Porn...

Ok ladies & gents...I know that we all have different taste in what's classy and trashy...

I was talking to a girlfriend of mines and we touched on the topic of porn...She became really uptight when I told her that I watch porn with or without my man...

She said that she does not condone her man watching porn...I was taken aback by this statement because a) he is a grown ass man and b) he probably has been watching it long before they met..

Her argument is that its degrading and that real women do not do half the stuff in porn...

I beg to differ, because I know a few women who are slutbutts and they aint starred in no porn...well maybe not a commercialized video....lol..

I also think porn is a form of entertain not meant for everyone just like soap operas or wrestling...to each their own is my feelings...my girl was just so angry at the thought of her man watching it...

I see nothing wrong with it as long as I am not offended by what I'm watching and shit when I am serious with my man I turn into th star any way..

I guess one must have a certain level of confidence to lay next to your man while he is watching it.....

What are your thoughts folks—

Certainly porn is erotic entertainment although she's got someone that is a voyer yet is married so its quirky if he's an addict this is a problem the kinda guy that knows his partna knows what he does on a regular basis but does not share in the fun so its kind of weird that way. If they are not a married they still don't wan't to share in it, its a surge but unfortunately might be one sided which is sad so the chick feels neglected really.

You're right....Maybe if she was invited to watch with him she'd feelconnected..IDK then again maybe not...

Their not married...She said one day she came to his place and caught him with member in hand watching porn (It was regular guy/girl normal stuff)
and it disgusted her so much that she left him there in the living room and stormed off to the bedroom

I was perplexed by that cause I was thinking "why you let the stiffy go to waste?"

I watch porn with or without a guy ... and yeah agreed - I wouldn't like my man obsessed with it. Everything in moderation.

I'm not into skanky ho porn though... it's got to have style .

Once in a while to watch porn with your man is okay. It spices it up and makes it really fun. It turns me on, but some of the porn out there these days is SICK!!!!

Tell em I-Brat...haha

i think it's womens insecurity that makes them so against porn. of coarse i'm referring to in good taste porn, which is how ever you want to define it.

To me, with your man, it can be soooo intimate. we have some wild times with it and some very very sensual experiences.

I'm not insecure with me in any way shape or form.. so having my man watch another woman means nothing to me.... i know men think differnetly then typical women in regards to sex. so for me, i don't feel or think he is wishing i was her.. he is just simply enjoying her beauty or whatever.

Here's an example at how i operate with my man. I know he is an A $ $ man... i'm so not an A $ $ chick.. i was blessed with a big chest...lmao so for me, i know he loves his A $ $ 's so instead of being insecure about it, hell i point them out... lol why fight a man looking—? makes no sense.. HE WILL LOOK.. nothing you can do about it. so we have fun and look together. This also gives him a confidence that he can talk and share things with me. It works well for us. I'm sure not everyone else.

I'll go to strip clubs.. i had a guy in there ask my man how he got me to go to the strip club.. hell it was my idea! we have a ball when we go. it brings us even closer and LADIES>>>> the sex you get when you get home... OMG hahaha

"why fight a man looking—? makes no sense.. HE WILL LOOK.. nothing you can do about it. so we have fun and look together."
I wish every woman was as secure about themselves as you are with this. LOL
Porn, if it does nothing else, serves for a good introduction to new positions (for the people who don't switch it up often...) ...as long as it is in good taste.

I found CoCo 😄