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Taurus girl and Scorpio guy - Love and Friendship
How this situation just made me think not to initiate that type of conversation. That is a guy's job. To be direct and communicate to get married or propose. Because why, fear of rejection I will never look at you the same..
So really T and S are either going to click right away or not.. either be friends or enemies. Be lovers or admirers..or just be friends...it takes awhile to actually know you wholeheartedly. And that should be in a life time so nothing is ever boring.
So really T and S are either going to click right away or not.. either be friends or enemies. Be lovers or admirers..or just be friends...it takes awhile to actually know you wholeheartedly. And that should be in a life time so nothing is ever boring.
Posted by RedbullI think you don't let her Go. I had an aqua ex . Been 11 yrs ago we broke up. until now he cannot move on. I always told him via his cousin that I don't have love for him and if there was it won't get this far. Scorpio will stand beside you no matter what but once done. Even our shadows won't show up.
I am contemplating seeking out a Scorp I once knew to make peace after many years. In our situation the romance part is over which makes it easier on my side. I have no desire for that I just wonder if I should extend the olive branch like I dont hate you no hard feelings or bad energy. let it be known. Clear things type of thing. I havent decided yet I dont fully know why this type of thing is coming up now after all these years though.
We burn the bridge and chances are gone.
But in your story.. I don't know. If it was a bad bad break up .. we don't look back. We move forward. I guess the only thing you can do is to love yourself and appreciate of what you have now. Don't long for her to amend those things you did or she did. She understands the universe wasn't that kind enough those times.I am pretty sure she already forgive you. Have peace. Saturn Retrograde in Scorpio.
Posted by ImpulsvI agreePosted by RedbullWhy not Make amends , nothing to lose. U don't want back or maybe even friendship but sometimes it's healing for both to apologize, discuss ect.
I am contemplating seeking out a Scorp I once knew to make peace after many years. In our situation the romance part is over which makes it easier on my side. I have no desire for that I just wonder if I should extend the olive branch like I dont hate you no hard feelings or bad energy. let it be known. Clear things type of thing. I havent decided yet I dont fully know why this type of thing is coming up now after all these years though.
I'd be open n think I'd be healing for me but I've accepted sometimes doesn't give an opportunity for closure.click to expand
Posted by musicplayLove is a hard emotion to just set aside especially if you are a passionate person. In reality terms, would you be able to " just be friends" with him?
Hi!
I am a Taurus girl. Some years ago I found my best friend in a Scorpio guy. One day I proposed and he clearly rejected me.
Lots of unfortunate events happened between us. He started ignoring me while me trying to establish a conversation. We used to argue a lot that time. Distance started pouring in between us and we stopped interacting.
2 days ago we decided to dissolve our issues and start fresh. We actually were good close friends but just because I proposed we parted ways. Now we decided to be friends again and I know it will take time to be normal. I don't know how to proceed from here. He asked me not to be sorry for what happened.
I don't know how to behave with him. I don't want to sound desperate, I don't want to irritate him everytime by sending him IM. I am a typical Taurus and he is a typical Scorpio. I know we cannot ignore each other. I was shocked and happy when he agreed to be friends again. It was very sweet for him to give me one more chance.
I love him. For whole 17-18 months we did not talk to each other and I know how much I missed him, as my true friend who was always there for me. If he has given me another chance, I don't want to screw it again. Love feelings won't go away. I have settled with the fact that he does not love me. Please tell me how should I try to remove the awkwardness we have and remove it?
Hello,
Thank you all for your comments. I am in love with this Scorpio guy from about 3 years. So far I have understood that love is a dangerous feeling, especially when a Taurus and Scorpio are involved. We both are 25. Not very old. We both are totally opposites. When we met, he was the one chasing me but when I fell in love with him, he left. He was never ready for love. But I was a fool that I proposed. We were best friends that time! 24 hours were less to be with each other.
Things changed when I proposed after a year we met. He started maintaining a distance because he got to know that I am madly in love with him, he was not ready. He is still not ready, not just about me, about love. He had a horrible break up in high school and I think that's the reason why he does not give any chance to love again.
