About a year ago I met at really cool guy on Social Media. We met hung out once or twice, and then he started pursuing me hard. I had just got out of a very very very long relationship and really wasn't looking for anything serious. I was/still am getting over the situation with my ex, it was really messy. But through it all my Taurus has been a huge part of me working through this. He's so patient, understanding, he's just been there in some really huge ways. About 4-5 months ago I started feeling something more for him. I let him know how I was feeling and he told me he wasn't ready, that he didn't want to hurt me and that he wasn't the guy for me. I told him okay I understood, and thanked him for being honest. But he sends mixed signals still and that's why I'm confused. For instance when I'm out and if he or I texts one another, most of the time he asks who I'm with. He's in the entertainment industry, and when I go to his events and he sees me talking to other guys, he'll find a reason to come around me. Kind of like he's reminding me he's there. I respect him, so I will chat with a guy friendly. But I'm not going to flirt with anyone in front of him. He has even got upset with me, and let me know he gets bothered with seeing me talk to other guys. But he'll never tell me how he feels, he gets upset when I can't see him (I work two jobs) and then he won't talk to me for days. I'm usually the one who has to reach out. I saw one of his good friends while I was out one night, and they asked me what was going on between us. I told him we were just friends, and they told me I was lying. So I explained the situation, and his friend told me that they'd never seen him act the way he does with me. But that he's really focused on his career, and feels at times that I am a distraction. That's why he'll talk to me for days on end and then nothing. For instance on night things got kind of personal, he was telling me things, and I opened up about the situation with my ex. I kind of stated that I'm still not fully over him, we were together for 10 years. And after I texted him that, I haven't heard from him since (4 days ago). people say I should be patient, and that I should wait it out. But I'm not sure that's a good idea, I'm taking him at his word that he isn't ready. But at the same time I really feel something for him. I don't know what to do. Any insight??
