so there's this taurus guy

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this may be all in my mind.

So this guy. right. im going to do a helluva lot of backpedalling. so here it goes.

My company acquired a canadian company and the new director came down to be trained. Im expecting some frumpy ol guy.

In walks out this handsome, attractive, well dressed eastern European man comes out of the breakroom.

i didnt really pay that attention because its a work environment and im territorial towards it.

A group of us, including him, were going to a lunch meet & greet. I'm walking to my truck and he yells out "Im riding with DMV." i thought to myself, hmph, thats mighty presumptuous of you to just jump in my car. but he does and from then one, there has been a pull.

Still, im just thinking this is all in my mind right. later on that day. we have another meet and greet. where we each have to say something about ourselves. He says how he wants to come back and hang out with me. me *blank stare inside* but im like yeah sure come on back.

hes really friendly and people adore him. very down to earth. the girls in the office want him and the guys want to be him. its that serious. ppl mark on their calendars when hes coming back to the office.

So ive been testing him as of late and i think hes been doing the same.

Ive left him alone at functions to do his thing and mingle. he finds me and we just have these personal types of conversation.

its so odd. cause this is work!!!

then he will call me at my desk and talk to me, wanna know how my day is going. And it gets odd for me cause i like boundaries at work. but i sit on an open floor plan and ppl hear everything. he will tell me that hearing from me is the best thing that happened to him all day. he will say just alot fo sweet shit. YOU SHOULD NOT BE SAYING TO YOUR COWORKER!!!!!!!!!!!!!

other female coworkers have made passes at him but he is so professional with the turn down. But with me, there is no turn down.

the first time we touched, and im talking like he came over and squeezed my shoulders, i was really taken aback. its questionable yet enjoyable behavior.

i keep trying to put up boundaries and he will be like, so when can he hang out side of work.

WTF


Is he just trying to be friends, cause i can do that. but this other stuff, my venus in cap is all like. "ooooo you and HR gonna have a discussion"
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Posted by tiziani
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How to know if a man is attracted to you:

1. His behaviour around you is different than how he is with everyone else.

2. His eyes. You know the look when you see it.
Number 1 is bullshit.


Number 2 is completely true.
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Hmmm i will pay more attention to the eyes.

They like sparkle.

So i tend to avoid eye contact to keep from falling.
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DMV, his he a part of your permanent staff etc?

How long is he visiting your office?

Are you just looking for a friendship or fwb or relationship?

Taurus males (I know four) have very different energies. two that I know are very very quiet, nice down to earth guys. However your taurus reminds me of my taurus who is also handsome, slick,popular, good with words, speaks 5 different languages, elegant, well dressed, sociable, wealthy and down to earth at the same time...

My taurus has four placement in fire three being in sag including his moon and he has a VIG. Your taurus sounds as though he may have a few placements in fire too.

Try and see if you can get his birth date and year and run his chart.
He is permanent. But he is staffed in canada office and i am in usa.

He comes down once a month for ops review.

Im dying to run the chart. Imma ask him monday.

He wants to have lunch or dinner.
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DMV, his he a part of your permanent staff etc?

How long is he visiting your office?

Are you just looking for a friendship or fwb or relationship?

Taurus males (I know four) have very different energies. two that I know are very very quiet, nice down to earth guys. However your taurus reminds me of my taurus who is also handsome, slick,popular, good with words, speaks 5 different languages, elegant, well dressed, sociable, wealthy and down to earth at the same time...

My taurus has four placement in fire three being in sag including his moon and he has a VIG. Your taurus sounds as though he may have a few placements in fire too.

Try and see if you can get his birth date and year and run his chart.
I think he has a sag moon. Totally. Maybe even sag mars.

People love the hell outta him.

One time he came down and we were sitting in a back of a conf room. I sat on the other side of the table.

