Sag Mom with Virgo Son - getting deeper with Taurus Boyfriend

(forgive the typos and confusing bits, im a accepting dyslexic)



So I'm 8 months in with my Taurus (Aries Moon, Cancer Venus and Mars)

and 3 months in after he met my Virgo son (8)

Taurus is my first serious relationship since my sons dad. (its been 4yrs)

i know they say Taurus move slow but for some reason i feel like things are evolving so much faster.

is that my fault, maybe? i can be very intense. im also a giver, that's how i show love, i also feel like my Taurus is obsessed with me in all the best ways. tells me things like "if i worked with you, i wouldn't get anything done because id be looking at you all day" - i mean SWOON. he is a catch. he makes me feel so special and so adored and is that selfish? maybe? but in return i just wanna make him equally as happy as he makes me.

but 6 months in i started to get really overwhelmed with how separated my life was. it was mom life, girlfriend life and personal life all separate. it was hard to juggle. im naturally a girl that always puts a lot on her plate but this was too much. so finally i said "i want more" - i told him that i was have a lot of fun with him but i cant just live in his life anymore, i have a life and that's being a mom mainly and if he wants to go any deeper with me he needs to understand that the end game would primarily be in my world, that's my life for the next 10+ years" he then asked if i was in love with him which has always been hard for me because i love things so deeply but in love means what? but with that said yeah, duh he's wonderful, how could i not fall. i have so much love for him. but i wasn't ready to say it until i saw him with my son, i mean my kid has the deciding factor. but with that said HE DECIDED that exact day of conversation was going to be the day he meets my son, totally his idea, i wasn't suggesting that day but he was like "lets do this" - it went ok - obviously i was freaking out and continue to still freak out 3 months after.

so, we say i love you now like its going outta style although i feel like with him it never will.

and my son ADORES him, thinks he is the coolest, mainly because i really talked him up before the intro but to be honest my bull is so silent most the time, kind of cold feeling, i mean he engages but not really. he hasn't really tried to do one on one or anything like that. my child wants all his attention tho like he's his friends and not my boyfriend. but my bull us so stand offish.

i don't know if i need to give it more time. i start to feel insecure that he might be judging my child. he has so much energy and can get annoying, as well as a little rude to me. im his mom and he doesn't take me as seriously as i like. i wonder if he judges me as mother, letting my kid get away with his, am i not strict enough am i being too strict, should i discipline him better, and me not really sticking to plans, im so sag.



how are Taurus with kids?

what kind of father-figure traits do they possess? (i know he isn't ethans dad, i mean duh. but as some point id hope that he wouldn't help me raise my son, help him be the things i can teach him)

based off of what i have said... and suggestions.

please don't tell me im rushing things, because im not. the way we are evolving is natural and we are happy and you don't know the core so don't assume im pushing anything i just want to be informed i want to know what to think, do and not do when the time comes for me.

and does anyone know what Taurus man and virgo child - compatibility is like.

positives and negatives?