Taurus

I've been with this Taurus girl for 3.5 months. I'm a Pisces and I very much align with the whole "fall in love easily" idea. We didn't know eachother before dating. Our first month together was incredibly emotional (no sex, but everything else). We texted a lot every day, and a 20 minute phone call sometimes. We had one night where we got drunk and she stayed over; she has held onto this, and says it's a red flag. At the end of month 1, something happened in her personal life with her ex and she emotionally shut down, ever since we've been less intimate. We still talk, and she hasn't completely cut me off as she has with others.

In the early stages, she couldn't take her eyes off me. She opened up to me about a lot of things. Since that event, we talk less, and there's been less affection. She's told me often that she doesn't trust people, especially men. She has very few friends. Our mutual friend says she likes me, I'm a nice guy, and that her parents like me (I've never met them). However, she also tells me that my Taurus girl knows I want a girlfriend, but she's not ready. She's cancelled on plans 3 times in the last 2 weeks, and our last date was 2 weeks ago.

After this last cancellation, I've not talked to her. I'm in love with her, and I know that she and I could have a wonderful future (our dreams align), but right now it feels like she doesn't want me in her life. Why would a Taurus woman act this way? I know she likes me a lot. Do I keep ignoring her and giving her space? It's not like me to be absent, I constantly worry and want to be there for people. That's the Pisces in me.

Here are our in depth signs as I've seen posted elsewhere:

Me: March 4, 1987
Moon: Taurus
Venus: Aquarius
Mars: Taurus

Her: May 18, 1992
Moon: Saggitarius
Venus: Taurus
Mars: Aries

Ironically, the last girl I dated was a Taurus. We were together for 5 months, nowhere near as intimate. At the end, I asked her to be my girlfriend, and she said she didn't know. I left her alone. I met her at a party a few weeks ago (6 months after), and she texted me the next day apologizing for not giving me an answer before. She ultimately said she thought we made a great couple, but that she just wasn't ready then. I've been holding on to this memory to remind myself that this time could be the same thing. I know Taurus-Pisces is supposed to be a strong relationship, and I want this to work so much. Any Taurus perspective would be much appreciated. Please help.

The title was supposed to be, Taurus "girlfriend", please help. But it changed it for some reason.

Even more in depth charts for those who know their meaning:

Mine:
Rising Saggitarius
Sun Pisces
Moon Taurus
Mercury Pisces
Venus Aquarius
Mars Taurus
Jupiter Aries
Saturn Sagittarius
Uranus Sagittarius
Neptune Capricorn
Pluto Scorpio
True Node Aries

Hers:
Rising Libra
Sun Taurus
Moon Sagittarius
Mercury Taurus
Venus Taurus
Mars Aries
Jupiter Virgo
Saturn Aquarius
Uranus Capricorn
Neptune Capricorn
Pluto Scorpio
True Node Capricorn

Taurus ppl take a long time to trust someone as in you wont see the results u want in just a couple of months. Patience is the key, when it comes to them. Give her space when she needs it. She mentioned that she doesnt trust people esp. guys. My advice is just let her be, but show-key word show-that you care. Thats all i can tell you..

Be patient and keep showing her that you care. We are a bit cautious before we fall all in. The worse thing to do is rush and push Her into the relationship. She will resist and run. Show her that you can be trusted and whatever you do... Do NOT try and make her jealous or show another female attention.

The thing is, I've already been kind of heavy with her in relationship talks, without discussing anything more than being a couple. I'm a dreamer and romantic, so I get swept up pretty easily. For me, I have fallen out of love pretty quickly as well, but this time I am sticking around and everything tells me I shouldn't.

What about my ignoring her? She cancelled on our plans two weeks ago due to a migraine, so we didn't spend Valentine's Day together, or that weekend. She then cancelled this last weekend because she passed out due to over exertion in her workout and didn't wake up until late that night on the floor. She explained all of this to me in a text, but I haven't responded in three days. Her message was rather dismissive, saying that I shouldn't worry about her, and just go about on my week. So I'm a little hurt by that.

Do Taurean women have wandering eyes in early relationships? I've heard they are committed and loyal, but I wonder if that's only once things are solidified.

ShadowAbsorber,

Thank you for that insight 🙂. She's definitely going through a lot of personal stress (and has said once that we kind of started at an unfortunate time). I'm also glad to hear that there's no wandering eyes, haha. Our mutual friend has told me this, but I know from her and my last Taurus, that there are typically a lot of guy friends or potential suitors. I'm going to keep playing things out; she knows what I want, but I constantly tell her that I want what she wants, which is to be good friends and get to know one another.

Thanks 🙂

Well, I caved. I sent her a message this morning saying, "Morning. How are you doing?". Her response was cold feeling, saying "Good morning to you. I'm doing alright." and leaving it at that. I really want to be there for her like you say, but I read that and I read "Leave me alone". Do Tauruses tell someone when you no longer want to see them? Or do you just disappear? She's never told me that we're through, or that she doesn't want to be with me, but she also doesn't seem very invested right now.

I have an addiction to this Taurus, and I can't shake it, haha...