Talker, texted or non of the above

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2LoV3
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Hi bulls, I am just curious on how you like to communicate.

I am finally getting somewhere with my bull, slowly but surely. He is very responsive now when I msg but I am starting to notice a slight change. I didn’t want to rush him so I kept it to texts but noticed that he wasn’t really into answering questions so I just said I would call which he was receptive to (a big change for him) and ever since we just talk now. I usually only msg to ask something very specific or see if he is free as he is soooo busy at work.

What’s your preferred style of communication?
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2LoV3
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Posted by ExistentialPrism

I hate it when people call, I ignore texts, I'm more of a face to face person. However, If I like someone romantically, I do really enjoy talking over the phone. And I'll reply to their texts even if it is a few hours late.


Sounds like my bull. He’s become very chatty on the phone lately. Really starting to let me in on his life. Where he goes, who he goes with, work stuff everything. It’s nice when you open up!
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2LoV3
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Posted by Redbull

I hate texting for some reason. Part of it is the time it takes to sit there and type it and part is that its there in writing. I prefer to just have the convo and be over. Especially texting me a question like we could have just got that over with instantly. *note I just found out my phone is out and been out for who knows how long when somebody pointed out they tried to call me. My mind has pretty much been on working more hours and trying to get things together financially and business. Im not communicating with anyone through the phone no telling what I've missed and really . So just speaking for me its none of the above currently but Im in a different situation. Then its calls. Sometimes a text is the way to go tho. Maybe the reason to the response to calling is it seems more organic, simple and direct?

I think that must be it. He has become more open. I think he was in a similar situation to you not so long ago. Just working his way up at work and improving his finances. He is much happier with his position now. I get the sense he still wants to enjoy some more “me” time which is cool. Nice that he’s being so open now though
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calling is frustrating (if it's planned, then it's ok.)

texting sucks. if the other person is asking a lot of questions just for reasons of keeping the convo is the worst, since it's taking the precious daily time to answer them and in anyway it won't lead to a meaningful

emotional connection. you need to meet face to face, feel the feels, read the vibe and emotion

funny jokes or interesting daily observations through texts are neat.

but if i write, i tend do be a "letter type" person. love writing emails where i can express myself more and you spend just one part of the day for that. my texts on phone tend to be darn long too