taurus male, confused about a scorpio female

I've started to see this lady, things were good,we were taking things slowly.
Now things are at dead stop.

Is this normal for a scorpio woman.
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Taurus:

I knew a Scorpio female that got married to another guy because she said I would not....and I probably would have if I knew I was on the clock....
maybe you just took it too slow...

another Taurus male

No, it's not normal for scorpio woman. We're intense and passionate when in love. She might think that you don't have the same feeling with her and want to test you. For the same reason I have trouble with my taurus friend. You guys are so slow and too cautious.

No, it's not normal for scorpio woman. We're intense and passionate when in love. She might think that you don't have the same feeling with her and want to test you. For the same reason I have trouble with my taurus friend. You guys are so slow and too cautious.

scorpio woman

Maybe all of this could have been avoided if open communication would have prevailed...Taurus is slow, but please remember the story of the tortous
and the hare...as for caution, we don't like making mistakes, so we might show a little more caution...anyway, if a Taurus knows for a fact the road ahead is clear...he/she will get there in due time....
If it is too slow for others, Taurus can choose to speed up or run with a slower pack...we all have that choice in the race of life, I suppose...

mid speed Taurus

As a scorpio female I can say that if I liked you to a point of wanting you to like and possibly love me and you did'nt show a interest beyond generalilites, I'd move on. A scorpio knows that we do have choices and we don't want to waste time on a too slow to go to the next phase Jo.

Whether this dead-stop thing is normal for a Scorpio woman all depends on the particular Scorpio, because some of us are highly impetuous and impulsive and impatient--and some of us are more realistic and equally as cautious as the Taurus. However, I have to agree with the woman above, that Scorpio women like to feel that the object of their affection is equally if not more passionate than the Scorpio, about pursuing them. If you move super slow, that might translate to the Scorpio woman that you're not feeling as intensely for her as she is for you. Which would explain the weird behavior.

-phoenix_rising

That is so true. I'm a Taurus Female that has a Taurus male friend. We both like each other, but things are at a stand still. I do admit, I'm getting tired of the hot and cold reception from him.

I recent that! Us Taurus' are not slow just cautious! Maybe your 'lil scorpio fem friend is in lip locks with anatha fella. Sorry to be the bearer of bad news but u gotta see your options here.
Advice: You gotta be blunt hun, like were known to be (straight forward and open w/everything laid flat on the surface)Good Luck!! and post us updates. =)

*Taurus Chick

As a scorpio female, I have to say that it is normal for Scorpios to suddenly take a step back from a relationship and put things on hold. I had a relationship with a Taurus that I really liked, but he didn't try to excite me or win me over and I got bored. I may seem unfair for a Scorpio to demand this, but its the reality of the matter. I agree with everyone else that going too slow can make the passionate Scorpion move on to more exciting things.

Scorpio Female:

I guess I will remember that if I court a Scorpio Female. It is a shame that you just put silent expectations on us, when I know we really try to please.
Also know, that if we really want to love someone, we don't want to risk turning someone off by being too foward.
I know that I wait for a positive signal from a female before I go in for the kill, as they say. I wish people would just be more up front about their feelings without all of this waiting for the other to start the ball rolling sort of thing. Too much love has been waisted that way, I think.

Taurus Male

I agree Taurus Male. You must read my mind.

