I have this Taurus guy that is confusing the hell outta me and really just want to know if he is attracted to me or not. First off we are both married. He just got married within the year. He is in a band that comes to town every so often. It started by him always looking iver at me then shying away if I caught him. He would then start comming over introducing himself to me and my friends and would literally make this crazy deep eye contact with only me when we were talking. Everytime they were in town he would come over nervously and do the same thing. One time we were talking with him an I asked if he could play my fav song. He said he will see what he can do. They played it and he leaned over the stage to me to tell me here is your song. I said thank you so much and he shyly smiled put his head down and continued playing his instrument.end of the nighy I was just standing outside and he came up to me and gave me a big hug and a quick kiss on the cheek. Wasnt expecting that. Kinda seemed like he didnt want anyone to notice. Fast forward to next show and he completely ignored me. Seriously avoiding me at any chance he could. Anytime I even came near to talk with his other band mates he would literally vanish. A few weeks later he added me on FB. I called him out on that weird behavior. He said he didnt remember hom doing it but he said it wasnt intentional and he said I hope it was for a good reason. He then said at least we get another opportunity to make it right. Next show he literally came running up as soon as I entered the bar. Gave me a big hug and just stared into my eyes. He said Its so nice to see you. You look good. In between sets he was always trying to hang around me and would try to start up some kind of conversation. If I was with his other mates talking right away he would come up and try to get in on the convo. Still always giving these shy smiles and deep eye contact. End of the night I was pretty drunk and we must have got into some kind of disagreement. I Msgd him and appologized. Hes said you were fine I was just stressing about my shit. If I didnt like you I wouldnt come talk to you or greet you. I think youre awesome and wish I had the time to actually talk to you. I promise next time we can fnish the convo we didnt start. The past few weeks here we would chat on msg back and forth. I always began the initial conversation tho. Just small talk. Then one day he asked for a pic of me and my friend. I asked what for and he said its for some kind of montage thing to a song about friends he is doing on one of the band pages. I sent him one and he was super happy. But he posted the song montage and didnt add any of the pics he said he was doing. I asked him why and he said oh its comming. I decided to pome the bear a bit and get my friend to try and see if he indeed was attracted to me or if he was just a weird taurus. She started by msgng hey you know *** he replied you know it. She said you know she is attracted to you right? He replied shes a friend. That was it. Now when he replied shes a friend it was at the exact same time when my friend said I was attracted so I dont know if he was saying shes a friend in response to the first question or if it was a statement in regards to the attraction. Nothing else was said. We are still msgng again I always start a convo which is kinda annoying but he always replys and has never mentioned anything. I just dont know. Im so very confused with this guy just because of the way he acts and really looks at me. His band mates say he is a really shy awkward guy overall. I tried to get more info on this from them and they basically just said he is an odd duck lol. Any ideas yhoughts maybe?? Sorry for the big story but this has gone on for the span of 3 years now
