My Taurus girl is testing my patience.

Hello everyone, newly joined this forum.

Following are My details.

Sun in: 14°17' Scorpio
Moon in: 25°35' Leo
AS (Rising Star) in: 15°19' Leo
MC (Midheaven/10th house) in: 10°25' Taurus

I am a male, November 6 Born, 1985. 11:55 PM (Midnight).

I deeply love a Taurus girl, she loves me as well. She brings the best out of me. But we have 10 years age gap, She is 20 and I am 30. I read about Taurus women and I implement all my knowledge on her, I compliment her, I show patience with her, I don't force her to change opinion, I am easy going with her. She is insanely attracted to me, just my mere presence makes her go insane. I love giving gifts to her.

We have great future plans, I want to know if this mutual attraction and mutual understanding will last very long. Will she give her everything? I read Taurus women are very caring, loyal and dedicated.

Please shed some light on me and her.

Now coming to problems,
1. She wants to settle in Canada, I want to settle in Australia.
2. She spends actual time with me in person, 4 hours on each weekday. We are in same academic institution. But she is resisting to go on a private date, and she does not like to talk on phone or WhatsApp. She has warned me not to force her. I know Taurus women are sensual and love getting physical, but my girl is extremely shy.
3. I am her first love, she has told me this, I asked her. She never lies, I trust her. She talks very less and always to the point. She says stern NO when in disagreement. I actually like her clarity of tthoughts. Deep inside I know I should be patient and give her time.

I am not a player, I can wait a long long time if its worth it. I am emotionally invested in her, I can't see any other girl.

My Taurus is exactly the same way he is extremely shy and you can not rush them.. In his own words not even an army could force them to change their minds.. If she tells you that she cares she means it because I have learned they do not say things they don't means..

Please if you don't listen to anything that I say listen to this "BE PATIENT" they are not the type that will allow you to rush them.. Give her some time and she will come around at her own pace.. I am I cancer and I feel exactly the same way that you do about her Taurus the chemistry is magical and it's so hard not to fall for them fast but try you very best to take it slow so you don't over think the little things..

@OP-Yeah age does play a factor..
Chemistry is great
Now comes the compromise and communication where one may be stubborn on moving to another place if they see a different pov.
So how long have you been friends?

Oh by private date, you mean actual go out..I wonder why she's not sure about you yet, because if someone likes you, they would spend alot of talk to you all the time or go out too. Or she justs wants to be platonic friends as she is sorta young.

Have you asked her what do you like about me questions..What does she want right now? Friendship or long term monogamous relationship.

It sounds great, the only thing that struck me funny is you wanting to move to Australia.

Its difficult to uproot a Taurus is they are happy where they are, especially if they have family around.

As an earth sign myself, I would have a problem "uprooting" to a different country no matter how much I loved my partner.. however if my partner wanted to move in the states I would do that.

That's the kind of decision that may never change no matter how much you love each other.

My ex-boyfriend was a Scorpio.
We dated for three years.
I can understand the mutual chemistry.
There seems to always be a magnetic pull with these polar opposites.

But I will speak from my own experience, I can't vouch for other Bull's experiences with other Scorpios.
I will love someone unconditionally...but I will also maintain some level of self-identity, some space.
I am very career-focused which means you will probably come in at #2.
I am not always emotionally intuitive, so a clear direct communication is always needed.
I'm romantic, in a subtle sense....it's gradual and requires the 'eye' of a keen observer.

My ex-Scorpio was very romantic, very intense, and and quite demanding of my time.
He also expected me to 'play the role of a psychic' on what he wanted or needed, or what he was feeling.
This has been a major problem for me with Water signs in the past.

The key things to remember is this.
Bulls DO love unconditionally.
We ALWAYS say what we mean, so please try not to 'read' into what we're telling you...just simply understand WHAT we're telling you.
We want to trust you with our lives and our hearts.
Honesty and loyalty means everything to a Bull.
So when you argue, do so with reason and not vengeance.
A trust betrayed, or broken, and you will have an unforgiving Bull on your hands.

Tread lightly!

Good Luck.
Scorps are actually wonderful people by the way.
I didn't want you to think that I was just focusing on the negatives.

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Posted by SensitiveBlues
You're 30 years old. What is it with OLD AZZ scorpio men that LOOK OLD want to always date women a decade younger.

i think it's a control thing and its creepy

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I think its sweet, he said he loves to buy her gifts

I look 24, I look way younger than my actual age. Due to Leo Rising, I have a lean, fit and strong physique. They say Leo resembles a lion/cat.

I was not aware that she is decade younger lol, I assumed she is 23-24 and she thought I am 25-26 maximum. She never paid any attention to age gap anyways. Other than age gap, we have everything else similar, Ethnicity/family values/culture etc.

Posted by DonnaElvira77
If it's ok to ask? Where are you from originally and what is the dating culture and culture between men and women where you are from? I get the impression you are not from the states or from Australia or Canada anyway?

