Taking it slow with taurus

Hi

I'm interested in a Taurus woman but we only met a few months ago. I felt a connection and we have been texting nearly every day since. I am away on business for 2 months so our only form of communication is texting for now. We flirt and I've made it clear I'm interested but I know Taurus like to take it slow and become friends first.

How do I let her know I am crazy about her and still interested without flirting and saying it all the time? I'm afraid I'll come off as disinterested.

And she always says "you do make me laugh" and when I ask for a reason she says "it's a good thing"

What is ur sunsign? 🙂

Yeah, for serious I'd like to get to know the guy firstly, be friends.... As i seek a passionate lover and a devoted friend in one.
But it depends on each individual. I'm very busy with my work and i rejected some relationships because of that.

Answering your question, always be attentive, don't think you'd get on her nerves by your constant attention. I find that GOOD CRAZY and sexxyy when the guy is with an edge - sometimes he's all cheeky and flirty and next time he's serious and caring/loving........

It's a good sign she says like that. Mind she may have already had a crush on you but won't tell you that for a long time. So be patient if a taurus lady is so dear to you.

Say it with your actions and investment in her life Good luck 🙂

I'm a Sag which I know usually doesn't bode well with a Taurus but I like her so much. All I do is think about her. We have so many things in common and when we talk we always talk about sci fi movies or animals or anything funny that we like. Sometimes I change the subject to flirt but then I don't know if I should just take it slow and talk about silly things we have in common rather than flirting.

I just want her to know I'll be here for her and hopefully she will become even closer and start to open up to me by the time I see her again in April.

don't focus on astrology. enjoy the moments and take it slow. just keep in mind to be CONSISTENT, stay playful but respectful. we enjoy lil thoughtful surprise. Laughter is one way to our heart... (well just speaking from my prospective). We are ppl who obverse actions. Words are nice but they are worthless if action is not followed.

observe*

Avoid the 'wandering eye' that most Sags are infamously known for.
Not making a generalization, just a forewarning if you did possess those tendencies.

These women may come off as 'chill' and 'laid' back...but there is that possessive streak!

...And you don't want a piece of it 🙂

🙂 I know we get a bad name but I can't imagine anyone being as beautiful as her...especially with so many things in common. We texted each other for a steady 4 hours last night and I kept it friendly - talking about animals and sci fi. I fought the urge to flirt because it's all I want to do....tell her I'm crazy about her.

On another point, she always points out that she's old....I just always make a rolling eye face or tell her that she's beautiful. Anything else I can do? She isn't old at all!

Keep up with the compliments... definitely agree with being consistent and letting ur actions speak louder than your words... cook for her first chance u get...

Is it normal for Taurus ladies to be self conscience about their age, looks, etc? She is always saying she's old, needs a surgeon, etc in a joking manner but I just joke it away. Why does she do this? Is there something I can say to let her know she is blind in a nice way?? 😄

She's in mid 40s...not old at all. It's almost as if she wants me to keep telling her she isn't.

She sent me a text of a picture of something I like and said "thinking of you" with heart eyes. That's a good sign , right? She seems to only say something if she means it.

She also teases me a lot. Is that common for a Taurus girl? I'm head over heels for her.

I'm sending her some chocolates in the mail that she likes 😄

Girl...female...woman... In my eyes 40s is young

Wut

Also, I've noticed that no matter how many times I compliment her, she doesn't compliment me as often. Like she's complimented my looks before and my personality but it doesn't come easy. Do you Taurus ladies make us work for compliments or you just dish them out very often?

And she never wants to admit anything! Is that part of Taurus stubbornness? She always says she is smart because she knows not to admit to anything.... Is this her playing hard to get or being playful?

Thanks for the insight.

Do you Taurus girls sometimes get closed off every now and then? Some days she will text me all day, joking and flirting...other days, she doesn't say as much and seems a little distant. When I ask if she's ok, she just will say yes or yup....so I don't want to annoy her but it's just strange. I guess I thought Taurus girls would tell it like it is if something is bothering them,

Is this just part of the personality that I need to get used to? Are you all talk one minute and the next day, a little off? I don't know if I should ask if she's ok all the time or just ignore it.

Posted by fringefan
Hi

I'm interested in a Taurus woman but we only met a few months ago. I felt a connection and we have been texting nearly every day since. I am away on business for 2 months so our only form of communication is texting for now. We flirt and I've made it clear I'm interested but I know Taurus like to take it slow and become friends first.

