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Boots1313
joined February 07, 2018
femaleTaurus Sun,Virgo Moon, Gem Venus, Libra Rising
  • Boots1313
    Taurus Sun,Virgo Moon, Gem Venus, Libra Rising
    female
    You played games. Didn't answer his questions honestly...youre too young for him anyway. This is cringy.
    What a your sign?
  • Boots1313
    Taurus Sun,Virgo Moon, Gem Venus, Libra Rising
    female
    I've dated (only listing significant relationships 1 year +)
    Virgo, Virgo, Aries, Scorp

    I attract a lot of virgos I think in the long run we make better friends. They are shady at least the two I seriously dated were, and the other ones I have had casual things with were as well.

    My relationship with Scorpio was the longest and prob the most real. 5 years on and off, 5 more years solid. I truly loved him, was ready to marry him. He cheated so I said "bye" and never looked back.

    Aries was a easy relationship, we were just young.

    Ill give an honorable mention to my current relationship with fellow Taurus...ao far so great! I can see it lasting for awhile






  • Boots1313
    Taurus Sun,Virgo Moon, Gem Venus, Libra Rising
    female
    Posted by Sag898
    9 months in this day and age! How does someone even disappear like that? lol

    I've had it happen to me, but we weren't anything serious...
    If we were boyfriend or girlfriend I don't know how someone could just poof
  • Boots1313
    Taurus Sun,Virgo Moon, Gem Venus, Libra Rising
    female
    Posted by gloomyrose
    so the dick has a gf now . what a surprise .


    This sucks.
    Forget about him and move on
    He's a just a maker
  • Boots1313
    Taurus Sun,Virgo Moon, Gem Venus, Libra Rising
    female
    Posted by Metatron
    Posted by Shey8888


    So I’m now waiting for a reply. I truly miss him he really made me feel somethings. And then I keep seeing Aries and Taurus don’t work out lol should I just give up now? My mind has really gotten the best of me this last week to where it’s made me sick to my stomach. I feel ashamed of how I went about things. In my defense a year ago I ended with my bf of 6 years and 2 kids. It was a very abusive relationship and he couldn’t be trusted so Unfortunatley sometimes I feel like everyone is being shady and no one can be trusted. I think I’m better off being single!!! Lol


    honestly, sun sign astrology is pretty irrelevant when it comes to compatibility IMO. Any two signs can work, given other aspects betw. two charts, often even the harder aspects in synastry can be opportunities for growth and create stronger sexual chemistry....Astrology is not determinate enough, and even if it where, no one is good enough of an astrologer on this site, or anywhere, to tell you it won't work out based on your sign...There are always moving pieces that affect charts like your own maturity and growth in life, and factors in predictive astrology like progressions and planetary transits that rule out the kind of simplistic advice you usually get here....

    Your main issues seem to be distrust (understandable) based on your past, impatience/anxiety, and jumping to conclusions....A patient/understanding partner in a relationship can provide a contrary experience that will help you to heal, if you're just open with him around these kinds of issues you're having, and how it makes you want to cut and run....Its hard to be vulnerable about stuff like this, but you're doing it here with strangers. The more he's able to understand your triggers, the more likely he is to adjust his behavior if he's thoughtful - e.g., not leave you hanging as much on text, give more detailed explanation about hangouts w/guys, opposite sex friends, etc. Taurus men typically understand the importance of trust, fidelity, issues around jealousy etc., and it'll probably bring you two closer together....
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    This!
    you are very wise.
    I have the same trust issues, and tbh it was hard to be vulnerable with my partner and I still need a lot of reassurance. But when we discuss it he always hears me out and makes sure to do/say things that make me feel at ease.
    I feel Taurus men are very understanding and they can be emotional and sympathetic. My bull is especially good at putting himself in my shoes and seeing it from my view point. I appreciate him so much for that!
    You can still come out on top, you just have to be open...i know it's tough. For me I just thought "well I'll put it all out there, if he can't handle it, he isn't the guy for me"
    That was 5 months ago...
  • Boots1313
    Taurus Sun,Virgo Moon, Gem Venus, Libra Rising
    female
    Posted by Impulsv
    Posted by Ariqua
    Posted by bkbella86
    I think you were right about your assumptions. I wouldn’t trust him.


    What makes you say that
    He said he should have been more upfront
    About what???
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    See this I would have questioned more(COMMUNICATION)..to me it sounds like he has someone else he's talking to. Maybe not a gf but someone he is entertaininG...
  • Boots1313
    Taurus Sun,Virgo Moon, Gem Venus, Libra Rising
    female
    Posted by ondasp
    Posted by Boots1313
    Hey girl, I'm a Taurus female dating a Taurus man, and I would say I "rushed" My guy, I have to say for us it worked out.

    Here's what I think happened in this situation...you were not being clear!
    Most Taurus men I know want a relationship, they take it slow but if they are giving you time, they are interested. You need to chill out (as people know here, I don't always do that lol)
    Mistake 1) you made it seem like you were just interested in sex with him...that was probably a red flag to him. You didn't make it seem like you were interested in a relationship so his response of "let's see where it goes" was him responding to you're disinterest.
    Mistake 2) you left. In the middle of the night?! Da faq...you even said you were cuddled in his arms and left?
    Wow I would feel so rejected and hurt after that.


