Taurus ex broke up with me but want us 2 b friends

Hello there! I need taurus guys to help me with my taurus ex. He broke up with me after 2 months after being together as a couple. Wehad grea time being together but then we had huge fight that ended up him breaking up with me. But it made me confused when he said i broke up with him when he actually posted on FB that he is single and ready to mingle. We haven't had a proper talk since we had a fight but then all of a sudden he posted that. Our fight has nothing to do with anyone or a third party, it was actually a simple misunderstanding that only requires open and honest communication. But then he took it badly and started accusing me that i don't trust him. Kindly painful for me being accused of not trusting him because i know to myself that i trust a lot, i just needed an answer to my simple question.
I went to his place hoping that he cooled down already but then i was stunned by the way he treated me when he saw me sitting infront of his room. He asked me to leave and if i won't leave right away, he will ask the guard to take me out of his flat. I was so surprised the way he behaved as if i'm a stranger to him. But then again, i still took courage to speak with him but he was still so stubborn and continued emabarrasing me infront of his friend. Gosh! I have never been treated that way nor humiliated tha way before. But i swallowed my pride because i wanted to work things out for both of us.
I left after that and still txted him and calls him but non were answered. So i stopped.
After a week he txted me, that he doesn't want to stay with me anymore but he wants us to be really good friends.
After that txt I really got confused. I don't want to think that he was trying to be nice or being childish in that manner after all that had happened.
I just want to know if he really means it or does he want some space. I know taurus guys really takes time to sttle in a relationship but then how come he started a relationship with me then after a simple misunderstanding he wants me out of his life and offers his frindship instead.
Please help me understand, i just want to know if he really wants me out of his life, does he really mean it? By the way i'm an Aries.

Slight manapulations and or communication as if he wants space he can be a man and speak the fuck up and state his standing. People do all type of things in anger give him some time to blow smoke out his nose and ears. The flipside of this is you could go fight for your man but will it push him further or bring him home only you know this.

Thank you articlel for answering. Hope you won't mind my asking are you taurus? For me, as much as i would want to be patient of him and understand him i would do so. But i couldn't help but think why would he tell me that he doesn't want to stay with me anymore more and yet he offered me friendship instead. Was it just a guilt that sprung thru him or he has still feelings for me and he just wanted to take things slow? Please help me to understand it more, so i would know if i need to move on or just leave it as it is.
By the way, he mentioned to my friend that i changed a lot when we became together. He said that i don't act like my age... Why would he judge me that way, i know myself better than him. I know i am a bit childish at times but that's me. I'm an aries, we may look lady like physically but we still have the heart of a child by nature. So i'm sure i did not change.
Correct me if i'm wrong, the way i see it, my taurus guy wants me to be what he wants me to be ( he mentioned it to me before, "the reason why he liked me was because he sees me such a lady like") he missed the part that i am also childish and i mentioned it to him before. That why for me, it's really vague.
Please explain more further...thank you!

Either he takes you as you stand, or not at all. It is up to you if you want to put yourself through the pain of standing at the perimeter. On the outside looking in. Straight up. If you can honestly be happy for him if he finds someone else, go for it. If not, cut it off at the knees.

Thank you venusianbull! I appreciate your answer. It helped me to understand what i needed to do. Such a painful act for me to wait or be hopeful that he'll be back without me having any clue. I don't give up so easily on relationships but i have pursued him the best i can but i guess that's about it.
It is just painful that our relationship just lasted for two months, my shortest relationship ever... So painful that he gave up that soon without even trying to work things out.
I know he is a good man...thank you again!
Will update you for anything. Have a great day!

Thank you venusianbull! I appreciate your answer. It helped me to understand what i needed to do. Such a painful act for me to wait or be hopeful that he'll be back without me having any clue. I don't give up so easily on relationships but i have pursued him the best i can but i guess that's about it.
It is just painful that our relationship just lasted for two months, my shortest relationship ever... So painful that he gave up that soon without even trying to work things out.
I know he is a good man...thank you again!
Will update you for anything. Have a great day!

My answer to your response is summed up in VB post you have some tough choices also yes keep us updated. I strongly suggest you give him space if he goes to another he lacked dedication in the first place.

Thank you guys, really appreciated it! Wish me well...

He txted me that i still have some of my stuff in his flat. He said they put them in a bag for me to get anytime. So i texted him back asking him if he could bring it with him since he goes to my area to use our gym. Yesterday, i reminded him. He didn't txt back so i thought he wasn't coming. So i left for jogging. When i came back my friend told me that he came looking for me and waited for me but it was too late. I called and txted him again that i am back simce my friend told me that he just left like 10 mins.before i arrive. I asked my friend if he left something for me, but my friend said he's not carrying anything.
Any good signs with that? Why he did not bring my stuff in the first place? Or i am just being silly? Was he trying to tell me something?

