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This topic was created in the Taurus forum by Kityyyyyyy on Monday, August 14, 2017 and has 26 replies.

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@Kityyyyyyy
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But we are not having sex, I thought I was buiding s relationship friendship first. I did ask if he was chatting or in a relationship with others, he said no. I just get a feeling as if he's being disengenuous. We've been chatting for four months, still haven't met.

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Posted by Kityyyyyyy
But we are not having sex, I thought I was buiding s relationship friendship first. I did ask if he was chatting or in a relationship with others, he said no. I just get a feeling as if he's being disengenuous. We've been chatting for four months, still haven't met.

Is this feeling something based on fact or are you projecting your own insecurity?

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Posted by jeane
Posted by Kityyyyyyy
But we are not having sex, I thought I was buiding s relationship friendship first. I did ask if he was chatting or in a relationship with others, he said no. I just get a feeling as if he's being disengenuous. We've been chatting for four months, still haven't met.

Is this feeling something based on fact or are you projecting your own insecurity?

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Valid question. I think truth be told is, that's why I had to take a step back and reconcile my feelings, and is it in fact, coming from a place of love or my own fear and security. I didn't think it fair to keep chatting until I had this sorted out to save his feelings. I did say I was going away to have a think. He will probably let me go over time. Which I would totally understand. I am absolutely beside myself with the actions I've taken.

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Posted by Kityyyyyyy
I would ever so love to be with him. I believe we have a soul contract.

But you've not met yet?

Fantasy will get you only so far before reality bites.

Just calm down and let everything evolve organically. Don't allow yourself to get carried away with your fantasies.

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Thank you for the clarity and wise words. But when talking on the phone each day for five hours I somehow allow my feelings to get ahead of myself. Down side of being a water element.

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In my experience Taurus males never have had a problem saying what's on their mind... no filter at all! I've also learned calling instead of texting works wonders and if sometimes if you just put it all on the table then you'll get the answer you're looking for. Good luck xo

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@Kityyyyyyy
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Posted by Cancervirgo15degrees
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Posted by Cancervirgo15degrees
Every taurus i know has these. Even all the married taurus men.

That's a tad disheartening to hear.

Well to be fair its not just taurus. Every single person i know who is married has affairs. Maybe its the water over here lol.

All the taurus people i know have insatiable sex drives and are never satisfied so they have multiple partners at one time.

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Hmmmmmmmm, still, not a very encouraging situation. I'm a scorpio and well let's just leave that one right there. I can still remain loyal to one. I just don't get it , she says kicking rocks.??

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Posted by Cancervirgo15degrees
Posted by Kityyyyyyy
Posted by Cancervirgo15degrees
Posted by Kityyyyyyy
Posted by Cancervirgo15degrees
Every taurus i know has these. Even all the married taurus men.

That's a tad disheartening to hear.

Well to be fair its not just taurus. Every single person i know who is married has affairs. Maybe its the water over here lol.

All the taurus people i know have insatiable sex drives and are never satisfied so they have multiple partners at one time.

Hmmmmmmmm, still, not a very encouraging situation. I'm a scorpio and well let's just leave that one right there. I can still remain loyal to one. I just don't get it , she says kicking rocks.??

Not all people are the same. I know just a few taurus out of a billion out there! Talk to him face to face. And just remember that actions speak louder than words!

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Thanks.

Sage advice.