should i take initiative or back off on this tauru

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fallforyou23
@fallforyou23
16 Years

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we met at a birthday party.He was starring at me the whole night but we didn't talk until just before the party ended.He asked for my contact number but i gave him my facebook instead because i lost my phone. So i added him on facebook and he messaged me. We started talking and he was all so sweet,exchanged numbers and he text me almost everday for about 2 weeks. He said he would be my santa clause and will give me anything as long as i want it.He's always asking me for updates every single time he talks to me about this other guy that likes me.so after 2 weeks he stopped talking to me.i have no idea why. so i waited and waited 1 week 2 weeks and 3 weeks.still no news so i text him asking how he's doing.no reply from him again.and the following week i text again saying i want something from santa. and managed to ask him out for a date.again. he promised to it but stopped replying after a while.and when i take long to reply he sent another text.his replies were cold but sometimes its long and sweet. I know he broke off with his ex girlfriend because they couldnt endure a long distance relationship and he did say he wouldnt want anything the next 2 yrs until he's back in town so history would not repeat itself.Currently he's back on vacation and will be leaving soon. I dont know if i should take initiative or to back off on this taurus because if hes not interested in me. i wouldnt want to take the risk.
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taurusgirl78
@taurusgirl78
15 Years

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If someone I just started talking to or dating said that to me, I would think that they were a bit clingy and I would want to back off from them. I'm not saying you made a mistake, because if I felt a spark for that person initially I would return to them, just at a slower pace.

The other thing here, is that you are responsible for your own happiness hon. From what you said, it sounds like you're making him responsible for your happiness.

If I were you, I would back off and let this thing take its course. Meanwhile, go about living your life, hanging with friends and doing things you enjoy.