Anyway, 2 years passed and we had only fights, arguments. He asked me million times to stay as friend like we were before but my stubborn nature was asking for only love from him. I don't know about him, but I was not able to even look at any other guy than him and I still can't even think about any other guy. When it comes about love, its just him. Rest of the guys, I don't care!! I am still that much into him. 😢
I have understood that no matter what, he won't accept me as a love partner. A week ago, I texted him if he is ready to dissolve every issue between us to have peace in my mind. So far I have understood that I need that human, if he is not around me, I panic every second. If he wants to be a friend, I can at least try to be his cool friend, as I was before. I want to be with him in his good and bad. Does not matter how much it will hurt me to see him with someone else, I am ready for it.
He was reluctant in rekindling the friendship. Its true that its weird and awkward between us but I asked him that if he feels uncomfy then we shall not do it. But he was ready to give it a try. Right now we both are open to talk again and try to remove the awkwardness between us. I want to talk to him as I talk to any other friend but I am feeling hesitated that he might take it wrong. I am a Taurus sun and Scorpio ascendant with libra moon.
What should I do? 😢 Please help!!
Thank you all for your comments. I am in love with this Scorpio guy from about 3 years. So far I have understood that love is a dangerous feeling, especially when a Taurus and Scorpio are involved. We both are 25. Not very old. We both are totally opposites. When we met, he was the one chasing me but when I fell in love with him, he left. He was never ready for love. But I was a fool that I proposed. We were best friends that time! 24 hours were less to be with each other.
Things changed when I proposed after a year we met. He started maintaining a distance because he got to know that I am madly in love with him, he was not ready. He is still not ready, not just about me, about love. He had a horrible break up in high school and I think that's the reason why he does not give any chance to love again.
Anyway, 2 years passed and we had only fights, arguments. He asked me million times to stay as friend like we were before but my stubborn nature was asking for only love from him. I don't know about him, but I was not able to even look at any other guy than him and I still can't even think about any other guy. When it comes about love, its just him. Rest of the guys, I don't care!! I am still that much into him. 😢
I have understood that no matter what, he won't accept me as a love partner. A week ago, I texted him if he is ready to dissolve every issue between us to have peace in my mind. So far I have understood that I need that human, if he is not around me, I panic every second. If he wants to be a friend, I can at least try to be his cool friend, as I was before. I want to be with him in his good and bad. Does not matter how much it will hurt me to see him with someone else, I am ready for it.
He was reluctant in rekindling the friendship. Its true that its weird and awkward between us but I asked him that if he feels uncomfy then we shall not do it. But he was ready to give it a try. Right now we both are open to talk again and try to remove the awkwardness between us. I want to talk to him as I talk to any other friend but I am feeling hesitated that he might take it wrong. I am a Taurus sun and Scorpio ascendant with libra moon.
What should I do? 😢 Please help!!
Ymmmm. I think a few said it is hard when someone gets rejected and it should be a huge burden to lift off your shoulders. Because it will never be the same and it's now the T vs S thing that happens. And IT is not good. But next time please let the guy. You got balls though. And if both parties aren't on the same page it is ten times harder.. no more friends nothing but Fwb maybe..
Sorry and good luck..
Sorry and good luck..
So should I not try to establish a conversation at all?
Taurus people aren't desperate for friendship or relationship..that are only going to be one sided and usually I can spot it fairly with in a few months..
There are a few examples.. One is always initiating conversations, feelings, emotions, one is always planning to meet but never does by putting you off, one is always asking for verification of what direction they are going in life with you..
I think you did what you thought was right.. So you did it.. but it maybe wasn't all two sided at all.. Maybe he just wasn't the right one.. There is other stuff like working things out, compromise, honesty, communication and there has to be a mutual friendship and respect..that doesn't seem there is any hope. Taurus are earth and well Scorpio are water and it can create mud...
Maybe you are ready and stable for the right one, but he wasn't. I am not saying do this again with.the next one. . Remember there is a difference between wanting and needing. You need to sit back a minute and not rush even though it may have been years of friendship or relationship with each other..
And sometimes I don't even want to know the reason why it didn't work. It also seems to lead there was cheating going on or immature irresponsible people.. .. I'll just calmly walk..I'll.think about it for a while and then do what makes me happy.
There are a few examples.. One is always initiating conversations, feelings, emotions, one is always planning to meet but never does by putting you off, one is always asking for verification of what direction they are going in life with you..
I think you did what you thought was right.. So you did it.. but it maybe wasn't all two sided at all.. Maybe he just wasn't the right one.. There is other stuff like working things out, compromise, honesty, communication and there has to be a mutual friendship and respect..that doesn't seem there is any hope. Taurus are earth and well Scorpio are water and it can create mud...
