If a person you havent spoken with in a long time decides to reach out to you, how do you react with my scenerio.
Couple years back this Taurus woman and I were pretty close emotionally. I lashed out on her and I know I hurt her. I spent the next following months trying to make up for it. The last time we spoke was over a year ago and she was a bit dismissive.
Today for some reason she is the only thing on my mind and I would love to reach out to her to see how she has been. Question, is it worth it or would I probably be ignored.
Nobody here can tell you how she will react. But what if she does ignore you? Why are you so afraid of that? So fearful that it would stop you from trying to make what you want happen.
What's the alternative? Give up without trying?
One option you have a 50% chance of reconnecting, the other option a 100% guarantee of failure.
Im a cancer and afraid of rejection. She is probably the only woman ive ever cared about. Actually she is the only woman ive ever cared about. I loved her so much
There is an Aries I had not spoken to for two years. Now, the reason I stopped talking to her was because we no longer worked together so we never saw each other and also because when she became romantically involved with someone, he was all she wanted to talk about. If I tried talking about certain issues, she wouldn't take it seriously, so I just cut off communication with her. However, recently, I texted her and it was nice. Also, she is now the age I was when we met, so she hasn't gone nuts sending text messages like she used to(I didn't text until recently out of fear that she'd blow up my phone).
Point is, if there is a distance and it's been a while, she might not have any problem anymore, but in this case, since you did something against her, definitely apologize. It sucks to be rejected, but if she does, it just shows you are the better person for actually trying.
See and thats what im scared of. Being ignored. It would break my heart. So Ive decided to not contact her. In my heart, Id rather not know than have to go through that.
Dude, at some point you are gonna have to get out of this state, whether that means with or without her, you are only making yourself unhappy and robbing yourself of the endless opportunities out there. Make a decisio and stick to it, Taurus women like a man who shows courage and isnt afraid of showing whos the man 😛
Im also in the process of reconnecting with my Taurus ex, our break up was "friendly" and had more to do with outside circumstances than anything else, so Im gonna go for it, give it all and if it doesnt work out, oh well..at least I wont have to live with the regret that I never tried..
Think about that
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Couple years back this Taurus woman and I were pretty close emotionally. I lashed out on her and I know I hurt her. I spent the next following months trying to make up for it. The last time we spoke was over a year ago and she was a bit dismissive.
Today for some reason she is the only thing on my mind and I would love to reach out to her to see how she has been. Question, is it worth it or would I probably be ignored.