Need help

Okay, this will be slightly long. There is this Taurus girl who was sort of dating a friend i knew. I got to know her through this friend of mine. As i got to know her more, she started telling me about her relationship. This friend and her would have fights where she felt , she was being ignored and looked down upon. But then she would try to make the relationship work and i encouraged her to do so because i thought she really wanted to be with this person.

Eventually we started talking about more stuff than her relationships and i developed feelings for her. Now my stupidity begins

So my friend went out of town for three weeks. In the first week i ended up calling her and texting her too many times, and she told me i was being to attached too her. So i told her that if she was feeling uncomfortable about me, then i will not call her and rather just email her. So when i met her the next time after a week, she told me that her bf had not spoken to her for at least three days and started crying. I somehow managed to console her. Later that day she told me she is going to break up with him. I did not say anything here to her.

When my friend came back, weirdly i was the first person to meet him and he told me that he was breaking up with her as they were clearly two different persons. Weirdly before she met her bf, she sent me a mail saying that she was going to make this relationship work. i did not reply back to this. However it turned out that my friend did break up with her and i dont know what happened afterwards.

Now some days later, i sent a mail in which i confessed to her. I did not get a response from her for a long time, so i did a more idiotic thing, i sent her a mail saying if we cannot be in a relationship, we should be friends at least. i have not gotten a reply from her for this also. It turns out i do not think i can simply be friends with her. Even though i promised her i will not call her, and have not, i want to know from her that is there a chance of us being together. Should i call her

Also i am a cancer and yes i did read the "Cancer man left me ". So please forgive my stupidity.

1)"she is a mates ex (doesn't "bros before hoes" ring a bell? "

this does not make sense, i did not choose to fall for her, and my friend has broken up with her. If my friend has a problem with me dating her, after he himself chose to break up with her, i would want to know why. If he still has feelings for her, then why did he himself choose to breakup with her.

2) I do not want to be rebound or am looking for a fwb. If i get the feeling, that i am either of the these two, i will not proceed. I definitely do not want her to end up on the ""Cancer man left me " board. If she tells me that she wants time to be free, i will definitely give her that. The problem is that i do not know at all because she has not responded back at all to me.

3) Obviously i am wishy washy, i like this girl a lot. If i could make up my mind so easily, then i would have not posted here.

the question i was interested in knowing, was that should i call her, or her not replying to me means in itself she is not interested.

should you call her?

she knows how you feel. you've spoken to her about it twice. both times she has chosen not to respond.

respect her decision, respect her feelings, respect her need to get over this last relationship.

she knows where to find you. if she's interested she'll do that.