Posted by Sag898
9 months in this day and age! How does someone even disappear like that? lol
Posted by gloomyrose
so the dick has a gf now . what a surprise .
Posted by MetatronPosted by Shey8888
So I’m now waiting for a reply. I truly miss him he really made me feel somethings. And then I keep seeing Aries and Taurus don’t work out lol should I just give up now? My mind has really gotten the best of me this last week to where it’s made me sick to my stomach. I feel ashamed of how I went about things. In my defense a year ago I ended with my bf of 6 years and 2 kids. It was a very abusive relationship and he couldn’t be trusted so Unfortunatley sometimes I feel like everyone is being shady and no one can be trusted. I think I’m better off being single!!! Lol
honestly, sun sign astrology is pretty irrelevant when it comes to compatibility IMO. Any two signs can work, given other aspects betw. two charts, often even the harder aspects in synastry can be opportunities for growth and create stronger sexual chemistry....Astrology is not determinate enough, and even if it where, no one is good enough of an astrologer on this site, or anywhere, to tell you it won't work out based on your sign...There are always moving pieces that affect charts like your own maturity and growth in life, and factors in predictive astrology like progressions and planetary transits that rule out the kind of simplistic advice you usually get here....
Your main issues seem to be distrust (understandable) based on your past, impatience/anxiety, and jumping to conclusions....A patient/understanding partner in a relationship can provide a contrary experience that will help you to heal, if you're just open with him around these kinds of issues you're having, and how it makes you want to cut and run....Its hard to be vulnerable about stuff like this, but you're doing it here with strangers. The more he's able to understand your triggers, the more likely he is to adjust his behavior if he's thoughtful - e.g., not leave you hanging as much on text, give more detailed explanation about hangouts w/guys, opposite sex friends, etc. Taurus men typically understand the importance of trust, fidelity, issues around jealousy etc., and it'll probably bring you two closer together....click to expand
Posted by ImpulsvPosted by AriquaHe said he should have been more upfrontPosted by bkbella86
I think you were right about your assumptions. I wouldn’t trust him.
What makes you say that
About what???click to expand
Posted by ondaspPosted by Boots1313
Hey girl, I'm a Taurus female dating a Taurus man, and I would say I "rushed" My guy, I have to say for us it worked out.
Here's what I think happened in this situation...you were not being clear!
Most Taurus men I know want a relationship, they take it slow but if they are giving you time, they are interested. You need to chill out (as people know here, I don't always do that lol)
Mistake 1) you made it seem like you were just interested in sex with him...that was probably a red flag to him. You didn't make it seem like you were interested in a relationship so his response of "let's see where it goes" was him responding to you're disinterest.
Mistake 2) you left. In the middle of the night?! Da faq...you even said you were cuddled in his arms and left?
Wow I would feel so rejected and hurt after that.
Hi, thank you for your comment. I should clarify that he knew I was going to leave and not spend the night as his, because I had to work the next morning so I needed to sleep at home. The same happened the previous time we slept together and I explained to him why I could not spend the night at his and everything was absolutely fine. So leaving "in the middle of the night" was fine per se, just the way I did it was a bit awkward I think.click to expand
Posted by Squishy_Marshmallow
Taurus +Scorpio = 💕
Posted by ImpulsvPosted by MetatronPosted by -sierra-
maybe narcissistic's not a good term..
an 'instrument of self-discovery' sounds better.. instead of 'losing yourself' in someone else maybe it's actually 'finding a better you' in another.. i once made a thread on here in my first ever account about how i feel like he and i are acquiring traits of each other through the years.. maybe it just starts to get irritating to look at yourself sometimes lolz
busy day, have to head back to work but hopefully can comment more later....interesting thread....I really like the "self discovery" bit here, and even more so the "better you". I think we become a different person to an extent in any relationship....People often say they don't want to lose who they are, but its inevitable to a degree. If you retain enough of a sense of your old self and values though, to dislike the person you're becoming, that's when you should be seeing it as a red flag IMO....
just one thing also I always note is that there's a healthy degree of narcissism most people possess, without actually having the full-blown disorder, so I don't automatically interpret the word in a negative light:
So what does it mean
When I looked into his eye I saw the most beautiful beingclick to expand