Taurus Female

This is my second go around falling for a Scorpio female, and they are by far the toughest sign to figure out. I guess that is what intrigues me about them. Always wondered why it was that so many females say that the reason that they pursue a particular guy is for the challenge. So I have come to realize that I also look for a challenge, and none better than trying to figure out exactly what is going on in the mind of scorpio females. That brings me to my second point, don't even bother trying to figure out what is going on inside there heads. They will let you know if and only if they are willing to reveal that. Most of the ones that I have met take the wrong doings that others have done to them a little more to heart than the other signs. This in turn seems to make them keep many of their feelings and emotions bottled up in their heads where they know that no one will be able to use them against them and hurt them as they have been hurt in the past. From my experience I have also learned that many Scorpio females like the comfort of knowing that someone likes them and that they are admired, but too much too soon, can cause them to push away. The last thing that I would like to point out about Scorpio females is what I have come to term as the "Soap Opera Theory." This sign always has more drama surrounding it than any of the other signs I know. I couldn't understand it at first, and often wondered why they were always surrounded by so much drama. It all starts to make since when you pay attention to one of the main attributes of Scorpio, which is there quiet secretive nature, always trying figure out exactly what is going on in other peoples minds. So in order for a Taurus male to be successful with a Scorpio female, they must always keep things changing in order to keep their minds busy. If they can't quite figure you out, then that will keep you in there minds as they strive to figure out exactly what you are thinking. Don't let them know exactly how you feel towards them and just reveal to them little tidbits of your true emotions just to satisfy their need to feel desired, then take a step back. Help them create a little drama every once in awhile, then lay back and watch as they will begin to see you as a challenge and start pursuing you more and more. The one thing to be most aware of is their ability to seduce you into revealing your true feelings, which they are very clever at doing. Determining exactly when to finally let them know your true feelings is difficult and is definately a situational judgement, just don't jump the gun and take the challenge that they seek out of it, or it just may be too late.
How fun it would be to have been a Scorpio--Sincerely, Taurus Male

That was a mouthful

165--

That was an amazingly accurate depiction of us Scorpio females. Why is it that it's the Taureans who are almost always so acutely attuned to us—! You know the only person in my whole (almost) 21 years who has been able to read me like an open book is this certain Taurus male who has been around me/in and out of my life for about five years. He finishes my thoughts; he knows what I'm going to say before I say it and he immediately knows when something is wrong, even though I KNOW I can hide my emotions from everyone else on the planet. The weird thing is, it didn't take him 5 years of "getting to know" me, to become so adept at picking up on these things. He has had this ability from day one! Which is probably why we keep drifting in and out of each others' lives...a lot of intensity. Nobody-- and I mean NOBODY is like him in this way. It is pretty unbelievable.

Heather

165...

I learned a lot from your post. A very insightful view of the inner workings of us Scorpios. Thanks for giving me an idea of how we are perceived from those who aren't Scorpios.

Heather and 205

If you only knew the hours and hours and hours, (and why not once more to stress the point) and hours of head aches and frustration it has taken me to finally figure that much out. I'd like to thank the both of you for at least reassuring me that I am on the right path as far as a Scorpions mind set. To say that was a representation of how others view Scorpios would be completely wrong, because in most peoples eyes, Scorpios are still the most mysterious of all the signs. I just hope that I was able to shine a little light in the direction of other Taurians. Although I had mentioned that this was my second time around with Scorpios, by no means did I want to imply that this was my second time in a relationship with one. To be honest, I have not had the pleasure of this experience, although I am hopeful that some day I may have the chance. I have fallen for two people in my life, and they are 2 days apart in age, and both Scorpio's. The similarities in there personalities is almost scary at times. It is obvious to me now that I will probably never quite be happy with any other sign. You Scorpio's are by far the best, just a little toooooooooo confusing at times! The one thing that gets us bulls in trouble is the fact that we have a hard time holding back our true feelings, when we find someone that we truely like and things are not moving in that direction. We can be very upfront and throw everything out on the table which is exactly the opposite of Scorpions (opposite signs-makes enough sense!) I was left completely clueless the first time I fell for a Scorpio, and wasn't until this second time that it all started making sense, although it might be too late for this time also. So as things stand now, I am trying my hardest to hold back my feelings, although it is near impossible at times. I have accepted the fact that there is a good chance that there may never be anything there between us. I am still very hopeful, but this time I realize just how much she does mean to me just having her in my life. If nothing does ever work out between us, at least I will be able to learn more about Scorpio's from her, for the next time that I fall for one of you. Thanks again.

Taurus Male here:

You seem to be raring to go for your next Scorpio female. Maybe some of us have more "closed minds" than others, I guess. If your going shopping, why only go to a Scorpio shop. No offense to Scorpios, of cource.

Just a thought.

Taurus Male

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It saddens me to hear the longing in your voice for someone that (as you say), you may never have. I just ended a 2 and a half year relationship with a guy whom I will always love. I know it is hard and confusing at best, but I promise you it will be for a reason. You sound like a wonderful person that any girl would be lucky to call theirs. Keep your eyes open..to any and all possiblities. Wishing you luck!

