Libra women..insecure?!

All my relationship disasters are biting me on the ass, i feel insecure (and it doesn`t feel good at all)!

I used to be insecure. Both relationship-wise and my looks.

Been working on both and thankfully making progress.

Relationship - I've been cheated on several times and once I finally realized and accepted that these are the results of me ignoring red flags and making poor decisions in the past, life has been much better. I am now more cautious when it comes to screening potential partners.

Looks - We all know having a child can cause havoc to a woman's body. I also used to be a yo-yo dieter and suffered bulimia when I was younger so I had a lot of insecurity about my body in the past. Now I eat clean and work out a lot and never in a million years I would imagine I'd be this happy with myself.

Lastly, having a more positive outlook in life played a part in my healing after struggling with depression for 10 years. It's all about being more accepting of my circumstances and realizing that it's never too late for a change.

Yes. Very.

Posted by Fortuna
I know two libra women and neither of them are insecure. One is a doctor and very well off. The other fights for what is right and voices her opinion a lot. She manages a lot grown adults who act like children lol

Both are in leading positions where confidence and security are necessary.

As for their looks, they’re old, and it’s not really a main concern for them. They seem comfortable in their skin.

The first libra is so secure in her relationship sometimes they travel separately and have different vacations with no issues.

Second libra is married to a loser, but she constantly tells him how it is and when they hit a rough patch she tells him to get lost, but he never leaves lol

the first libra sounds very independent and likes to be without her man.

the 2nd one is funny lol

I don't think I'm manipulative at all. I'm just seeing the end before anything really starts, scared to invest time, effort and energy. I'm maybe more guilty of over thinking then being insecure, because I certainly never show it, it's just crap how its affecting me right now.

Posted by SuninLibra
I don't understand why Aquarius are answering this . if you find libras so fucking needy and insecure just stay in ur forum and forget about us.

Lol

Rocky's not here so they took it upon themselves to do the hating while she's gone. Apparently tooting their own horns and married men flirting shamelessly in their own forum can get boring for them so leave them be SuninLibra.

so is it because it's retrograde or what ? just chill and wait it out - stay strong, looking good, and keep to yourself and hopefully things will lighten up soon

Posted by Dolluxxe
I used to be insecure. Both relationship-wise and my looks.

Been working on both and thankfully been making progress.

Relationship - I've been cheated on several times and once I finally realized and accepted that these are the results of me ignoring red flags and making poor decisions in the past, life has been much better. I am now more cautious when it comes to screening potential partners.

Looks - We all know having a child can cause havoc to a woman's body. I also used to be a yo-yo dieter and suffered bulimia when I was younger so I had a lot of insecurity about my body in the past. Now I eat clean and work out a lot and never in a million years I would imagine I'd be this happy with myself.

Lastly, having a more positive outlook in life played a part in my healing after struggling with depression for 10 years. It's all about being more accepting of my circumstances and realizing that it's never too late for a change.

that is such an awesome perspective !

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Posted by Dolluxxe
I used to be insecure. Both relationship-wise and my looks.

Been working on both and thankfully been making progress.

Relationship - I've been cheated on several times and once I finally realized and accepted that these are the results of me ignoring red flags and making poor decisions in the past, life has been much better. I am now more cautious when it comes to screening potential partners.

Looks - We all know having a child can cause havoc to a woman's body. I also used to be a yo-yo dieter and suffered bulimia when I was younger so I had a lot of insecurity about my body in the past. Now I eat clean and work out a lot and never in a million years I would imagine I'd be this happy with myself.

Lastly, having a more positive outlook in life played a part in my healing after struggling with depression for 10 years. It's all about being more accepting of my circumstances and realizing that it's never too late for a change.

that is such an awesome perspective !

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I did a lot of growing up 😄

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I used to be insecure. Both relationship-wise and my looks.

Been working on both and thankfully been making progress.

Relationship - I've been cheated on several times and once I finally realized and accepted that these are the results of me ignoring red flags and making poor decisions in the past, life has been much better. I am now more cautious when it comes to screening potential partners.

Looks - We all know having a child can cause havoc to a woman's body. I also used to be a yo-yo dieter and suffered bulimia when I was younger so I had a lot of insecurity about my body in the past. Now I eat clean and work out a lot and never in a million years I would imagine I'd be this happy with myself.

Lastly, having a more positive outlook in life played a part in my healing after struggling with depression for 10 years. It's all about being more accepting of my circumstances and realizing that it's never too late for a change.

that is such an awesome perspective !

I did a lot of growing up 😄

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you did great !

Everyone is insecure about something.

Toti who hurt you, boo? Lets chat and work through it. xo

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I used to be insecure. Both relationship-wise and my looks.

Been working on both and thankfully been making progress.

Relationship - I've been cheated on several times and once I finally realized and accepted that these are the results of me ignoring red flags and making poor decisions in the past, life has been much better. I am now more cautious when it comes to screening potential partners.

Looks - We all know having a child can cause havoc to a woman's body. I also used to be a yo-yo dieter and suffered bulimia when I was younger so I had a lot of insecurity about my body in the past. Now I eat clean and work out a lot and never in a million years I would imagine I'd be this happy with myself.

Lastly, having a more positive outlook in life played a part in my healing after struggling with depression for 10 years. It's all about being more accepting of my circumstances and realizing that it's never too late for a change.

that is such an awesome perspective !

I did a lot of growing up 😄

you did great !

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and @Dolluxxe - the best part is that no one can ever take that away from you! That in a sense becomes part of your "security" rather than "insecurity" ... but hey, you already know this lol

Like playfully manipulative or out to hurt people?