Youd have to talk to him it sounds like the beginning of somebody trying to get a rise out of somebody. Relax and wait til you talk to him face to face. Also get to the bottom of that mis communication you mentioned earlied when you see him. The quickness of which people get rid of relationships almost sounds like they didn't care in the first place. Some it only takes one mistake and there out the door which doesnt read long term to me but if hes worth fighting for fight. Keep us updated. Its your choice whether to make the first move but I would say wait especially since hes susposelly coming over....without the stuff.

Thank you articlel! So happy you are replying right away, deeply appreciated it. I really needed some advice here.
Now the update since this afternoon, I just txted him and called him now but then again and again no answer. I was hoping to see him now since i am pretty much ready of seeing him and accepting whatever the outcome would be. But of course, i am praying it would be a positive outcome. I don't mind waiting, i can handle that it's just difficult for me that he doesn't answer my calls and txts. I just hate guessing games, such an agony for me. But i pretty much know now that taurean male has a trait of not responsive at all times. It depends on their moods...am i right?

Just a thought though, is he trying to test me if i still like him and if i am true to my feelings towards him or is he still testing the waters if he'll give it another shot with me? Because the things that are happening right now is kinda' inconsistent and weird, which i like because it gives me hope. If that would be the case, i will surely wait.

Articlel, if you wont't mind my asking if you are a taurus male, with the way things are happening now, do you see anything positive? I'm sorry i didn't actually understood what you have just said on your statement above, if you could explain it more further.
"Youd have to talk to him it sounds like the beginning of somebody trying to get a rise out of somebody."-- this part i didn't understand...i'm sorry🙂

I know somehow the personalities and traits of taureans, i have friends who have the same sign and i have read some articles about them that is 95 % accurate.
I would like to share how treats me when we are togther...He is so loving and affectionate of me, even we are with people around us or alone together he would show me love, affection and tenderness. He doesn't care if people would see us together hugging or even kissing in public, which kinda' brave of him. I am kinda' conservative aries woman and i don't show too much affection in public but i love hugging him a lot. We would go out together for dinner, watch a movie, of course being intimate with each other that leads to making love. He would come to my place so we can jog together. We call each other " baby" and talk about evrything and anything. God, i so so missed him.
When we had our first major fight, we didn't talk for 6 days which was a torture for me. I waited this long hoping that it would help us to cool down. I was wondering why he would tell his bestfriend that i was the one who broke up with him and never even txted and called him after our fight. He said that i didn't care...
When i was trying to work things out with him, he kept pushing me away harshly. I asked him why he's pushing me away and then he said "no, i didn't push you away, you are the one who pushed or pulled yourself away from me"...God! I really don't understand why he would accuse me like that! Completely lost in translation. What does he want?

I know somehow the personalities and traits of taureans, i have friends who have the same sign and i have read some articles about them that is 95 % accurate.
I would like to share how treats me when we are togther...He is so loving and affectionate of me, even we are with people around us or alone together he would show me love, affection and tenderness. He doesn't care if people would see us together hugging or even kissing in public, which kinda' brave of him. I am kinda' conservative aries woman and i don't show too much affection in public but i love hugging him a lot. We would go out together for dinner, watch a movie, of course being intimate with each other that leads to making love. He would come to my place so we can jog together. We call each other " baby" and talk about evrything and anything. God, i so so missed him.
When we had our first major fight, we didn't talk for 6 days which was a torture for me. I waited this long hoping that it would help us to cool down. I was wondering why he would tell his bestfriend that i was the one who broke up with him and never even txted and called him after our fight. He said that i didn't care...
When i was trying to work things out with him, he kept pushing me away harshly. I asked him why he's pushing me away and then he said "no, i didn't push you away, you are the one who pushed or pulled yourself away from me"...God! I really don't understand why he would accuse me like that! Completely lost in translation. What does he want?

