Please help me with Taurus Man

Libra woman here, early 30s. I had started to talk to a Taurus man a little over a month ago. I found out that he also grew up in the same, agrarian small town that I did. Only one other person had described it as cursed, and him saying that caught my attention. We spoke while he was out of the country. He was in Mexico City. I am not quite sure why, he has always lived on the fringes of society, including 5 hippie communes. I thought the Taurus liked routine and stability? I bonded with him as we are both ruled by Venus and ruled by art and love. We are both artists. I enjoyed swapping our photography or art photos. No more that 4 days would pass that we wouldn't talk. He would give hints of liking me, but could blow cold.

Last Tuesday he sent me a message and we communicated. He wanted to meet the next day but I'd have to work. This was on his second day in America. He told me that he wanted to meet me sooner than later. I was flattered but got scared. I enjoyed our communication and didn't want to lose him. There had been a time where I deleted the app in which we spoke, him having a Mexico number, we just used WhatsApp. I'd never been one to use snap chat or kik or anything. I did for him. I felt bad about freaking out and offered to meet him that night. After prodding,he invited me over. He had no car and was staying at him mom's. He came back to work at his families pizzeria. So, I went over... I met in the driveway and he hugged me for 5 mins. It felt like he had been waiting his whole life to do that. He kissed my forehead and held my hand. Starting off great. We didn't stay in the living room long, he snuck me in like a high school kid and I didn't care. In his room, we cuddled. I was shaking. sweating. nervous. when he kissed me, I relaxed. We made out..I didn't sleep with him. Even if I wanted, I couldn't due to my moon time and he couldn't get hard. I could tell he was on something. Xanax to sleep he said. He looked high. Maybe he was just nervous, I thought. About two hours later he kicked me out. I had so much to ask him about his travels but he said I'd have more time to talk again. He walked me out and kissed me. He text saying to be safe.

A day went by and nothing. I did notice that he had removed his dating profile. I was excited. I send him a text two days out. I told him that I liked him..just wish the room had been better lit because I just wanted to look at him. Admire him. He was self conscious because he smelled like work and had bo. Claimed he left his deodorant in Mexico. I didn't care..I had to see him. Nothing..he didn't respond. I do pin up modeling and some tasteful nudes..I worried that it upset him, the photos I post. He, though, had implied nudes of his ex on his site..I didn't care..it's art. On Easter, so 5 days out his dating profile was back on and today has been 6 days. It hurts.

I talked to a distant friend. She confided in me that he was bad news. She said he warped her friends mind..had her leave her family and live in Chicago for 4 months..she footed the bill. they lived with people neither knew. He mind controlled her. Convinced her that bathing was bad because of chemicals. Made her vegan. Told her what kind of music to listen to. I know that he has a child, but he wont bring it up to me, but to others on his facebook who ask. I guess four months ago he had called the ex that he lived with and hung out a few times. This means he may have lied about where he lived or when he came back to America. Yet, one day he sent me a clip..so I could hear it. He told me that he had been in a ten year relationship and it ended two years ago. Not possible with what my friend said.

Bottom line, guy ghosted me for no good reason and I'm fing confused. What is wrong with him??!

I didn't sleep with him..perhaps he was mad about that? Bu ti blew him the best that I could semi hard. I wouldn't think he'd feel me up and kiss me if he found me repulsive.

I don't know what to believe but the fall out is killing me. Both of our fathers left our moms at a young age. Both of us were heavily bullied. Both of us have sons. I just felt so connected to him..and we have this awesome time.. I reach out to him..and he wont aknowledge me. are Taurus players?