Maybe you are ready and stable for the right one, but he wasn't. I am not saying do this again with.the next one. . Remember there is a difference between wanting and needing. You need to sit back a minute and not rush even though it may have been years of friendship or relationship with each other..
And sometimes I don't even want to know the reason why it didn't work. It also seems to lead there was cheating going on or immature irresponsible people.. .. I'll just calmly walk..I'll.think about it for a while and then do what makes me happy.
I haven't been there exactly in your shoes. I do know I had fun and cool friendship that eventually turned just for casual..and nothing I did or that other person did right or wrong... It was just too many difference in one's personality traits for a relationship. But made good friends but that didn't last either..
.. I only like to share my irl experience that I know I went through.. and it's true stories. But idk. I would be hurt, and embrassed. I hate both of those words. Like it's a failure but it's really not..I am pretty sure you had red flags and chose to ignore them.. I do that alot... I am built in stubborn ass and need to figure it out the hard long way.. like working it out till can't no more.
.. I only like to share my irl experience that I know I went through.. and it's true stories. But idk. I would be hurt, and embrassed. I hate both of those words. Like it's a failure but it's really not..I am pretty sure you had red flags and chose to ignore them.. I do that alot... I am built in stubborn ass and need to figure it out the hard long way.. like working it out till can't no more.
I am not much into astrology but he and me both exhibit Scorpio and Taurus qualities pretty accurately. I know we can not ignore each other. If its not today, then tomorrow we would talk, but we would talk. It's a one sided love but deep down its a combination between us where we complete each other.
He asked me jokingly once if I would ever like to marry him kind of guy and I jokingly said yes ... that time he was chasing me. When I recently broke the ice, he talked to me openly and nicely. I did not feel he has any harsh feelings for me and agreed that we can try being friends again.
Its just I am asking how to remove the awkwardness. 😢
He asked me jokingly once if I would ever like to marry him kind of guy and I jokingly said yes ... that time he was chasing me. When I recently broke the ice, he talked to me openly and nicely. I did not feel he has any harsh feelings for me and agreed that we can try being friends again.
Its just I am asking how to remove the awkwardness. 😢
Posted by Infinite8Hi redbull,Posted by RedbullLet me tell you this... it's really weird but, all of the people that have done me "wrong" I have cut from my life - and ALL of them have come back at one time or another to apologize. In some cases, I would look at them stone-faced and not believe a word coming out of their mouths. It just didn't seem authentic and I wasn't buying it. If anything, I felt it wasted my time and just made me upset.
Like I forgive you I dont hate you forever or anything. Just a freeing clearing the air thing. May have something to do with my Aquarius moon. Sign of a cool type of friendship like its all good on my side. I'll just send the peace vibes out into the universe and focus on moving foward.
But, there is one case in particular that really stood out (Cap female). We were at the same wedding together and she desperately wanted to talk to me. She tried really hard all night and I would play hard to get... just wanted to move away really. She finally cornered me and I finally got a good look at her. I realized how nervous she was, almost shaking and the desperation in her eyes... she started to apologize and then she just looked into my eyes and started smiling then giggling. And it made me laugh too! It was in that moment where all the love just started gushing in again and I let go of the hurt she had done unto me. We didn't talk about much after that... but the physical and her eyes were enough. And it just created a huge amount of CALM. It felt soooooo goooood!
It just felt amazing. It was a very happy moment. I knew she was sorry... TRULY sorry. And that gave me a lot of peace. And I am sure I gave her a lot of peace with my reaction and when I hugged her.click to expand
What's your story? You sound very sad? What happened?
Posted by Infinite8That's a good advice Infinite8. I messaged him though and he instantly replied me back asking about me. I know he has pride and his ego to start the conversation so I did so. Already there's been a lot of damage that happened. But it feels better to see that even he also is working on making things normal between us.Posted by musicplayI don't think you can, hun! Because you are in love with him... you will always expect him to reciprocate and when he doesn't... you will constantly feel denied, sad, unloved. He will notice that RIGHT AWAY and feel awkward.
I am not much into astrology but he and me both exhibit Scorpio and Taurus qualities pretty accurately. I know we can not ignore each other. If its not today, then tomorrow we would talk, but we would talk. It's a one sided love but deep down its a combination between us where we complete each other.
