Cnaer and Taurus

Has anyone been in this type of relationship— for me i have few taurus friends they always caring and loyal but i was reading people stories and they said its the worst match up— So can anyone tell me their experience?

i was meaning to put *cancer* sorry for the typo i was doin sumthing at the moment but its no need to get so aggressive

lmao....there you have it...

Cancer will be overly sensitive to Taurus directness...most times..haha

For it to work Cancer has to be less emotional and Taurus more understanding of Cancers sensitivities....lol

*quotes everything in this post* UP TO HERE^^^^*

HOTGAL, that was a classic explanation! HAHAHAAA!!!

lmao....there you have it...

Cancer will be overly sensitive to Taurus directness...most times..haha

For it to work Cancer has to be less emotional and Taurus more understanding of Cancers sensitivities....lol

Oh please not this again... It's not so much as cancer being sensitive but sometimes Taurus' are rude. And being the people you are, not trying to take responsibility for your actions, you try to call the cancer too sensitive. Typical taurus behavior...

lol...yes that's right I'm a Cancer and I know from my interactions with the Taurus males and females I know that sometimes I get touchy when they respond a certain way..then when I think back to what they said its all about how I interpreted the message not how they conveyed it.....

Most times I don't believe Taurus is being rude just being direct which is something most Cancers have difficulty with...

I have seen a Taurus get outright rude when they felt disrespected or and it ain't nice (and even then they were pushed to the limit and tried to stay calm but saying nothing)

Anywhooo...proceed---->

"stay calm BY saying nothing"

My friends don't think I'm rude, but they do know if they ask me a question I'm going to tell them the truth. I don't sugarcoat ish UNLESS they want me to, but even then I'm still telling them the truth, but in a more "girl friendly way". Typically though, I don't give unsolicited advice unless they are going on, and on, and on about the same crap; then I have to nip it in the bud! Sorry, but I can't listen to the same complaints for years.
Overall, while Taureans can be very stubborn, I think we allow a lot of lattitude in our relationships, whether it be family, friends or love interests. Oftentimes because of our relatively even temperament and ability to control our emotions (usually), people mistake our kindness and genial nature as being weak, so when we do snap it really knocks people on their a $ $ es because they didn't expect it!

0/1 in the Taurus department here.

I gave my heart to her and she ate it and spat it back out, all the while having a smile on her face and telling me it was ok she'll come back to repair it.

Translation: I dated a compulsive liar.

I know another (friend) who is drama queen.

My views are currently skewed on female version of this sign. Take my opinion lightly.

cool. taurus rather hide or tell u later than lie. When u confront them on it directly like i alwyas do they will tell u everything. they do not like rejection so they tend to stay quiet on a matter. and thats the truth homie.you dig!!

Yeah i know about the taurus anger it s no biggie to me. Just stand your ground ,make compelling statements and just compromise. Leave well alone do not compound th erpoblem by adding more fuel to the fire

My bull would have just responed and not have even gave u a chance 2 think over what u just said. He feels like, if u were brave enough to ask the question then u will be able to handle the answer. If not, thats on u.

My questions r in response to these:

Hotgal78
For it to work Cancer has to be less emotional and Taurus more understanding of Cancers sensitivities....lol
"stay calm BY saying nothing" AND

BlackKnoxx
Yeah i know about the taurus anger it s no biggie to me. Just stand your ground ,make compelling statements and just compromise. Leave well alone do not compound th erpoblem by adding more fuel to the fire

What if I've already messed up on both of those? I already added fuel and i didnt stay calm. At this point my bull doesnt care to understand me. We have a child together and thats what's made/making it hard. I told him i hated him for coming in2 my life (cuz ya know i prob didnt go to him), got 2 hell and i called him a jerk. He pretty much moved on and i couldnt handle it, til now where at the point were we just have a child! Nothing more, nothing less. He's moving to another state w/his new girlfriend and on top of that he's a compulsive liar! Thats only half the story. Me 7/22 him 5/20 d.o.b., both on the cusp.

Lisa - the biggest thing you must'nt do regardless of what sign people are is go off on a tangent and just say things...

There is meaning behind words and it is all too true that you've got to watch what you say, because when the smoke clears some people are unforgiving...

And NO you shouldn't stay calm and say nothing...you should stay calm or attempt to express yourself in a manner that's least confrontational espressing your point of view, facts, suggestions recommendations to fix whatever is broken, not resort to name calling and belittling...this is what I mean when I say being overly sensitive...

Sometime although those emotions have you, you've gotta step back and get a hold of those emotions as to not let them control your interactions with others...

If you handle situations based on pure emotion the outcome of these situations will likely not be the results you're looking for because the majority of the time logic is also required, sometime even more than emotion depending on the situation....

Well what's done is done with your child's father because he is moving on with someone else out of state and like Starfish said you are probably better off focusing on you and your child


good luck

Question Lisa ..... he moved on right? the child is most important harden ur resolve and heart, and keep focus pray to the lord our god and u will see a difference. Do not study him do u