Need help w/ taurus man :( Grateful for any advice

So bare with me ill try to keep it short.

I met a taurus male via the infamous new dating app, tinder, three weeks ago. Btw i am a libra....(not a good match i know, but i am very compromising)
With in the week of just talking he was all over me. Sending me messages every morning telling me goodmorning and would continue to message me through out his free time. We finally met a week later and at first he was reserved but as the drinks kept coming the day got better. He even asked me to be his girl friend lol but i was sure it was the alcohol talking. Through out the night he kept telling me how beautiful i was and that he'd hope we'd get together. I ended up staying at his apt. We did hook up. Through out the night he'd tell me how beautiful i was, and how he hoped wed get together, that he wanted to buy me clothes, and take me to dinner and buy me flowers. I had to leave adruptly because my mom was throwing a fit about me not coming home. (I just moved back with my mother to help her out....im 25 years old, so this ANNOYED me tremendously) but i had to leave. He was sad to see me go and texted me 30 mins after i left claiming that he already missed me and that hed hoped wed get together thatd hed be the best bf for me. I didnt know how to take it bc it could have been the lingering alcohol.

The texting was consistent after that and i saw him again a week later. when i got to his house he was all over me trying to kiss me infront of his friends.... i HATE PDA its soo embarrasing so i told him to stop. Which he did. We went to the other room to talk and he was again claiming that he missed me and asked me if i missed him. I was reluctant to say so becase i felt like i didnt know him and i told him that i wanted to make sure we were a match and that we should take it slow, get to know eachother and be friends. He just listened but he didnt seem to like what i was saying and even said that when people start out like that they get placed into the friend zone. He told me he was looking for something more than physical and that he wanted something long lasting and that he puts his whole self into the relationship and always gets hurt in the end. It was the exact same replica of how i felt. He then asked me what i was looking for and if i wanted to get married and have kids. WE made out but didnt have sex.

I saw him again the next day and this time there was no pda. him and my brother were smoking weed, and so they were kinda just vibing out.

But i was saying alot on how i wanted to go back to New york how i hated florida and after that he kinda stayed quiet for the rest of the night very contemplative. I kept asking if something was wrong but he said nothing that he was high, i asked why he wasnt showing affection like he normally does and he said he didnt want to make my brother feel like the third wheel. But i felt something different from him.

Two days later i told him that i wanted to be honest with him. And he called me immediately asking me what was it that i wanted to be honest with him about, asking if i made out with another guy all annoyed. I told him no, that it was that i didnt know if i wanted to continue with him bc i was scared i was going to get hurt bc i was starting to really like him. I could tell this put him off and he started saying that it was up to me to decide what i was going to do, that he wasnt sure neither bc i keep saying i wanted to go back to ny. And that every girl he was talking to would be like nevermind a month later. So he was put off conversation.

I ended up seeing him later that day to make ammends that time we did have sex but we only hung out for a while and i was in a bad mood because of my family. When i went home i apologized for my annoying behaviour and he was like that it was ok that he really just wanted to get to know me more and hang out with me more. Thats when i think his infatuation started to die away.days past and idk if it was just my negative mind or w.e i felt like he liked me less so i asked him and he said no i like you just is much to not worry.

He ended having a bad week because of his job and since then he wasnt as talkative. And when we did talk they werent open ended conversations. It was me asking him and him just responding. Then i got drunk and told him that i was angry because he was aloways tinder. He didnt seem to like that neither and said that he wasnt meeting anyone on it that he just liked to post picures and claimed that he was a little vain. I spoke to him on the phone and he just sounded really annoyed. And than i apologized. Through text i continued to apologize to which hed say your ok. Its fine.

He then texxted me on friday august 1 saying that he wanted to see me i told him that it was my sisters bday and if he wanted to come and meet us. he said that he was unsure if he was going down there but hed let me know. He never showed and he never let me know. The next day he apologized saying that he wan

He then texxted me on friday august 1 saying that he wanted to see me i told him that it was my sisters bday and if he wanted to come and meet us. he said that he was unsure if he was going down there but hed let me know. He never showed and he never let me know. The next day he apologized saying that he wanted to see me but couldnt come bc he lost his id (which i already knew) and that his phone died but that he and his friends ended up going to a different city to party. I told him that it was ok but to next time let me know cuz it was inconsiderate. But that i had goodnight anyways so it was ok. He then was like okay im sorry ill let you go bc you seem mad. And i was like no im fine. HE DOES THIS ALOT, hell assume im mad and tell me hell leave me be. And inturn he seems to get mad.

