Is everything ok with him?

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sorayane
@sorayane
8 Years

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Hey guys, I really appreciate all those kind advices you give so i thought maybe you can help me...(sorry for mistakes, I'm from Germany so english is not my native language).

So actually I am in the most wonderful relationship with my taurus man for about 1.5 years now and I really love him with all my heart and he says the same about me. But lately, for a few weeks now, he is somehow different to me. For example he doesnt' text that often like he used to, he doesn't take my hand in public anymore and kisses in public get rarer. Then he took it for granted that I pay for his coffee and drive him home and stuff...that are things he used to asked for in a very sweet way and "only if it is okay for you" and stuff...so sometimes these days I feel like I am nothing "special" for him anymore.

Additionally I know that he is really stressed out right know because he started to do his masters but also has to work besides which seems to be exhausting for him...

So the question now is: Is it only honeymoon which is over now...or do you think maybe it is because he's so stressed out? Or do you think maybe he fell in love with an other women at uni? I am so confused and I can't really sleep for days now...

I also asked him and wanted to talk so I said 'I have the feeling that something is different with you since a few weeks and you are somehow very thoughtful and sometimes absent. Can I do something for you? Is everything ok?' First he didn't really say anything but then he admitted that he is so concerned about uni and if he is good enough to make it and that he also wants enough time for us...

Usually I really trust him but something makes me feel that this isn't the whole truth...he also started to do a lot of sports like ging for a jog (because he said that is kind of an equalizer for him) and bought some new clothes...

Maybe he just wants to make a good impression at uni because he just started and he also said in the beginnig that he is so exited to meet new people with the same interests because he used to be a 'loner' and was actually pretty clingy with me and always wanted to spend time only with me...so basically I dont know if he changed his behaviour because (1) he is so stressed out and doesnt want to burden me with his stress or (2) if the honeymoon phase is over now or (3) if he met a new girl (in a german panel a read that tauruses are supposed to be the most faithful zodiac signs but non of the 10 girls there had one who was really faithful and most of them got betrayed so this makes me somehow insecure)...

Maybe it is also important to say that i will spend half a year abroad in 4 months and we probably won't see each other in that time...maybe this also makes him insecure or anything?

Oh and one last question: My taurus told me that I am the big love of his wife (when we were together half a year) and I believe that, but he also was somehow suspectible to look at other women, not in a noticeable way butI just registrated that...But I also heard that this is something Tauruses always do and that it is a habit you should not worry about to much...

So guys, what do you think? I'm sorry for asking so many questions but I'm just so confused...we are both 23 and it's my first "real" relationship. I really could imagine building my future with him so it is so important for me to understand and to support him...