pisces F & Taurus M need advice rollercoaster.

There is alot to all this story but I just say its been a rollercoaster. It may seem to have had that but through this I been learning more about myself and him and how to handle things in life and with other people in general. In the beginning of all this both of us had alot of past creeping in and we moved too fast overwhelmed ourselves. At the time I thought I was ready afterall I hadn't dated seriously for 3 years by choice for my own personal improvement with god and myself. So anyway it all just stopped before it even began. Hes a sweetheart and he still is just too caught up in the world and trying to impress it. He really seemed so genuine when we started he was so shy but followed me just to talk to me and seemed so excited when I'd come up to him and talk to him. He could really be something amazing for someone if he'd just be who he really is which I saw myself. We worked together. I was very shy and sometimes still am and he kinda took that as a stuck up attitude or something and then I was pushing him away a little too scared to get too close I have alot of people leave me. Well after 2 weeks his attitude went from this sweet guy who called me everyday was always straight foward to this mean nasty human being. I would have never hurt him I feel he reacted that way because he didn't trust me or like he needed some kind of control (he is a couple years younger then me). We did talk something about that. I myself wasn't very understanding at the time because i was expecting to be hurt and instead of just listening I panicked and made him feel bad but after he kept apologizing then the next time he came out really nasty and it ended. Then after that I wrote him a letter and gave him a rose. He appreciated the rose very much. So on the cycle continued.. he would try alot of times to make me mad and jealous .. we'd text eachother then stop for awhile.. blah blah.. at one time we would write eachother and say how we were doing then .. somehow we'd not get along and stop .. Then one time He kept talking about sex (which we have not done yet) like wanting to do and the pressure made me feel uncomfortable. The last time we stopped talking I had invited him over to my new place to have dinner and such .. something happened there were change of plans for me.. so the next day I asked him to come instead but he had other plans I got upset and just gave up. Then 2 weeks later he writes me at like 3 am in the morning just to let me know he was high.

I didnt think he even cared. I know he has trouble expressing himself so to me it seems like he just needed to find something to say to meNow its been two weeks I didnt respond. Look I still want him as friend no matter what but I dont know how to contact him without him thinking I am trying to get anything in return. I want him to know someone is here for him. I cant get him off my mind and think to myself I'd just be crazy to do that again but he seems like the kind of person who needs to assured or something.. I am confused about what to do.

I know it could work out if we both tried. But I guess I've done my part in all I could. I really care about him but it could only be just a one way street. I guess the silence (him not calling me) is enough proof to show me that he's no longer interested. Its just wierd when I see him in person he stares and sometimes follows me. Then waits til I make some attempt to smile at him or talk to him so he can respond. I know hes very patient and likes to take things very slow which is what I wanted and still want. but he had a hard time communicating that. So since I dont know his feelings for me I cant expect thats what hes doing. I know theres been some ignorant stuff that has happened but I dont hold it against him he has no experience on handling a reall relationship and sometimes we do things to others when we feel pressured and confused. Also hes still immature. Im just glad I got myself back together. Well Im moving on if he really wants me that bad he can come to me.

Thanks for your reply.

LLD, here's my take on this. The 2 longest relationships I've had have been with Taurus and Aqua, and I still correspond and hang out with my Taurus ex. I see what he does with the ladies in his life, and yes, he multi-dates.

"Then one time He kept talking about sex (which we have not done yet) like wanting to do and the pressure made me feel uncomfortable."

"The last time we stopped talking I had invited him over to my new place to have dinner and such .. something happened there were change of plans for me.. so the next day I asked him to come instead but he had other plans I got upset and just gave up."

He was testing your limits and how far you'd go with him. He chased you until he got what he wanted.

"Then 2 weeks later he writes me at like 3 am in the morning just to let me know he was high."

Total disrespect for you. Never mind him asking you how you are, but rather he prioritizes that he's stoned? Disrespectual and immature.

"I cant get him off my mind and think to myself I'd just be crazy to do that again but he seems like the kind of person who needs to assured or something.. I am confused about what to do."

