In Love with a Taurean Man

I'm a junior in college. Last semester I got accepted into this dorm for graduate students and for the very first time I think I am in love --- with my RA. I went out with guys before but I've NEVER felt this way for anyone. He is polite and affectionate. He will do stuff for me. Little stuff like whenever I have kitchen duty, he helps me with the dishes, the trash and even show me how to adjust the water temperaure to make the cleaning easier. He'd compliment me on my cooking even though it's straight out of the can and I just need to dump it in the pot and boil it. At first, I thought he's just a regular nice guy and didn't put much thought into it. Besides, he never said or did anything other than that. Then, I went home for Christmas, and after a month apart, I found myself missing him to the point that I wish I'd die if I don't get to see him again. I really don't understand how do I get myself to this point since we'd only talked briefly for a few times and I am not even sure if he has a girlfriend or not. Still, somehow his tenderness and sweetness has worked its way to my heart and I'm definitely LOVESICK. Now school is almost over for both him and me, literally. He is going to get his Ph.D. this summer and I will be finishing my senior year abroad. He is still nice and polite as usual but now I am getting pissed. Is he just playing with me or is he just this way with all the girls? If he does like me, why doesn't he do something FAST? I wouldn't mind making the first move if I can be sure that he IS interested and I won't scare him away. Please help me. By the way, he was born on 15th May, 1975, and I am a Virgo with Cancer rising.

I am taurus guy. From what girls have told me, it is not that hard to tell if we like you. If he's gotten a little quieter when in your presence, or goes out of his way to give you a complement. He's probably feeling something. If he acts this way around everybody, than you never know. If he stares blankly in your direction or gets nervous around you, he's probably into you. Maybe he's confused, some girls are a little too subtle when it comes to showing signs of interest. He could of brushed it off as kindness. I do it all the time. Just hint to him that your interested, if he still does nothing, you better tell his blind a** how you feel. No matter what the outcome, you'll be glad you did it, or you'll be beating yourself up for the rest of your life if you pass this by. I hope this helps.

im a pisces girl and im in love with a taurean.i dont know if i should tell him how i feel.should i?help me!! i cant hold it in anymore!!!

luv always,
still in love with you

I met this Taurus man and we went out twice...I thought we were hitting things off pretty well. After the second date I called him and left a msg. that I had a great time. I had not heard from him in awhile so I called and left him another msg. saying hi and hoping he was doing well. He did call back but instead of calling my home to speak with me personally, he left a msg. on my voice mail. He said for me to call him back. I did and once again, he did not answer his phone so I left another msg. Still haven't heard from him.....is this a "normal" thing a Taurus male will do or is this the "sign" of no interest? just wondering. I will say that I felt on our first date that he came on very strong....he did not get his way however....could this be the reason why?

thanks for any possible insight on this situation....

I don't want to hurt you in any way, but I think you need to forget about him. That is a Taurean sign of no interest. It sounds like he just wanted something and since he didn't get it...well you know the story. I'm sorry, most taurus men are good men, Is he young? It sounds like it, or at least he's acting like it.

Taurus Female

Thank you Taurus female for your opinion. No, you have not hurt me in any way as I did not have any result with this relationship. I sure would have liked to get to know him though as he seemed liked a nice guy. He is older, mid 40's. Divorced..still talks about his wife a lot. In my heart I know that he was after something else and this is why I trusted my instincts and said, no. So glad I did. I suppose as women we hope that men would like to get to know us as people and not as a way to release sexual tension. I am not saying all men are like this....I just felt he was. As they say, sometimes the things we do not get are the best gifts of all. I really appreciate your help. Thank you very much for taking the time to respond.

Taurus female...I forgot to sign off...sorry about that.

Aries female, 24.88

Your welcome, it is only my opinion though, I of course could be wrong. Maybe he's just to caught up on his ex right now to think about much more than sex. I'm sure it has nothing to do with you. He may eventually come around and try to be more with you, you never know.Good luck with what ever you decide to do.

Taurus Female

What a coincidence. I am an Aries female in a similar situation. I have a friend is going through some difficult times as well; career and divorce. He is also in his forties. Even though we haven't seen each other in some years we have been communicating by phone, email, etc. Right now we lost touch because of his personal issues. But I cannot take it personally because I know he needs time alone. He has stated that I am special so I believe when the time is right, he'll get in touch with me again. I hope the other Aries female who posted above will hear from her Taurus friend as well.

Aries female

Taurus Male here:

If we bulls were wounded by a previous relationship that we have a hard time resolving in our own minds, you can be sure approaching any new relationship will be with a little less trust...and if we can't trust you, we won't love you. Get him to trust you, that will help. But do tell him about your feelings, he doesn't like to guess about those things.

Taurus Male

You're so great Taurus Male.

I agree, he is.

Taurus Female

Thank you for that info Taurus Male. My Taurus male friend going through difficulties has told me he trusts me so I would say that is a very good sign for a good friendship -- and possible relationship.

Thanks again.

Aries female

I agree. That Taurus Male is wonderful.

Aries female

Taurus Male here:

My God, you ladies really make my day to be so complimentary. We Taurus males do adore ladies with sensitive hearts and minds....and ladies, I adore yours.

Thanks always for your kind thoughts.

Taurus Male

There you are; And you make our day because of the person I believe you seem to be. Which is kind, loving, passionate and a great sense of humor as well.

Have a good weekend Taurus Male.

Aries female

It is so true that us male Taurians need to hear and know how our significant other feels towards us. If those feelings are perceived as genuine and true, we will soon be able to develop an extremely high level of trust. With this trust, much of the jealousy and insecurities associated with Taurus, will disappear. Break this trust, and don't even bother trying to mend it, cause if this trust is to ever reach those proportions again it definately would not be with the one who broke that bond, and will take lots of time if ever possible again . I know I can speak for a lot of male Taurians in respect to this matter. The way I have always looked at it is the big "3"-- "L" "T" & "R" Love, Trust, and Respect. If all these can be shared equally with a female, then there is no limit to the possibilities a male Taurus may hold within.

I will agree with you "male taurus" about L,T and R. I am not a taurus but I also feel the same way with any relationships that I have with anyone. I think ALL of us want to have this in our relationships. I had a friend yesterday (who I THOUGHT) was my friend betray me. I cannot trust her again. It was not about a mistake, it was something that she did that she knew she was doing. Where is the integrity of people these days? The neat thing is that we are able to choose to walk away, to be where we are comfortable to choose to be where we desire to be. Life teaches us about all kinds of people, what we like and don't like. I know that trust, love and respect are very important to me and I will NOT settle for less.

The people that have these qualities to share with others must posess them within themselves first. I know there are those types out there and I will meet them.

I have just met a taurus male..I have never been involved with one before. I can see already that he is cautious...I don't blame him. I am too. We talked about our past relationships with our ex's and we realize that it does take time to discover another person.

Wouldn't it be a neat place if we all loved, trusted and respected ourselves?

Happy Tuesday🙂

Hey Taurus male! are you available? lol just kidding.. almost tempting though.
I love a Taurus male. he's fantastic. Yes,,he tells me straight out that I have to be honest.. no messing around. well thats not in my make-up.. think we'll be fine?
Aquarius female.

opps, I mean I am 'honest' and never would ever mess around on him. I heard it said that you know when a Taurus likes you.. is when they start giving you things.. Is this you to?
Aquarius Female