Stereotypical Taurus..

My boyfriend is a Taurus sun, Cancer moon, Gemini venus and Aries mars. I am a Gemini sun, Cancer moon, Leo in both venus and mars.
Our relationship has been quite short - three months, but the chemistry between us burned big and bright. He dropped the L word within two weeks, told all his friends and family about me too. I even met his parents.. That is not typical for a Taurus at all... but he wanted me right away.
Negatives: he's controlling, jealous, judgemental. We got into a disagreement about our relationship status on facebook. He wanted to put it there but I didn't - it's too early...
For the last two months of our relationship, we have been long distance because I moved to a new city. He followed me here after a month - but when he moved I went away on Vacation to celebrate my birthday for a month. Out of the blue he stopped being lovey dovey. He's cold. He forgot to call me on skype to greet me an early birthday (I was on the other side of the world), but when it turned my birthday his time, he messaged me again. His distance struck me and bugged me because it was a complete 180! I bluntly asked him if there was anything wrong and that if there is, he should just end things right now instead of leading me on. He reassured me that everything is fine, he's just busy with work. We stopped talking on my last two weeks of vacation. Now I am back and he hasn't made an effort to see me. I messaged him and asked if he's breaking up with me, he didn't reply to that. He did reply to my text asking how his day off was. Then I called to see if he was free to hangout and he said that he had a meeting and will call me later. He didn't call me, he just texted asking to hang out with me tomorrow. I decided to not be pushy because I've been jumping to conclusions already and mass messaging him telling him... I just said, "text me what time you're free" He never texted or called me the next day.
I do know for a fact that he signed onto my snapchat and creeped messages between me and best male friend. While I was on vacation, the last time we spoke, he had said ": D *heart*". He never talks like that. A male friend of mine posted that on my facebook wall... but we're just friends! Should I end it or wait for him to cut the silent treatment? Even tho we don't talk, he creeps my blog everyday too and I keep posting stuff about being hurt... but he still hasn't budged.
Sorry this was long >< Please help, I'm dying on the inside.

Posted by aloofgem
My boyfriend is a Taurus sun, Cancer moon, Gemini venus and Aries mars. I am a Gemini sun, Cancer moon, Leo in both venus and mars.
Our relationship has been quite short - three months, but the chemistry between us burned big and bright. He dropped the L word within two weeks, told all his friends and family about me too. I even met his parents.. He followed me here after a month - but when he moved I went away on Vacation to celebrate my birthday for a month. Out of the blue he stopped being lovey dovey. He's cold. .

I'm not a guy but based from my ways of being a Taurus, he may feel like he was pretty open emotionally. He had you on a petal. You showed a lot of doubt and inconsistency which disappointed him and he is now guarded and maybe second guessing everything. He put himself out there and your doubt killed that one moment so now he is closed. Good luck with trying to get him back to how he was. We are stubborn.

We're emotional people and when Gemini people put us down in whatever we say or do I kinda see you can't handle us. In the emotional stability and security we need. . There is a way to communicate with Taurus without criticizing them. And doubting is not good for Taurus. I am first decan so my POV is different when I meet a Gemini. It will always be a fixed statement with a little change but that's it. I need to trust Gemini first and be friends with you too.

We're emotional people and when Gemini people put us down in whatever we say or do I kinda see you can't handle us. In the emotional stability and security we need. . There is a way to communicate with Taurus without criticizing them. And doubting is not good for Taurus. I am first decan so my POV is different when I meet a Gemini. It will always be a fixed statement with a little change but that's it. I need to trust Gemini first and be friends with you too.

Sorry for repeat.. the aloofness with Taurus won't work.. keep a clear peace of mind. Speak slow and tell us what is bothering you and then we can work on it.. but whose pace are we following or leading when it comes to earth and air communication styles we each other..

With.

@busyeyes88: We had a couple of conversations before we went out on a date and the first thing I told him was that I am said to leave this city in a month. I'm leaving because my friends and I planned a trip last month to go away for my birthday. He was the one who pushed for a LDR. While I was settling into the new city, everything was great, we talked every day. But when it came to while I was away, he just did a 180. I swear he saw me talking to my best friend and just couldn't take it anymore...
@Honeybunniie and @FirstDecanTaurianWomen0428: I have never doubted him. I was more scared at how intense he was when we first started dating. I was open with my feelings and had a lot of communication with him..

I honestly just want a straight answer from him if he has broken up with me. He did reassure me that we are fine and refused to answer "are we breaking up" when I asked him the second and last time.. I know that if I bug a Taurus too much, it'll push him away, but we've had quite enough distance already.

This is exactly what doomed my last relationship. You can't be so selfish Ex was a Gemini, and was being used by her parents as a house maid and to take care of all the horses they bought but didn't want to care for. After seeing enough of her her being shit on by her own parents I left a job I was happy at to get a better paying job that I loathed since she agreed to moving out to get away from the BS. A few days after I started, she dropped out because her dad had a heart attack and she felt guilty about it.

I loved her enough to try and make things work afterwards but it eventually all fell apart and I dropped her.

If you want him to stick around it's time for you to prove to him that you're worth it.

Taurus Gemini relationships start off flawlessly... then slowly start to fizzle out so you've gotta show him you're worth keeping after this. Good luck.