Again boundaries. He wasnt having it. Changed my seat.
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at lunch, i asked him whats his birthday and he gives me May something and im like, Ahh a Taurus and he's like, So youre one of those??!!

i say yes and that im a sag.

He's always trying to feed me lmao. i can barely keep up.

No need to added the exact date. But you sure if it's May Taurus? Or is it May Gemini?
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May Taurus. I think the 2nd
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DMV, his he a part of your permanent staff etc?

How long is he visiting your office?

Are you just looking for a friendship or fwb or relationship?

Taurus males (I know four) have very different energies. two that I know are very very quiet, nice down to earth guys. However your taurus reminds me of my taurus who is also handsome, slick,popular, good with words, speaks 5 different languages, elegant, well dressed, sociable, wealthy and down to earth at the same time...

My taurus has four placement in fire three being in sag including his moon and he has a VIG. Your taurus sounds as though he may have a few placements in fire too.

Try and see if you can get his birth date and year and run his chart.
He is permanent. But he is staffed in canada office and i am in usa.

He comes down once a month for ops review.

Im dying to run the chart. Imma ask him monday.

He wants to have lunch or dinner.
Ooh! That a good sign.

Look into his eyes. Tauruses eyes are FIXED like glue to the person they desire. Mine is terrible. I thought I was bad but he is worse than me!!! I have to turn away after a few minutes... He will you look straight at you as if he is trying to see your soul whilst "sizing " u up at the same time!

Keep us posted!
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Yeah ive noticed the stare down of a bull.

I will lookbout for it

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So far so good! I didn't get a chance to get his birthday. He will be staying longer next time.

We he saw me, he practically hugged the living crap outta me. He was excited. I could tell he missed me.

The tests have not stopped on either end and im kinda impressed.

When it was nearing his time to go, he came over to my desk to ask me a question. Asked me how I was and I said I was getting sad. He was speechless but I could tell he knew exactly what I was talking about. There was a moment of understanding, mutual.

Non stop hugging when we parted ways.

My lil serbian.
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Keep in touch with him and build a friendship and see what happens! 😄
10-4.

i need some more of those tight hugs. I need to feel whats going on downstairs.

id like a peak but then i know id be disgusted with him afterwards.
Press your body/waist against his,slowly...don't make it too sudden or press too much,just enough to touch his lower body. If you think that's too much,touch his back neck when you're hugging,linger your hand on his back while you take it away. If you still think that might be too much,attack his sense of smell,make sure you get your hair close to his face. Or touch his ear with your lips by accident,again slowly. Do all of those things if you think you can pull it off in less than 10 seconds and make it feel natural. You'll get your peak at the next hug.
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holy shit
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Someone come get this Bull before i show him what this mouth do.
Either sounds going to jump on it or doesn't sound good at all...
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He likes gets my mood swings.

I feel safe to emotionally express my bitchiness.

Hes BIG on acknowledgement.

I still cant believe there are nice guys like this in such a cold cruel world. A world where ppl dont give a shyt bout you.

There are ppl who want to form bonds and friendship.

Genuine ones
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Im just so mad at myself for putting up with rotten behavior from men. Putting up with disrespect. Treated with such a disregard. Giving second and third chances to men who didnt deserve the first one.

even if this shyt doesnt go anywhere its nice to know that there are respectful men out there.

Silly me, I had no idea the bar could be set this high.
Damn is new York that bad?
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Ive lived in a few states. Its the lack of respect people have for one another. People just so easily discard others they claim to like. Dispose of you one day and want your attention the next. Degrade my body but dont want any other man to have it. Such bs. Waste my time with flowery, romantic language but ignore me when you see me. Im fuckin over all of that. Im no ones after thought. Youre right, men like that are boring. Grow up. Put on a nice shirt guys. Grls put away your tits.

Treating a woman like a lady needs to come back into style. Treating a man with respect should come easy. . It doesnt make you look thirsty, its showing interest.

