My Taurus boyfriend broke up with me because he's unhappy?

So my boyfriend and I have been together for over 5 years off and on. We've been fighting a lot recently and it put a strain on our relationship. He told me at first he wanted to take time apart & then changed his mind to he wanted to break up completely because he's been unhappy since last month. I asked him how come he's been unhappy since last month if last month he was just talking about moving in with me this summer & acting like we were okay the entire time. He wouldn't give me any reason as to why he's been unhappy, I asked him what I've done wrong to possibly make him this way and all he said was " you didn't make any mistake or do anything wrong, I just can't be with you"

I don't understand where his head is at all, because I know he loves me and I know I haven't done anything horrible to him to make him be this way..

I decided not to respond back to him and to give him some space and to just focus on myself. But I'm hoping maybe this space between us without any contact kinda helps our relationship.. I can't help but feel awful and feel like it's my fault he's been unhappy apparently even though he said it wasn't anything I did.. ever since we broke up he's been acting out & partying 24/7, doing everything with his guy friends, going to clubs, and getting belligerently drunk. I feel like he just doesn't actually have a reason as to why he broke things off and just wants space & a taste of the single life.. but idk I'm also a Leo woman just so every one knows

Five years, no marriage...not even shacking up....

It sounds like he wanted to be single the entire FIVE years.

Just curious, if a Taurus really loves the lady, why won't he proceed in the relationship? Or they are just waiting out for someone better and staying friends?

5 years....... perhaps he had wanted to get out of the relationship long time ago.

Any idea what caused the trigger?

Posted by TaurusBull1977
Five years, no marriage...not even shacking up....

It sounds like he wanted to be single the entire FIVE years.

There was no marriage proposal yet because I'm only 19 & hes 22 we were off and on for 5 years in total but this past year we were seriously committed to eachother until recently I guess..

Posted by Nefertari
Just curious, if a Taurus really loves the lady, why won't he proceed in the relationship? Or they are just waiting out for someone better and staying friends?

5 years....... perhaps he had wanted to get out of the relationship long time ago.

Any idea what caused the trigger?

Maybe but i don't know.. we were 5 years on and off, not just completely together 100% besides this past year. We're still pretty young but the way it was triggered was because he said we've been "fighting" a lot this past month. This past year we were doing really well and he even mentioned about moving in this summer with me. So nothing really adds up.. it's a confusing Taurus

To me this reads like he sees no future, the fighting, the instability. Maybe he thought you could make it work but now he thinks better of it. Maybe he feels you are not compatible for the long run.

And at 22, guys want to be free. He might have been convinced by his guy friends that tieing himself down at this age is too soon.

Posted by jeane
To me this reads like he sees no future, the fighting, the instability. Maybe he thought you could make it work but now he thinks better of it. Maybe he feels you are not compatible for the long run.

And at 22, guys want to be free. He might have been convinced by his guy friends that tieing himself down at this age is too soon.

100% Agreed!