How do I let her know I am crazy about her and still interested without flirting and saying it all the time? I'm afraid I'll come off as disinterested.

For me this depends, and I have a lot of planet in taurus so I'd call myself a true taurus. I do like to become a friend first but this is only for the guys I'm not really physically attracted to. Someone I am attracted to I'd move a lot faster with. Also there's a time where I'd randomly end up falling for someone I've only ever thought of as a friend.

If she's texting you first and wanting to see you when you ask then those are really good signs that she likes you. You're probably in the fiends zone if you always have to start the conversation, that means she's not thinking of you to want to talk to you. But don't worry we fall harder for personality so you can chabge our feelings for you. Just give her lots of attention and compliment her heaps. It'll take a while but trust me, that will work lol.

Posted by fringefan
Thanks for the insight.

Do you Taurus girls sometimes get closed off every now and then? Some days she will text me all day, joking and flirting...other days, she doesn't say as much and seems a little distant. When I ask if she's ok, she just will say yes or yup....so I don't want to annoy her but it's just strange. I guess I thought Taurus girls would tell it like it is if something is bothering them,

Is this just part of the personality that I need to get used to? Are you all talk one minute and the next day, a little off? I don't know if I should ask if she's ok all the time or just ignore it.

We do tell it like it is, so if she says she is fine then she is. Short answers mean the conversation is boring and shed rather stop talking to you, also could mean you're friendzoned. Trust me, you will be able to tell if she likes you. Shell be all over you and all up.in your business.

Sometimes it honestly is feeling like she's testing me? Like seeing if by flirting one minute and being not very talkative the next will make me lose interest...It won't because I'm persistent.

About being friend zoned..I really don't mind because I would rather she trust me and really like me deep down first anyway. But does a Taurus girl send a picture of someone's favorite thing with heart eyes and say "thinking of you"? That doesn't sound very friend zone to me haha

Anyway, I'm just not sure if I should call her out on it, play along, or just ignore her if she's in a non talkative mood.

My placements are true taurus too. So I can be all serious, or can joke around too, can flirt but only if I am interested..

The only reason I'd friend zone someone is because we aren't compatible. In a few months of getting to know someone else, I would ask question with questions, or simply make statements that I feel and see where you are coming from in the friend ship phase . Because deep down I would want to be in a relationship long term if possible if I see things down the future. I live in future tenses. It is why I feel it takes longer to settle down.

@fringefan- I used to watch that show faithfully. It was pretty intense, twisted, and enough to keep my attention.
And up there is for you if you want some insights.

Cancel your tripe to be wit her.

Cancel all of the tripe.

I hate being a sag sometimes. I know it's just her personality but I hate when I don't hear from her...or anyone for that matter! I always feel like it's something I did or said.

So on those days she isn't very talkative, I just leave her be? I just want her to know that I'm there for her...it's confusing because n one hand, I hear Taurus girls are mushy and want attention but on the other hand they don't 🙂 it's so new to me

Well, she told me work laid off a couple people so she is basically working on her own half the week so she's swamped and tired. Glad she told me...I told her that I am here for her any time she needs me and left it at that.

I don't want to come off as clingy or needy so I'll let her text me over th next few days and I'll send her a nice message or silly picture to cheer her up every now and then. Is that a good idea?

Ah, April can't come soon enough. This texting business is for the birds.

Well I'll be able to be back with her in person. I've been away on business. It's the 28th

Haha, that's so cool

I saw her in January. But yesterday, I got home and she had sent me a box of goodies - all my favorite things. I asked her how she knew because some I hadn't told her and she said "because they are mine" aw, sweet right?

🙂 so I'm learning that taureans are much more likely to show their love and affection by gifts and actions rather than by words? Sometimes she will be really sweet but when I ask something she will not sugar coat it. Normal?

Taurus are moody, if she's flirty one minute and silent the next you probably said something that she didn't want to hear. I flirt with guys I have in the friendzone with, usually if they flirt with me first but us taurus are not the flirty type. We're naturally awkward.

But she's not testing you, the only times we'd test someone is when we're in a relationship with them and it'll usually be something dumb like a jealousy test.

Oh, I think she's very sweet, it's just that sometimes I find it funny that she will just say something so blunt. For example, I asked her if she'd watch a tv show that I love and she had never seen. Expecting a "with you, I would" she said, "nope, no desire to, sorry"

It just caught me off guard. I'm glad she doesn't sugarcoat it - I've just got to learn she isn't being mean or rude..she's just being honest!