I know somehow the personalities and traits of taureans, i have friends who have the same sign and i have read some articles about them that is 95 % accurate.
I would like to share how treats me when we are togther...He is so loving and affectionate of me, even we are with people around us or alone together he would show me love, affection and tenderness. He doesn't care if people would see us together hugging or even kissing in public, which kinda' brave of him. I am kinda' conservative aries woman and i don't show too much affection in public but i love hugging him a lot. We would go out together for dinner, watch a movie, of course being intimate with each other that leads to making love. He would come to my place so we can jog together. We call each other " baby" and talk about evrything and anything. God, i so so missed him.
When we had our first major fight, we didn't talk for 6 days which was a torture for me. I waited this long hoping that it would help us to cool down. I was wondering why he would tell his bestfriend that i was the one who broke up with him and never even txted and called him after our fight. He said that i didn't care...
When i was trying to work things out with him, he kept pushing me away harshly. I asked him why he's pushing me away and then he said "no, i didn't push you away, you are the one who pushed or pulled yourself away from me"...God! I really don't understand why he would accuse me like that! Completely lost in translation. What does he want?

1. Taurus? No.
2. Getting a rise out of somebody = Saying something to make them mad, angry bla bla.
3. What is the time span between you breaking up and now—

Two weeks ago. Such a long time now, i am so confused.

He mentioned to our common friend that he wasn't mad at me anymore and even entioned that he felt sorry and guilty of how he treated me badly when i went to his place. But he never said orry to me...well another taurean's trait...stubborness🙂

Does it lower your integrity and dignity to continually contact him when he rarely recirocates?

Posted by Dumbele
He mentioned to our common friend that he wasn't mad at me anymore and even entioned that he felt sorry and guilty of how he treated me badly when i went to his place. But he never said orry to me...well another taurean's trait...stubborness🙂

I am also an aries not that it means much. But coming from a Aries girl that has been played, betrayed and shitted on enough for a lifetime id say leave it be. This dude showed his true colors at the first sign of difficulty, wheres the loyalty? My biggest fear is being abandoned and had anyone even come close to threatening my security this early is enough for me to walk away. Then he humiliated you in front of his friend? I see huge red flags here. Thats the 26 year old me talking, when I was younger I made alot of mistakes that got me hurt. I suppose we all have to go through things but I feel it can be avoided. Theres already power issues from what I see and what happens if you get him back? You will be walking on egg shells.

I have a similar situation with a Aries guy tho the one and only Aries guy i dated. He got mad at me for some reason can't remember fully it was 8 years ago but anywho he took it far and I remember me chasing him to get him to be with me again and how desperate I was. And you know what happened when he finally did let me back in he treated me like crap, i I let him for about 1 year and a half. I was deeply hurt and I had to walk away, and when I did he chased me for about damn near 3 years, but I would never go back EVER! I only lost contact because I changed my num. Some of the things I have endured left me emotionally scared for life, at least thus far. I am trying to still get rid of that baggage. I say that to say what was is all worth? You are the prize not to say he isnt either but by the way he is treating you I dont think he really is. There is someone out there who will be there for you and respect you enough to not walk out on you at the first sign of difficulty and berate you in front of his friends, is that the kinda person you want loving you?

Thank you so much guys for answering. I guess i'll just have to let it be. We are working in the same company and his place is just a few blocks away from my place. He usually goes to my place to use our gym. My only fear is that when i see him with someone new and that i am not emotionally ready to face that. I know i can get over it in due time but the process of accepting and letting it go is pretty much tough for me especially for someone that i used to love.
What all of you have just said were so helpful. It was a slap on the head but i know i have to accept reality. I wouldn't want ot have a BF who sees me like a dormat. It is very dissapointing though because he is such a God fearing man, very religious, who would think that he is capable of hurting people the unexpected way, the most unexpected behavior... but then again i missed the part that he is only human and not a saint.
For now i am just waiting for us to talk. We were suppose to talk 2 days ago but our timings didn't match.
I'll keep you guys updated.
Thank you so much =) Have a great day ahead!

Hello guys! Here is an update which just happened lastnight.
I txted and called ex for a talk, but before hand i told him that i'm not going for jogging on that day so if he feels like talking i'd be in my place the whole time. He did not replied i waited for an hour. Then i thought maybe he hasn't reloaded yet for his prepaid phone, that may be the cause of not replying back. Then i called first no answer although this time he did not hang up. I waited for 20 to 30 mins and called him again but still no answer. After then, i stopped.

Last night i was with my bestfriend, since the weather was great and so decided to go for a walk. In an unexpected event, we saw each other acoss the road. He was looking at us as he crosses the other side of the road. My heart skipped and i don't know what to do. He was actually heading in our place but this time he wasn't wearing his gym clothes and wasn't carrying anything (my stuff).

I totally felt blank when i saw him, it was a mixed emotion. I wasn't prepared at all that we'llsee each other. He was looking at me and i was looking at him but then i was undecided if i would say hi. He waved at us but my sudden reaction was i turned my face on the other side, as though i avoided him.