I ended up seeing him later on that day and again no pda. And there was alot of awkward moments. But it finally got comfortable. We watched tv and had sex. I caught him trying to take pics of me while i was watching tv. He lied and said he wasnt but i could tell he was and i made him delete the photos. He was affectionate grabbing my hand and we joked around. He fell asleep and when i was getting ready to leave he woke up and told me to stay the night (which i couldnt) and he then said that i was his baby and that he was going to miss me.

I went home and he texted me the next day normally asking about my day. And not at all wordly affectionate like he was in the beggining. I asked him later on that day if he was no longer in to me? That it was ok but to let me know bc i didnt want to just turn into a fuck buddy. That if he still looked at me as someone that hed hope hed be in a relationship with? (Because by this point he no longer spoke about getting together with me and he stopped saying he missed me through text, even though he did continue to text me regularly) The message was really long to which he responded " no its fine i would like that but i dont wanna rush into things. If you dont wanna have sex anymore i understand. I do like you and want that but idk when 😢 " I told him my concerns of turning into friends with benefits and he said he understood completely and "no i feel the same way just think we should slow down a little i still like you 🙂 muah" then he rushed me off the phone because he had to go to work. The next day i didnt get message from him but it did say that he was active on tinder so i wrote him and he didnt respond. I then said that i hop

"no i feel the same way just think we should slow down a little i still like you 🙂 muah" then he rushed me off the phone because he had to go to work. The next day i didnt get message from him but it did say that he was active on tinder so i wrote him and he didnt respond. I then said that i hoped i didnt scare him off yesterday and he didnt respond. But it looked like he was on tinder. So I deced to send him a message saying that i can see that i turned him off and its my fault. That i am sorry and that i can take a hint. That if he ever needed anything to let me know and good bye. He responded an hour later saying that tinder is an app that is constantly running and that he was sleeping. I felt stupid AGAIN and apologized again for assuming the worse. He said it was ok. I tried to change the subject and ended up buying him some pzza as a treat before he went to work to do an over night. He said Thank you, 🙂 I miss ya. I thought the ya was weird cuz he usually says you not ya but w.e.

So yesterday morning he texted me saying good morning. And then i didnt hear from him at all yesterday. I texted him asking if he wanted to hang out and he never responded. And then this morning i texted him good morning to which he did respond and wished me a good morning as well. Then i asked him to text me when hes free bc i missed talking to him. He responded almost 5 hours later ( he sleeps alot cuz of his job) but his tinder was saying that he was active before he responded. But the fact that he did respond made me believe that his tinder might not be accurately giving me log in times. WEll anyway he did respond weirdly and said haha im free this weekend. To which i said what? Lol and then he said "you texted me and said text when your free" and i said oh....yea so youre going to wait till the weekend to talk to me lol?
And then he said "no but i see your mad so ill leave you alone"

And hasnt responded i did respond immediately saying lol omg im not mad why do you always think im mad. That im not mad because "i have no reason to be mad and that i was just asking non chalantly. Idk if i keep saying the wrong things or somehting. Im sorry for making you always feel like im mad." "? I feel like im always messing up with you. Idk what to do or how to make you happy with me 😢. " "Can you talk to me? I feel like youre really confusing me and idk. Im starting to get my feelings hurt on how hot and cold you are. Idk whats going on with you 😢"

And he hasnt respo

I know it super long im so sorry...i just dont know how not to be detailed when im talking....ill be lucky if anyone reads this.

you are way too emotional and needy.
even I'm exhausted reading all your insecured feelings
you need to get yourself together and stop jumping into conclusions.

What the f**k is all that crap I've just read—

I agree with maomao. I'm tired after reading that so if that's your 'relationship' situation then good luck!!

Darlin, you have got to RELAX AND PUT THE PHONE DOWN NOW. Your post has little to do with Taurus men because your behavior would cause any man, regardless of his sign, to recoil. I'm not sure if sex was the best idea because physical intimacy without established boundaries or emotional intimacy generally leads to difficulties. You don't need to be buying him anything (even something as seemingly inconsequential as pizza), checking his tinder, or texting him all the time, just breathe and let things happen naturally. I'm not going to label you as insecure because I don't know you personally, but it does seem like you became very invested entirely too quickly. Sweetie you only met the guy three weeks ago...via tinder no less. Due to the brevity of this situationship and the manner in which it began I would hardly expect it to be taken so seriously. I think you need to let this one go, and next time just relax. Let the guy do the work, you're worth it hun!