Also, do you like hearing you're missed, that you're beautiful, etc? Or do you already know by attention?

I just want to tell her all these things all the time because they are true and she makes me soooooo happy. I've got it bad.

And I know sags and taureans don't go well together in a relationship but in other aspects we are good together and remember, if anything, I am persistent and stubborn!

Makes sense. Thanks for the advice. How will I know if/when she's falling for me?

I've heard the sexual chemistry is off the charts between sags and taureans. Is this true? I have never felt such a spark in the presence of someone

😄 thanks - you know your stuff.

I have all the time in the world for her

So...as I said, she's been busy. Anyway, I texted her last night while she was at work about a show we watch and she replied with a really short answer. Then I asked her about her weekend and she didn't respond. I then asked her if she was ok and she didn't respond either.

What gives? Is she just busy and not responding because of that? What do I do now? Do I text her today and ask?

I should add that each of those messages had several hours in between them..not one right after the other.

Well I did ask her how her weekend was and also if she was ok... So they were questions. Sometimes she will respond after a few hours if she is busy but she usually responds at some point. So I should just leave it be and not ask why she didn't respond?

I understand what you're saying about not bombarding her. That's what I'm trying to avoid...but I also don't want her to think that I'm losing or that I've lost interest. Because from what I've read, taureans don't like another person to act like they don't care...I'm just genuinely concerned if she's doing ok from all the work.

So she's been super busy and then she became sick this week so I haven't talked to her as much as I'd like to. She seems kind of distant but I'm putting it down to the stress of work and the flu..

What do I do in the meantime? Text her every now and then or leave her be? Just asking because I want her to know I'm thinking about her and here for her but I also don't want to bother her. Just want to know how a Taurus wants to be treated when she's experiencing stress and sickness,especially since all I can do is text her until April

Dearest fringefan, a Taurus Sun here, with Taurus Rising, Capricorn Moon, Venus in Aries - we don't know what moons and rising signs you and your friend have which also impact on your relationship. However - regardless. I know that I am very quiet when my energy is low and I need to recharge. After a busy week and being sick, I'm sure she just doesn't have the energy to give you what you need right now so it doesn't mean there is anything wrong or that she is messing around with another. I am very monogamous and can't/wouldn't even think about anyone else much less even look at them. My attention now is on my bb and he is the focus of my world.

I dated a Sag and he was very demanding and possessive. It seems to me that he expected things I didn't even fathom and since we didn't talk about expectations - I had no idea or I would have said no up front. We ended about month 6 or so. You see, expectations are the main cause of broken relationships. If you just "be" and stop "expecting" then you might be in for a surprise. But do talk about things up front so that she knows what your intentions are and can respond and then you both can learn the compromise game well. Just work it out. Be a "problem solver" together (if you run into that sort of thing down the line).

Yes, the bedroom fire was great and he seemed to like my Taurus pampering but make sure outside the bedroom there is good communication - Taurus will tell you what you want to know about them - just like she did about that tv show - just ask the question, don't "assume" or "expect" or "stress out about perceived notions" ... Taurus are very black and white - well at least I am. Very direct. My friend is a Libra and very indirect - I just listen to his rants and raves because he isn't actually asking me anything so to what would I have to chime in to?

Reassuring texts are good for me. Libra lets me know what he is doing and then I know what he is doing and there is no question. I let him know that I am there also by telling him what I'm doing and what is going on in my life and/or just telling him to have a nice day ... he needs that too with his Taurus Moon - so it works for the most part and you will get into a pattern soon enough ...

Keep us posted ... good luck to you ...

Moon - Taurus
Mars - Aries
Venus - Sagittarius

ooh fringefan, I didn't look back to see what sun/moon/rising/mars you were but you Ms Taurus is Sun and Moon with Fire in Venus and Mars - what is her rising sign ? ... how interesting ... I am Taurus Sun and Rising, Capricorn Moon and Venus in Aries - my Mars is in Pisces - what a twist I have with the fire above and the water below ...

how is it going - has she been feeling better and talking more too you ?

Taurean are famous for being direct just tell her,

the thing is I don't want to bring it up and seem needy if it's just her being busy.

From what I've learned, she'd say it if something were wrong and I know I haven't done anything or said anything wrong so I'll just put it down to it being a hectic period on her life and be there if she needs me. I don't want to bother her with my worries when it's just a difference in personality.