When we went back from walking i checked mt and to my suprise he txted. These were his exact words fom the txt..." hey what's wrong with you? You asked me if we could talk, i said hi to you but you turned your face on other direction! Seriously!".

I didn't know what to reply, so i just slept and waited for the next morning so my mind is fresh and might be able to think of something suitable to say.
So the next morning before i went to work, i txted him apologizing for ignoring him and it wasn't done intentionally and said to him exactly what i have mentioned above earlier. I even mentioned that i thought that i was ready to face him but then again it made me realize that i wasn't ready to talk to him yet which i thought i was. That things would fall into place at the right time and at the right place.

After awhile he txted back... " hahahah! Okay! Okay!...have a great day as well🙂" ... i did not reply anymore.

During lunch time he txted again..." hahahaha! I am thinking today about your message lol!...i'm not gonna bite you! 🙂"... It felt weird, why would he txt again and telling me that? Was he proud that i was scared of him? Was he trying to make a conversation, now that i have stopped txting him.

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Hello guys! Here is an update which just happened lastnight.??
I txted and called ex for a talk, but before hand i told him that i'm not going for jogging on that day so if he feels like talking i'd be in my place the whole time. He did not replied i waited for an hour. Then i thought maybe he hasn't reloaded yet for his prepaid phone, that may be the cause of not replying back. Then i called first no answer although this time he did not hang up. I waited for 20 to 30 mins and called him again but still no answer. After then, i stopped.

Last night i was with my bestfriend, since the weather was great and so decided to go for a walk. In an unexpected event, we saw ??each other acoss the road. He was looking at us as??Hello guys! Here is an update which just happened lastnight.??
I txted and called ex for a talk, but before hand i told him that i'm not going for jogging on that day so if he feels like talking i'd be in my place the whole time. He did not replied i waited for an hour. Then i thought maybe he hasn't reloaded yet for his prepaid phone, that may be the cause of not replying back. Then i called first no answer although this time he did not hang up. I waited for 20 to 30 mins and called him again but still no answer. After then, i stopped.

Last night i was with my bestfriend, since the weather was great and so decided to go for a walk. In an unexpected event, we saw ??each other acoss the road. He was looking at us as he crosses the other side of the road. My heart skipped and i don't know what to do. He was actually heading in our place but this time he wasn't wearing his gym clothes and wasn't carrying anything (my stuff).??

I totally felt blank when i saw him, it was a mixed emotion. I wasn't prepared at all that we'llsee each other. He was looking at me and i was looking at him but then i was undecided if i would say hi. He waved at us but my sudden reaction was i turned my face on the other side, as though i didn't see him.

When we went back from walking i checked my phone and to my suprise he txted. These were his exact words fom the txt..." hey what's wrong with you? You asked me if we could talk, i said hi to you but you turned your face on other direction! Seriously!".

I didn't know what to reply, so i just slept it over and waited for the next morning so my mind would be fresh and might be able to think of something suitable to say.
So the next morning before i went to work, i txted him apologizing for ignoring him and

Taurus men are very good at turning things around. He nixes you off, doesn't reply to your texts. But, his wittle feelings got hurt when you ignored him? Let him start coming to you. I would not initiate any more contact.

LS thank you. Will see... I'll just hold my peace and so i won't get hurt again. If he comes back, i would be very very happy but then i won't expect too much. Only God knows what will happen next.

I'll keep you updated.

Hey guys! Until now we haven't spoken but still he hasn't returned my things from his apartment. I don't know if he is just waiting for me to get it but what will happen then? I just don't want to assume but obviously i'm still hoping...
We have crossed paths a couple of times at work but he would only say " how are you?" i stopped txting him though. I just wonder if he really doesn't want me anymore or just giving some space knowing that he is also busy at work especially that he will be starting to work in a different department. I know i have been asking you guys for the same question but i couldn't help but ask again.
Please give me a straight answer. I would really appreciate it.

Posted by Dumbele
Hey guys! Until now we haven't spoken but still he hasn't returned my things from his apartment. I don't know if he is just waiting for me to get it but what will happen then? I just don't want to assume but obviously i'm still hoping...
We have crossed paths a couple of times at work but he would only say " how are you?" i stopped txting him though. I just wonder if he really doesn't want me anymore or just giving some space knowing that he is also busy at work especially that he will be starting to work in a different department. I know i have been asking you guys for the same question but i couldn't help but ask again.
Please give me a straight answer. I would really appreciate it.

Are you serious? you have gotten so many staright answers already yet ur asking for more? why becasue the advice that was already given to you doesnt suit what you already made up in your head. dude told you straight up it over and your are still wondering if he wants you? NO he doesnt.

Move on