165--

I wish you good luck (and patience, which Taurus is naturally blessed with from birth anyway) in your search for your dream Scorp! By the way, I am positively sure that the fascination is not all one-sided (meaning it's not only coming from you), and Scorps are equally fascinated by you as well. We especially like anyone who is perceptive enough to pick up on our vibes and thoughts (because it presents a challenge, and because we find THOSE people mysterious and intriguing). Yes, you should remain open to any possibilities, but if us scorps are your favorite cup of tea, then I am flattered and wish you well! You deserve a nice, hot cup-o-scorp! lol...

Heather ; )

Once again thanks for the comments and advice, they are very much appreciated. If there was only such a thing as a Scorpio store ---205---I probably would have been kicked out for loitering a while back. The fact of the matter is that I am open minded to all possibilities as limited as they may seem at times. I don't go around asking peoples sign to see if they are someone that I would be possibly interested in. It just happens to be that the two I have completely fallen for have been Scorpio's and I see an amazing resemblance in both. As for the ever so popular quote, that things are supposed to happen for a reason, I have as of late come to realize some possible truths behind this. Unfortunately, it is starting to surface through bits of gossip I've heard that others are very likely influencing the REASONS for the way things are HAPPENing, and not vice-a-versa. Thank you for the info and I do believe as you have stated this is the way things should work. Thanks again Heather, and I do believe you are right about the fascination on her part, and I think it may be more along the lines of how is it that I could have all these feelings for her. Given that she came out of a long messed up relationship, I feel that she may think in the back of her mind that I have some other agenda or that my feelings are not true because they were so immediate. I guess time will only tell on this matter and in the mean time I will be keeping my eyes open, but no matter what happens in the end, I will do anything not to throw the friendship that I have with her away as I have done in the past. Sorry about the length-love to write! Thanks again every1.

WoW there is actually someone with such depth on this planet... I already admire you, taurus male. Ur lines almost brought a tear of happiness to my eye. You figured it out very accurately. More like u needed here. Maybe u can hepl me figure something out. I'm confident because u are a taurus too.

To tell you the truth I'm in a similar situation. I'm the scorpio femme and he's the bull. I wish I could understand my taurus friend. (I've been around them almost all my life. My mom and step dad, and my two best guy friends, but still...) We were beginning to get to know each other, all was ok, and then I took his carelessness of not calling back when he said personally. I don't know if I said anything to cause that. I wish I knew.

And now I think he's an A55 hole. And he might know because I wanted him to know inderectly from someone else, but that was an ugly thing to do. I'm confused bcuz u should expect someone to do what they said they would. (I was in a similar situation before and that time it ate me alive. Like he kept on saying he'll call but he wouldn't. So I took a hint and slowly got over him.) But with this one I seriously can't seem to figure out what I did.

Bottom line-I think I have a right to be mad at someone who said we had plans, but then does something with his pal and doesn't let me know abot the change in plans. And after we have a chat he says we'll do something in a couple of days but doesn't follow up on it again.

Thing is, now I'm sick of mystery and I just wish he could lay it out infront of me. Because this challenge (might u call it) is more destructive then good for us.I'm almost ready to drop him out and move on.


So my question is am I justified to feel the way I do, and should I let him know how I feel? Or should I wait for him to call, maybe he has no clue what his actions say?
What do you think Taurus male?

Hope u could make me see something I might be missing.

-Scorpion

Also don't ever give up on her and follow your heart, it will never lead u in the wrong direction. Show ur interest, we scorpios love honesty so much. That u just can't lose if u are honest wit one. If we don't feel the same we'll still love ur honesty and it will help build the so needed trust for a possible future relationship. And then we'll be the ones to tell u how we feel. And personally if I knew my friend liked me and at the time we and I just wanted to be friends, I would not act any differently. They would actually indear themselves to me.I wouldn't feel weird knowing a friend likes me in that way. I would probably like them more. I would hate to hurt someone who was honest with me. All this because I'd like to be treated in the same manner. Taking risks has it's rewards with us scorpios. Hope this hepled you.

-Scorpion

-Pardon my spelling errors-