Hi. I have a Taurus friend who I am very fond of although he does not know. Since he is kind of a workaholic, he is always busy. Because of this, I try my best not to bother him and only contact him when it's urgent. When I do contact him, I am straight-forward and cut the conversation when I have what I need(because I don't want to bother him). However on some lucky days, he'll continue the conversation and we would be texting back and forth. He seems to be having fun talking to me since he puts happy emoticons, but he always tends to all of sudden stop texting me. And then I'm stuck rereading our texts worrying that I said something wrong and hurt his feelings. It just makes me frustrated and confused that he doesn't realize that ignoring my texts hurts me. So any ideas of what I did wrong? Or how I should react to this behavior?
Interpretation of a Taurus's Action
Honestly, don't take it personally. You'll read this same kind of stuff all over this forum. We kinda suck at responsiveness with texting apparently. 20 mins ago I remembered that a REALLY close friend texted me 2 days ago, and I haven't spoken with him in like 4 mos. I read it at first (2 days ago), and made a mental note to respond later because I was too busy to text at the time. Then I just had an "oh s h i t" moment where I realized I forgot to respond to him. Happens ALL THE TIME. Every day probably....

Listen to TauruslovesScorpio! Very good advice! 🙂 Believe me, I'm going through the same thing with my Taurus. I actually text him the day before asking if I needed to come jump on him and tie him up so that he would reply to me! lmao He said he was sorry but that he's been busy. Sometimes if you voice your concerns in a joking manner then they won't take it as you "nagging" them. But believe me your frustration road won't get better anytime soon. They have their good responsive days then they have their nonresponsive days. Believe me, I want to pull my hair and his out sometime! hehehehe

Omg I'm going through the same thing with my female Taurus. So horrible at texting like god awefully horrible. Now I feel bad for calling her out on it because I told her I couldn't handle the hot and cold she gives and wasn't going to contact her anymore until until she gave me an explanation as to what is going on. Welp last Monday after i was pulling into work and she was outside and gave my car a good solid stare down and practically blocked the door way just to say hi to me. But I was still upset with her I said hello back but couldn't look at her. I could tell it upset her all week.
I feel like an idiot if this is the case. How can i fix this now. I feel like walking up to her an just grabbing her for a hug and appologizing for misunderstanding I've told her in the past I know she loves me (but was just being cocky) her words are always in riddles such as she says stuff like I feel you can see right through me. Which she explained she feels I can see what she feels am thinks.
I feel like an idiot if this is the case. How can i fix this now. I feel like walking up to her an just grabbing her for a hug and appologizing for misunderstanding I've told her in the past I know she loves me (but was just being cocky) her words are always in riddles such as she says stuff like I feel you can see right through me. Which she explained she feels I can see what she feels am thinks.

I hate my phone and auto correct. Chickeny = coc.ky
Yea that's definitely just your run of the mill Taurus behavior. Mine does this ALL the time! As a matter of fact he JUST did it! We're having a full on text convo then out of the blue he stops responding. I swear they are space cadets sometimes! He will text again in a few hours with a brand new conversation, having completely forgotten about the original convo we were having. You get used to it after a while. Definitely don't take it personal, it means nothing bad.

LOL! Have you all been going through my text messages— LOL. Happens every time my and the bull talk. LOL
I can't speak for every Bull, but I personally hate talking on the phone/Text etc. I'd rather be in the presence of whom I'm talking too. Esp if it comes to a relationship, I'd rather feel/cuddle with my woman then speak via text.
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