It just means alot for a man to ask me how my day was and be actually interested in the answer.
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Those type of men bore me. I know that's it's my own sheet to deal with, but there's great men everywhere
Decent men are not as you class "boring"...

My taurus has so much fire in him that even you wouldn't be able to keep up with him!!!!
The fact that they're stable and that they want me turns me off! Believe me I've had the best men try to get my attention. I fuked up

I'm working on this
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stability used to bore me 2. Clean cut was boring. Nice was boring.

nowadays, give me a nice guy over a douchebag who cant even manage the words "I like you".

I will take "nice" for 200 Alex
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This guys is turning out to be a really good and genuine friend.

Yesterday i was having a monday as usual and was in a funk. i didnt want to talk to anyone.

He tracked me the F down. since i didnt answer the phone, he texted. Since i didnt answer the text he emailed. then he finally tracked me down on the IM.

this is the shit im talking about. as annoying as he was cause i just wanted to be left alone, it showed he cared.

that night i went to a meet n greet and his boss showed up. His boss finds me out of the crowd and was like, "you must be DMV!!!" i said "ooh snap, whose been talking bout me?!"

his boss goes on to say that the taurus said all these wonderful things about it and showed him pics and i just really felt the love and appreciation. that really meant something to me. his boss comes up to me and says the taurus made me promise to give you a hug and kiss. a friggin class act. i made sure i text him that night to tell him that his boss made good on the promise.

so this morning, i have a meeting and as soon as i get back to my computer, Taurus IMs, me. I quickly told him that i was so sorry for my moody attitude and he had nothing to do with it. He tells me to think nothing of it. I am allowed my moodiness and he will ride the wave with me. He is moody himself and he appreciates and trusts ppl who show emotions.

class act i tell ya
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This guys is turning out to be a really good and genuine friend.

Yesterday i was having a monday as usual and was in a funk. i didnt want to talk to anyone.

He tracked me the F down. since i didnt answer the phone, he texted. Since i didnt answer the text he emailed. then he finally tracked me down on the IM.

this is the shit im talking about. as annoying as he was cause i just wanted to be left alone, it showed he cared.

that night i went to a meet n greet and his boss showed up. His boss finds me out of the crowd and was like, "you must be DMV!!!" i said "ooh snap, whose been talking bout me?!"

his boss goes on to say that the taurus said all these wonderful things about it and showed him pics and i just really felt the love and appreciation. that really meant something to me. his boss comes up to me and says the taurus made me promise to give you a hug and kiss. a friggin class act. i made sure i text him that night to tell him that his boss made good on the promise.

so this morning, i have a meeting and as soon as i get back to my computer, Taurus IMs, me. I quickly told him that i was so sorry for my moody attitude and he had nothing to do with it. He tells me to think nothing of it. I am allowed my moodiness and he will ride the wave with me. He is moody himself and he appreciates and trusts ppl who show emotions.

class act i tell ya

why did you friend zone him?
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Have i?
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I would love to know where you guys are now. Nice to see a success story 🙂
He calls or texts or whats app often.

Sometimes i think he plays dumb just to talk to me.

The other time when he was down here, he winked at me mid conversation. I didnt know what that meant. Lol. His eyes sparkle and i hate that. Draws me into a vulnearable place.

Hes a good friend. Its a good place.

He WAS supposed to stay an extra day but he backed out. Maybe it was too soon for him. I was disappointed but i cant make someone do something they dont want to do.

He can lead, i have other things to occupy.
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I searched high and low for this thread.

Some psychic said a past lover is coming back. Someone I used to work with. Kids involved, maybe a marriage. Then trying to get out. Taurus, earth energy. Different ethnicity, lives at a distance. Met each other while traveling and that is how we met

This past guy did indeed get married and is currently still living in Canada

Maybe its him, maybe hes gonna divorce the lame and go after what he wants.

I would be floored.

Hes top notch status and someone who I may feel is too good for me.

Let us all pray for an annulment