He asked me jokingly once if I would ever like to marry him kind of guy and I jokingly said yes ... that time he was chasing me. When I recently broke the ice, he talked to me openly and nicely. I did not feel he has any harsh feelings for me and agreed that we can try being friends again.
Its just I am asking how to remove the awkwardness. 😢
He probably loves you very much as well... but not the same way? Maybe he just loves you as a friend and you as a lover/boyfriend/husband?
The only way you can remove the awkwardness is to:
-fall for another guy(which you wont... because you love HIM)
-make sure you are NEVER alone with the Scorp. Bring along another guy friend when you are with the Scorp.
-don't have deep discussions (which is almost IMPOSSIBLE with these two signs)
-have other people on your mind when you are with the Scorp so that he doesn't feel ALL attention is on him. Let him wonder, he doesn't fully have you anymore!click to expand
Yeah when he does not reciprocates, it is indeed sad and that's where I am working more to not feel denied. He always loved me as a great friend. He was always there no matter what! Even when we stopped interacting in the past, he was there if I have any problem. We both live in different cities now so I cannot meet him, but text or call.
Believe it or not Taurus people who have Aquarius moon. Will have a more flowing attitude in friends and relationships. Will stick to your hip just as long as we can trust you.. if there are lots of difference between us. I can separate emotions from you.. that's not good still..
Oh and it's a long distance relationship type of thing. Nah that's too Much work and thank God it didn't work out. You can move on..YEAH.
So far it's all going alright between me and my Scorpio.
Right there is hope. Lol
Good luck and take care...
Do you think we can always be "friends only" ?
No I did not rekindle the friendship to chase him again. I am done with it.
🙂 No he can't !! As to have sex with me, he needs to see me which he thoroughly avoids from the start.
This is twisted.. Lol Happy Fourth of July..
Posted by FirstDecanTaurianWomen0428I know right!! This is way too twisted!! That's why I asked here at the forum. I am so confused with the guy!! We have the best chemistry you can ever imagine between a man and woman. When I realized this, I did not know about the birth signs fact. I myself was very shocked that how come he is my missing part which fits perfectly. He cried once in front of me and all I wanted was to remove all his problems as soon as I can, no matter what I need to do. It's crazy between us!! He flirted, asked for marriage but then things changed.
This is twisted.. Lol Happy Fourth of July..
What I feel is, he is not ready for love or anything serious relationship in life. Though his online dating account shows he is open to dating and casual sex but not anything serious. I know he respects me a lot, he never shouted at me even when I have really pissed him off many times. When I proposed him, he rejected saying he believes he is not a good match for me. I felt he thinks he is not good enough, for any girl. He just said that he deserves a cheap girl instead not a perfect blend of everything like me. He always cherished our friendship and we were always there in each other's struggle in career. I abused him, called him he is an asshole but still he forgave me and agreed for a fresh start.
I am sad to feel that I would have to force myself now to get arranged and marry someone else. Indian culture, I am 25 and my family has now started to find a match for me. It feels shit to even think that I would have to spend the future life with someone with whom I have not even met. I feel terrible for myself.
"I know someday you'll have a beautiful life, I know you'll be a star
In somebody else's sky, but why? Why? why?
Can't it be, can't it be mine" - Black, Pearl Jam
😢
Seriously and you tried to do an out side marrage in hopes of your parents introducing you to someone new they want you to marry. what if they were to meet this guy would they approve? OMG even more twisted. Geez I feel ya..
Posted by FirstDecanTaurianWomen0428If my family would meet my Scorpio, they would approve him. They never stopped me to search for love. But I know I am in love with this guy, no one else and he does not. So finding love is not going to happen or else it would have happened when we parted ways. I would have to go for arranged marriage now in which I have 0 interest.
Seriously and you tried to do an out side marrage in hopes of your parents introducing you to someone new they want you to marry. what if they were to meet this guy would they approve? OMG even more twisted. Geez I feel ya..
That sucks. Wish you will. How old are you?
i meant to say wish you strong will power and courage to if this doesnt happen. I hope you find someone...
How are you ?
How are you ?
Posted by musicplayJust let him go. Scorpio are just as stubborn as bulls - when we say we don't have love. it is 100% true. We have courage to say it.
Hi!
I am a Taurus girl. Some years ago I found my best friend in a Scorpio guy. One day I proposed and he clearly rejected me.