Trust me, you aren't on his mind, so why have him on yours? He doesn't need you to be assured of anything.


" I know hes very patient and likes to take things very slow which is what I wanted and still want."

All Taurus are patient and like to take things slowly; however, we also communicate this to those involved. He hasn't given you the respect of telling you how he feels. It sounds as if the only last bit of communication he provided to you was that he was stoned at 3 am. Hmm...hardly something to build a solid foundation.

Some Taurus males have a Don Juan ego or at least they THINK they do. Most are very sly and can make very good snake charmers. The more mature males will communicate with you and will have no qualms about being openly affectionate with you. They are the huggers of the zodiac.

YOu made the right decision to let this guy go.

Some Taurus males have a Don Juan ego or at least they THINK they do. Most are very sly and can make very good snake charmers. The more mature males will communicate with you and will have no qualms about being openly affectionate with you. They are the huggers of the zodiac.

love that !! ha thanks, we are the huggers of the zodiac, look i read your thing and hey how cool are you, totally... mean that ,
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1.its not cool to talk about sex unless you done it... in which case in my life unfortunately the poor girl will hear a torent of really odd stuff but mixed up with affection and generally well received as is genuinely exciting for both.
2.what is the silly boy gettin angry towards you for. bye...see you later, anger early on?? could be a response from a previous relationship expressing itself - prob - in which case talk a bit and he hopefully will forget it - neurosis of some sort
3.he's high - hes goin to want to shag you
4. rose - thats so nice - are you fairly young ? thats really nice - bit unusal though as hes hurt you by bein a twat - just chill - sounds like unless he changes then its not somethin to go on with.
god i want to go out with a pisces !! next couple of years i goin to get one ? which stream can i catch one ? genuine one!! you cool girl!!

Houstonpeach74 thank you for the advice and the support in my desicion.

""love that !! ha thanks, we are the huggers of the zodiac, look i read your thing and hey how cool are you, totally... mean that ,
k
1.its not cool to talk about sex unless you done it... in which case in my life unfortunately the poor girl will hear a torent of really odd stuff but mixed up with affection and generally well received as is genuinely exciting for both.
2.what is the silly boy gettin angry towards you for. bye...see you later, anger early on?? could be a response from a previous relationship expressing itself - prob - in which case talk a bit and he hopefully will forget it - neurosis of some sort
3.he's high - hes goin to want to shag you
4. rose - thats so nice - are you fairly young ? thats really nice - bit unusal though as hes hurt you by bein a twat - just chill - sounds like unless he changes then its not somethin to go on with.
god i want to go out with a pisces !! next couple of years i goin to get one ? which stream can i catch one ? genuine one!! you cool girl!!""

In response to this post.. Thanks.. I am in my early 20s.. The rose had a specific meaning to it. I chose a certain color too. I gave it to him because he meant very much to me regardless what he did. I'll only go so far then enough I come first in a situation like that. Its just weird how I spent a long time interested in him then got the chance and it ended extremely quickly basically it barely even began but before he turned crazy it was really magical. We both werent prepared. I had found out he did get out of a relationship a couple months before starting with me. I didnt know though in the beginning. I still care about him very much and hope he matures into who he really is for his benefit. Also it wasnt like I was leading him on either in the other part it just really turned me off how pushy he was after turning crazy the spark when out once he did. He became very disrespectful. As soon as we got really close almost that close a couple days later he seemed very possessive and then got really nasty. Well he messed it up cause I wouldnt have hurt him and if he needed time to think and take it slow he should have said so the second time. Instead he started making me feel bad like I did something wrong. Which I really didnt he had me like really believing I did something wrong. Wow.. it was crazy. Still I have never had such a passionate beautiful experience until I met him.

I am also an emotional person and need someone to understand that I go through ups and downs.. but I get myself back up.. I also see too much good in people which leaves me sometimes as a doormat. He had no idea how to handle me but sometimes I could actually see that he got me a little then there you go he gets caught up in the rest of the world to impress. Well goodnight!!!