a game for her?

Her moon is in Scorpio. Do I need to tell other aspects as well do analyze that..?

And I hope you guys are not homophobic :S That's the last thing I need now. Just ignore then.
I am so exhausted because I'm a romantic soul being in love with her for a long time and she doesn't take me seriously.

I say keep ignoring her. It sounds like you know whats up.

What sign are you

I think us Bulls can be hard to deter off a path, once we lock into what we want. I say be direct and tell her it's not cool - you can't be with him and me.

Thanks for the reply girls.
I'm a Pisces sun and Pisces Venus, a bit into illusions.
Yeah it's just so difficult to ignore her if she nicely says hello and just asks how am I doing.
I feel that by not replying anything I am acting like a really cold and ignorant human being. It's not nice. But when I reply we find having interesting topics to talk about. It just happens. She's deep and intellectual and also spiritual and I don't have that type of person in my life. It's a rare connection. This is why I feel so paradoxical about her.


But yeah, I'm gonna try harder. Otherwise she keeps getting the energy she wants.
Because I can't find someone else if I keep being in connection with her. She's enigmatic you know 🙂 You can't have 15% or 65% of that, you want 100 or 0.

I really appreciate your comments. I don't have anyone to talk about that situation. It's so good to hear objective opinions of other people. Sometimes you just see thing soooo differently when you are IN the situation and nothing thinking clearly.

Posted by MissGemmi
If you tell a water sign to stop contacting a person they will be craving it more. Me thinks.

I know this Pisces/Taurus dynamics and magnetism. Pisces are easy to talk to, open, sweet and sensual and the Taurus is too. Good friendships come out of it and also wonderful marriages. Be careful though. She is already married and I know Taurus love to flirt and use their charismatic powers on people. They are really hard to resist. Thing is she knows your bisexual and will use this to feel attractive and considered by the opposite and might as well same sex. I feel all Taurus have bisexual traits, it's because they love beauty, feminine traits and sensuality.
I have a Taurus friend and she somewhat 'knows' I'm bisexual too and she uses this to make remarks, being lovey dovey, flirty, touchy, cuddly, strokes my arm with her finger tips even more so then she does with her other friends. I've got another Taurus friend who acts on similar traits, but isn't that obvious.

I've taken this as their Taurus personality. It's just how they are, sensual and feminine and I've never taken it as them really being into me. I love that about Taurus. Warm, laid back, feminine, talkative, spiritual, understanding, sensual. Taurus is on my number one list, followed by cancers 😉

Why wouldn't you continue to talk to her? Taurus make excellent friends. Just be clear about your own intentions and communicate to her that she shouldn't continue flirting with you, because it doesn't make you feel comfortable especially because she's married. You might not be the only one she's talking to 'this way'. From experience I learn that they have some multiple ones they get flirty with.

Oh I see. I don't know any other Taurean girls, just men. I guess it might be true, she indeed is very sensual and flirty.
Like when she asked about my boyfriends.. I was silent. Then she smiled and asked about girlfriends. I said that yes I once had a gf.
Then she was smiling again and said right away: oh actually I think I'm a bisexual, too.

Can you imagine how that affected my brain on that moment? 😄

She's not married, it's just a conhabitation. I hope this is the right word, I'm not a native speaker.
They are in a unofficial relationship, broke up few times and ended back together.

Being friend with her would be amazing but then I keep having the feelings and somehow, unconsciously I would hope more.

And from what I've experienced she will not get less flirty. C'mon when she contaced me on whatsupp from another number, her profile picture was girl kissing a girl. Really, not helping to have all ''friendly'' image of her

Posted by busyeyes88

Posted by kaseke9
Thanks for the reply girls.
I'm a Pisces sun and Pisces Venus, a bit into illusions.
Yeah it's just so difficult to ignore her if she nicely says hello and just asks how am I doing.
I feel that by not replying anything I am acting like a really cold and ignorant human being. It's not nice. But when I reply we find having interesting topics to talk about. It just happens. She's deep and intellectual and also spiritual and I don't have that type of person in my life. It's a rare connection. This is why I feel so paradoxical about her.


But yeah, I'm gonna try harder. Otherwise she keeps getting the energy she wants.
Because I can't find someone else if I keep being in connection with her. She's enigmatic you know 🙂 You can't have 15% or 65% of that, you want 100 or 0.

I really appreciate your comments. I don't have anyone to talk about that situation. It's so good to hear objective opinions of other people. Sometimes you just see thing soooo differently when you are IN the situation and nothing thinking clearly.

I also have venus in pisces and unless you want this "saga" to stop, you will have no choice but to have to cut her off!!! None of this is affecting her... Just you!!! She has her man and extra attention from you!!! It's your choice!

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busyeyes88, you most probably are right.
I was always thinking that somehow we will end up together, that it just needs time and we need other life experiences at the moment.
Even the way I met her.. When I first looked into her eyes, my all stomach went HOT like I had drank the strongest zip of vodka.
Then we talked few words (sitting next to each other in a training) and left.
Eight months later, in another place, we are facing each other again.

Yeah I know I sound like a 12 year old girl making it all sound overly romantic and fateful but it's so difficult to just throw her away.
But you are probably right, I just need to program that into my brain.
Just want to cut off her in a nice and respectful way.

yes keep ignoring her. she will keep walking thru your boundaries if you continue to let her. sadly you have come across one of the many taureans unhappy in their relationship but unwilling to do anything about it. she most likely cares for you but she obviously cant make up her mind what she wants if shes continuing on with this man AND you. she wants to have her cake and eat it too and thats not fair to you. you sound very sweet and i hope you can move on and meet someone equally as sweet to share your feelings. best wishes and positive energy your way!

sincerely,
heather

All attention isnt good attention