Please help me in moving on.

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TrueTaur57
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10 Years

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Please someone help in moving on from the thoughts of somone who rejected me and asked me to be friends.

This incident happened last year. I last met him months ago. He is having fun, at least this I know. I am just another girl for him whose presence mattered in the past but not anymore.

To hell with him saying that he still loves me as a family or close friend. I don't want him as a friend. I blocked him from everywhere. But still I wait for us to talk.

Since I came back from work, I am lying in bed crying. Or sleeping or eating fatty food. It happens most of the evenings and nights. I need to dislike him and be apathetically strong towards him. Colleagues try to set me up with other men but I hardly care. I started watching porn out of frustration 😭

I feel super super alone. So much loneliness all around me. I get so much closed and untalkative, I go to movies by my own and sleep over there.

I am falling off terribly. I do nothing only look to my ceiling or work or wait for some miracle to happen. I should get slapped to stop dreaming and come to reality.

Please help me. BTW, he was a Cancerian.
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Aries985
@Aries985
8 Years

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My Taurus left me about two weeks ago. I loved him with every fiber of my being. Try and stay close with friends. You need support. Nobody can do it alone. Be around people who listen and care. You need good feedback not negative. Go places and do things. You still think of them but for brief moments you find peace. Value yourself...realize yes, you can love something so immensely but when they don't see your worth maybe it's time to let that negative go. We all deserve a love that loves us back and wants us. It hurts and it will hurt but take it each day. Don't think of the future, focus on getting past each day. Rejection is such an ugly thing and leaves us with so many questions and self doubt. I have to believe something very beautiful awaits me for enduring such pain. Believe that also...listen to good music, eat good food, take trips...make yourself better so whatever you find down the road you have blossomed into something beautiful for. Heartache is so terrible and I wish it on no person. Don't let it change you. I'm trying o so hard.
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Raptor
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8 Years

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I am also in moving on phase from a taurus who wants me to only be her friend. It s hurt so much with all the things and we tend to overthinking, asking why and so on. I agree with other posters here, we need to be positive and avoid doing negative things such as watching porn (not good for our mental state) . Perhaps you may needed to make some appointment with counselor, spend time more with others, make new friends and realize this world is beautiful. Do more things other than thinking about him and accept (this is important) that he is already choose to break.

Dont keep on befriending him if you can't because what you want is different with him. You want love yet he just wanted to be friend. You expect more and this is really unhealthy, i ve been in this situation before and it s hard as hell but we must try to go on. I understand the feeling so much. Perhaps you have to let him go, don't wait for him to contact you and contact him again when you can accept his friendship. If you can't, don't. Tell him you can't and he must accept it because this is not an easy peasy task to do. Think about yourself first please dear 🙂

And good luck for us! (dont hate me im cancerian) xoxo! Im always in love with taurus haha :*
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TaurusBull1977
@TaurusBull1977
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@TrueTaur57

Put away the junk food.

Forgive him. His intentions were honorable. He let you down gently.

The more negative thoughts you have about him, the longer it will take to alleviate that pain, trust me keep this up and and the pain will linger.

Find something that you 'used' to enjoy doing, and fall in love with it all over again.

You will get over this...

You're a Bull.

You can overcome anything!