I am an Indian, from a small town. Dating culture is underground, my love is infact from a nearby village and she has very traditional values. Only option for most girls to have a love marriage is to elope with her lover or convince their parents to which they have started agreeing in recent years, age gap remains a taboo though. It's a double whammy lol, Indian + Taurus. Taurus itself is sign of traditions. Her best friend, a Capricorn from same village is bold, confident girl and in relationship since last 4 years. My GF wants to move to Canada for higher studies, I got permanent residence in Australia.

Posted by TaurusBull1977
My ex-boyfriend was a Scorpio.
We dated for three years.
I can understand the mutual chemistry.
There seems to always be a magnetic pull with these polar opposites.

But I will speak from my own experience, I can't vouch for other Bull's experiences with other Scorpios.
I will love someone unconditionally...but I will also maintain some level of self-identity, some space.
I am very career-focused which means you will probably come in at #2.
I am not always emotionally intuitive, so a clear direct communication is always needed.
I'm romantic, in a subtle sense....it's gradual and requires the 'eye' of a keen observer.

My ex-Scorpio was very romantic, very intense, and and quite demanding of my time.
He also expected me to 'play the role of a psychic' on what he wanted or needed, or what he was feeling.
This has been a major problem for me with Water signs in the past.

The key things to remember is this.
Bulls DO love unconditionally.
We ALWAYS say what we mean, so please try not to 'read' into what we're telling you...just simply understand WHAT we're telling you.
We want to trust you with our lives and our hearts.
Honesty and loyalty means everything to a Bull.
So when you argue, do so with reason and not vengeance.
A trust betrayed, or broken, and you will have an unforgiving Bull on your hands.

Tread lightly!

Good Luck.
Scorps are actually wonderful people by the way.
I didn't want you to think that I was just focusing on the negatives.

theres no such thing as loving someone unconditionally.

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Posted by DMV

Posted by TaurusBull1977
My ex-boyfriend was a Scorpio.
We dated for three years.
I can understand the mutual chemistry.
There seems to always be a magnetic pull with these polar opposites.

But I will speak from my own experience, I can't vouch for other Bull's experiences with other Scorpios.
I will love someone unconditionally...but I will also maintain some level of self-identity, some space.
I am very career-focused which means you will probably come in at #2.
I am not always emotionally intuitive, so a clear direct communication is always needed.
I'm romantic, in a subtle sense....it's gradual and requires the 'eye' of a keen observer.

My ex-Scorpio was very romantic, very intense, and and quite demanding of my time.
He also expected me to 'play the role of a psychic' on what he wanted or needed, or what he was feeling.
This has been a major problem for me with Water signs in the past.

The key things to remember is this.
Bulls DO love unconditionally.
We ALWAYS say what we mean, so please try not to 'read' into what we're telling you...just simply understand WHAT we're telling you.
We want to trust you with our lives and our hearts.
Honesty and loyalty means everything to a Bull.
So when you argue, do so with reason and not vengeance.
A trust betrayed, or broken, and you will have an unforgiving Bull on your hands.

Tread lightly!

Good Luck.
Scorps are actually wonderful people by the way.
I didn't want you to think that I was just focusing on the negatives.

theres no such thing as loving someone unconditionally.

Trust me - there is... It's just not written in the "School of Sags Rule" book!!! Lol

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it wouldnt be in our handbook. no sag is that dumb to love someone without conditions.

Posted by evalani290
My neighbours are married for almost 40 years,Sagittarius woman/Taurus man. They still tease one another and have fun together and contrary to Taurus natural skill for managing finances,she takes care of all that while he does the chores around the house.

Also,i agree with DMV. Unconditional love for Taurus people is present as long as you don't cheat,lie or disrespect them,that's valid for everyone in general,usually.
So throwing something like "unconditional" out there is pure bullshit to me. But i'm sure there are people capable of that,maybe even you Busy.

yes i would agree with this 100% .

The term 'unconditional love' is subjective and is applicable to different types of relationships.
Of course cheating and lies is an exception....
However, when I say I love you, it's not for the moment, or when things appear to be perfect....
I will love you in spite of your flaws, shortcomings, and in sickness.
If I Choose YOU (and I'm very selective), then yes, investing in you for the long-haul is worth it!

So please everyone, lets not try to over-analyze my response.

I found my GFs Rising star, Moon and Midheaven.

Sun in: 5°58' Taurus
Moon in: 15°35' Sagittarius
AS in: 1°41' Cancer
MC in: 15°43' Pisces

She is an extrovert and not a foodie. Very contrary to Taurus Sun. She also told me that she is very emotional and cries with ease though I always see her extremely happy and rock solid. Her walk and physique is typical Taurus, conserving energy. She walks extremely slow.

Tell me more about her, I don't have good grip on Moon, AS and MC.

She may see something in you that isn't quite right with her. You seem like you want to posess and consume her. Control . red flag.

I do agree with everyone else. She's young and hasn't lived. Her career and individuality comes first. She's not in the same place inn life. You're 30 and had your chances. She's 20 and has. Barely begun and you already want to restrict her life choices to suit your own. Be patient and compromise. Offer and let her have a say or let her plan most of it. Don't be controlling. We taurus cans sense a controlling marker even if he hasn't done or said anything yet. It's a feeling.