Quick answers needed please! Help!

Bloody hell, okay here goes:

It's Mr Taurus's birthday tomorrow and we've had an argument and are currently not communicating.

Reason:

He won't see his kids on his birthday because they will be with their mother.
I organised that the kids come make birthday cards Sunday just gone.
Cards were made.
i bought a gift from me and a gift on behalf of the kids.
Gifts given.
I also organised and paid for a meal for all four of us last night.
So, I organised a birthday celebration to include his kids knowing he'd not be seeing them.

Get up this morning and Mr Taurus was in a grump over a dream he had. We have an argument over something he did a while ago that was related to the dream. What he did wasn't pleasant and we've been working through it.

I tell him to fuck off because he was being a total knob over the level of upset I expressed over it and basically tried to make out his feelings were the only ones that mattered.

Now, tell me - if i don't wish him happy birthday is he going to get all up his arse over it given the fact I've already celebrated it early with him?

I just don't feel like communicating with him right now, and neither does he appear to communicate with me. We usually sort things out but I feel kid of forced by guilt to wish happy birthday.

To text happy birthday, or to not text happy birthday - that is the question.

God, this seems so absurd but I'n stuck here since he's a complicated man for the most part.

Shit, i wish it wasn't his damn birthday tomorrow. I mean, i don't want to be spiteful but i just don't want to communicate right now.

Tis still the mans birthday, reach out and wish him a good day.

Agree'd.
Troubles will pass,and much sooner with reminding him you still love him.

Yup, I agree with my fellow bullettes. I would be upset if my SO didn't acknowledge my birthday on that day.

Okay, thank you 🙂

I will wish him happy birthday.

Definately wish him a happy birthday... or he will use that as ammunition😉

I did. he came back with "Thanks"...and then continued with his bullshit...

You did the right thing NZ. I'm sure he'll come around soon. 🙂

Taking the higher road and being an adult is always the better option. 🙂 You wished him a 'happy birthday'. If he wants to be a tosser, let him. Hopefully he'll get over his mantrum ( or remove the large bug from his arse.. ) soon.

Posted by venusianbull
Taking the higher road and being an adult is always the better option. 🙂 You wished him a 'happy birthday'. If he wants to be a tosser, let him. Hopefully he'll get over his mantrum ( or remove the large bug from his arse.. ) soon.

"Mantrum"

LMAO!!

I'm sweet, I'm getting a few days peace and quite and doing my thing. Got art class later and then I'm out with the girls tonight.

🙂

Perfect! 🙂

Posted by dreamer23
Have you and your man made up yet?6

Kinda.

I got a whole pile (hours) of telling me how wondeful i am, how much he loves me, how much he misses me etc etc etc.

Thing is - the man is stressed and needs to deal with it else i get to be in the firing line.

Solution? Take myself out of the firing line.

Looks like he's woken up to the fact that he can't take his shit out on people and expect to get away with it.

i've backed off a little, got other things in life to do atm.