Only person who has ever hurt me is a Taurus man.

God, I almost died over a Taurus 😢

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I used to be insecure. Both relationship-wise and my looks.

Been working on both and thankfully been making progress.

Relationship - I've been cheated on several times and once I finally realized and accepted that these are the results of me ignoring red flags and making poor decisions in the past, life has been much better. I am now more cautious when it comes to screening potential partners.

Looks - We all know having a child can cause havoc to a woman's body. I also used to be a yo-yo dieter and suffered bulimia when I was younger so I had a lot of insecurity about my body in the past. Now I eat clean and work out a lot and never in a million years I would imagine I'd be this happy with myself.

Lastly, having a more positive outlook in life played a part in my healing after struggling with depression for 10 years. It's all about being more accepting of my circumstances and realizing that it's never too late for a change.

that is such an awesome perspective !

I did a lot of growing up 😄

you did great !

and @Dolluxxe - the best part is that no one can ever take that away from you! That in a sense becomes part of your "security" rather than "insecurity" ... but hey, you already know this lol

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True true 😊

I do feel very secure now after going through so much. I'm still standing and I KNOW I can get through whatever life throws at me.

I'm not a Libra woman or even a Libra but I can only speak about the Libra women I've dated and been intimate with.

They were all so nice and charming and the epitome of feminine in about every aspect. But, most did seem somewhat insecure and in need of validation, especially on social media. Kind of flaky too. But damnit I like em.

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Posted by Dolluxxe
I used to be insecure. Both relationship-wise and my looks.

Been working on both and thankfully been making progress.

Relationship - I've been cheated on several times and once I finally realized and accepted that these are the results of me ignoring red flags and making poor decisions in the past, life has been much better. I am now more cautious when it comes to screening potential partners.

Looks - We all know having a child can cause havoc to a woman's body. I also used to be a yo-yo dieter and suffered bulimia when I was younger so I had a lot of insecurity about my body in the past. Now I eat clean and work out a lot and never in a million years I would imagine I'd be this happy with myself.

Lastly, having a more positive outlook in life played a part in my healing after struggling with depression for 10 years. It's all about being more accepting of my circumstances and realizing that it's never too late for a change.

that is such an awesome perspective !

I did a lot of growing up 😄

BTW you always look dazzling in your pictures and always give great advice that's some growing u did keep it up 🙂

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Aww thank you Girl 🤗

Yes, continue growing and learning 🙂

Posted by Toti
Every libra i Know is insecure but hide it well with latest fashion, travel and attractive partners. But, inside they are never happy. Libras like attention, compliments. Very manipulative people. Masters of manipulation who always get what they want. But, once they get what they wanted, they no longer want it. Women act like princesses all the time and expect their men to be servants. I know many Libra women, but those with leo moon are the worst.

Haha I wish I got everything I wanted! I’m not that great at manipulating though. 😉😂

Taurus men though. 😩👎🏼

Eh everyone is a little insecure sometimes. Even my Aqua friends.

We are not perfect creatures! We are human!

If I let my last relationship destroy me, I wouldn’t be as successful as I am now.

I let those experiences make me stronger.

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I used to be insecure. Both relationship-wise and my looks.

Been working on both and thankfully been making progress.

Relationship - I've been cheated on several times and once I finally realized and accepted that these are the results of me ignoring red flags and making poor decisions in the past, life has been much better. I am now more cautious when it comes to screening potential partners.

Looks - We all know having a child can cause havoc to a woman's body. I also used to be a yo-yo dieter and suffered bulimia when I was younger so I had a lot of insecurity about my body in the past. Now I eat clean and work out a lot and never in a million years I would imagine I'd be this happy with myself.

Lastly, having a more positive outlook in life played a part in my healing after struggling with depression for 10 years. It's all about being more accepting of my circumstances and realizing that it's never too late for a change.

that is such an awesome perspective !

I did a lot of growing up 😄

you did great !

and @Dolluxxe - the best part is that no one can ever take that away from you! That in a sense becomes part of your "security" rather than "insecurity" ... but hey, you already know this lol

True true 😊

I do feel very secure now after going through so much. I'm still standing and I KNOW I can get through whatever life throws at me.

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and that is a much better place to be in this world ! good for you !!!

Plus, stalking the ex's on Facebook is always a bad idea 😢 What the hell is wrong with me seriously..never happy unless i'm destroying a good thing. Smh

Posted by Manana
Plus, stalking the ex's on Facebook is always a bad idea 😢 What the hell is wrong with me seriously..never happy unless i'm destroying a good thing. Smh

I did that when I was younger. Way before Facebook.

Stalked my ex (my son's father) on Friendster and I can say it's just not healthy. One of the reasons why it took me so much time to get over him.

I don't know why I feel the need to compare myself to these individuals..it should be enough that he's with me now. I need to get a grip of this!

Posted by Toti
Every libra i Know is insecure but hide it well with latest fashion, travel and attractive partners. But, inside they are never happy. Libras like attention, compliments. Very manipulative people. Masters of manipulation who always get what they want. But, once they get what they wanted, they no longer want it. Women act like princesses all the time and expect their men to be servants. I know many Libra women, but those with leo moon are the worst.

Having been single for near 12 years and working on myself through different relationships I’m definitely not insecure but then that took working on myself. If I’m a princess then I cater to my own needs and have proven to be a successful business woman, so if someone comes along to partner up with me then yes, there will be plenty of expectations however not as a servant because In relationships I’m the one that always ends up serving... which is why I don’t like myself when I am in a relationship. I put my partner before myself.

I think your general idea of Libras is text book, get to know a few more in person.