Lots of unfortunate events happened between us. He started ignoring me while me trying to establish a conversation. We used to argue a lot that time. Distance started pouring in between us and we stopped interacting.
2 days ago we decided to dissolve our issues and start fresh. We actually were good close friends but just because I proposed we parted ways. Now we decided to be friends again and I know it will take time to be normal. I don't know how to proceed from here. He asked me not to be sorry for what happened.
I don't know how to behave with him. I don't want to sound desperate, I don't want to irritate him everytime by sending him IM. I am a typical Taurus and he is a typical Scorpio. I know we cannot ignore each other. I was shocked and happy when he agreed to be friends again. It was very sweet for him to give me one more chance.
I love him. For whole 17-18 months we did not talk to each other and I know how much I missed him, as my true friend who was always there for me. If he has given me another chance, I don't want to screw it again. Love feelings won't go away. I have settled with the fact that he does not love me. Please tell me how should I try to remove the awkwardness we have and remove it?
Just accept the fact that he is not for you. I had that kind of ex taurus. When I said I don't have love for him but just his friend. then he kept on calling me
and sending me msgs. until I ignore him completely. It took him 2 yrs to move on. I don't respond his msg because he kept on pursuing after I told him the ultimatum at his first attempt.
musicplay,
tell him you respect his decision. Scorpio will value that. believe me. chances are there.
Scorpio likes space. not single space make it double space. we like to be alone. if he will contact you - im sure he will.your response should be lighter
Avoid talking relationship. Be his friend. It's actually a blessing to you.
Again, Do not propose - this is not suitable for scorpio men. They are manly man. They are not ruled by venusian.
hope you will be fine soon.
tell him you respect his decision. Scorpio will value that. believe me. chances are there.
Scorpio likes space. not single space make it double space. we like to be alone. if he will contact you - im sure he will.your response should be lighter
Avoid talking relationship. Be his friend. It's actually a blessing to you.
Again, Do not propose - this is not suitable for scorpio men. They are manly man. They are not ruled by venusian.
hope you will be fine soon.
Posted by FirstDecanTaurianWomen0428Thank you for your wishes. Me and my scorp, we both were born in 1990. We are young.
i meant to say wish you strong will power and courage to if this doesnt happen. I hope you find someone...
How are you ?
Posted by M143I can understand you saying your ex Taurus took 2 years to move on. Because its been 3 years I am trying to move on but it's difficult. I have settled down that he does not love me. My fault was that I proposed, I should not have done that! We are not talking that much now but let him start the conversation if he wants, because I tried twice and we talked. I won't try again. His turn now. I can't initiate the talk every time. I hope he contacts. Sometimes you love someone so much that in whatever form you get the person, you get the person. I don't have problem in him saying no to me. I have problem to realize that soon I would be forced to live in someone else's arms, who does not matter to me at all. That's sad. But that's life. I love my Scorpio man. No one can change that. But I don't show it anymore to him or any one else. Im totally screwed.
musicplay,
tell him you respect his decision. Scorpio will value that. believe me. chances are there.
Scorpio likes space. not single space make it double space. we like to be alone. if he will contact you - im sure he will.your response should be lighter
Avoid talking relationship. Be his friend. It's actually a blessing to you.
Again, Do not propose - this is not suitable for scorpio men. They are manly man. They are not ruled by venusian.
hope you will be fine soon.
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I am a Taurus girl. Some years ago I found my best friend in a Scorpio guy. One day I proposed and he clearly rejected me.
Lots of unfortunate events happened between us. He started ignoring me while me trying to establish a conversation. We used to argue a lot that time. Distance started pouring in between us and we stopped interacting.
2 days ago we decided to dissolve our issues and start fresh. We actually were good close friends but just because I proposed we parted ways. Now we decided to be friends again and I know it will take time to be normal. I don't know how to proceed from here. He asked me not to be sorry for what happened.
I don't know how to behave with him. I don't want to sound desperate, I don't want to irritate him everytime by sending him IM. I am a typical Taurus and he is a typical Scorpio. I know we cannot ignore each other. I was shocked and happy when he agreed to be friends again. It was very sweet for him to give me one more chance.
I love him. For whole 17-18 months we did not talk to each other and I know how much I missed him, as my true friend who was always there for me. If he has given me another chance, I don't want to screw it again. Love feelings won't go away. I have settled with the fact that he does not love me. Please tell me how should I try to remove the awkwardness we have and remove it?