    Hi, thank you for your comment. I should clarify that he knew I was going to leave and not spend the night as his, because I had to work the next morning so I needed to sleep at home. The same happened the previous time we slept together and I explained to him why I could not spend the night at his and everything was absolutely fine. So leaving "in the middle of the night" was fine per se, just the way I did it was a bit awkward I think.
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    Okay, thank you for clarifying. It sounded like you were upset and just left.
    Communication is key.
    I have confronted my bull a lot about what I want/need/ and my intentions. Sometimes they were embarrassing and other times we got into some fights about it, but ultimately we compromised to found what works for both of us.
    We went exclusive after 4 weeks of dating, so I dont think your clarification at 6 weeks is crazy.
    You said you havent heard from him Since that night...have you reached out? If not do it...
  • Boots1313
    Taurus Sun,Virgo Moon, Gem Venus, Libra Rising
    female
    Hey girl, I'm a Taurus female dating a Taurus man, and I would say I "rushed" My guy, I have to say for us it worked out.

    Here's what I think happened in this situation...you were not being clear!
    Most Taurus men I know want a relationship, they take it slow but if they are giving you time, they are interested. You need to chill out (as people know here, I don't always do that lol)
    Mistake 1) you made it seem like you were just interested in sex with him...that was probably a red flag to him. You didn't make it seem like you were interested in a relationship so his response of "let's see where it goes" was him responding to you're disinterest.
    Mistake 2) you left. In the middle of the night?! Da faq...you even said you were cuddled in his arms and left?
    Wow I would feel so rejected and hurt after that.
  • Boots1313
    Taurus Sun,Virgo Moon, Gem Venus, Libra Rising
    female
    No
  • Boots1313
    Taurus Sun,Virgo Moon, Gem Venus, Libra Rising
    female
    I apologize, i keep hearinf referneces to the taurus and scorp relationship today and I'm just so disgusted by it...ill never date another scorpio again...
    SCORPIO PTSD
  • Boots1313
    Taurus Sun,Virgo Moon, Gem Venus, Libra Rising
    female
    Btw @RockyMountainOysters
    You were in my dream last night, I meant to ask you a question. (No idea what now)
    Also I was in Colorado so I guess something about Rocky Mountain Oysters came up?
    Does this mean I'm a real dxper? I dreaming of other members nonsense and ridiculousness?
  • Boots1313
    Taurus Sun,Virgo Moon, Gem Venus, Libra Rising
    female
    Sorry Scorps....not about it 😝
  • Boots1313
    Taurus Sun,Virgo Moon, Gem Venus, Libra Rising
    female
    Posted by Squishy_Marshmallow
    Taurus +Scorpio = 💕


    😝😝
  • Boots1313
    Taurus Sun,Virgo Moon, Gem Venus, Libra Rising
    female
    ....drawing a blank. Too lazy to think
    I'll get back to you

    (Why you gotta do hard questions when my brain is in weekend mode...damm curious taurus 😒😛)
  • Boots1313
    Taurus Sun,Virgo Moon, Gem Venus, Libra Rising
    female
    Posted by Impulsv
    Posted by Metatron
    Posted by -sierra-
    @Metatron

    maybe narcissistic's not a good term..
    an 'instrument of self-discovery' sounds better.. instead of 'losing yourself' in someone else maybe it's actually 'finding a better you' in another.. i once made a thread on here in my first ever account about how i feel like he and i are acquiring traits of each other through the years.. maybe it just starts to get irritating to look at yourself sometimes lolz


    busy day, have to head back to work but hopefully can comment more later....interesting thread....I really like the "self discovery" bit here, and even more so the "better you". I think we become a different person to an extent in any relationship....People often say they don't want to lose who they are, but its inevitable to a degree. If you retain enough of a sense of your old self and values though, to dislike the person you're becoming, that's when you should be seeing it as a red flag IMO....

    just one thing also I always note is that there's a healthy degree of narcissism most people possess, without actually having the full-blown disorder, so I don't automatically interpret the word in a negative light:

    https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/fulfillment-any-age/201201/the-healthy-side-narcissism


    So what does it mean
    When I looked into his eye I saw the most beautiful being
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    I think Christopher Walken said it best
    ..."the eye's are the windows to
    your....Face"
  • Boots1313
    Taurus Sun,Virgo Moon, Gem Venus, Libra Rising
    female
    The other "love" story is that of my Libra friend and a male leo, who is a drug addict and basically uses her for sex.
    When he gets too coked up, beats her and. brusises her. Knocked her up, forced her to have an abortion. He disappeared for 6 months, and when he texted her she was out the door and in his bed in seconds flat.
    She talks about him "once he gets himself cleaned up, he's going to marry me. He's the only man I ever loved"
    Right now he's gone...been a month a d shes like Eore.
    Why do smart people do this to themselves?!!