taurus infatuated w/ scorpio. here we go again.

This topic was created in the Taurus forum by deelia on Friday, February 20, 2015 and has 6 replies.

Understanding Taurus's Attraction to Scorpio

Taurus and Scorpio are both fixed signs, which can create intense emotional bonds. Taurus seeks stability while Scorpio craves deep connection, leading to magnetic attraction. However, their differences can cause misunderstandings and emotional exhaustion. Recognizing their contrasting needs and communication styles can help navigate this complex dynamic.

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@deelia
11 Years

Yes, another Taurus has fallen for a Scorpio.

Its emotionally draining sticking around with my Scorpio. Were not in a relationship, were currently fwb. I didn't think I would catch feelings but I did, so bad, I did. I asked to stop seeing him a few weeks ago but he won't and I can't say no, the magnetic pull is so strong and so are my feelings. He knows how much I care for him, I've told him multiple times and when I ask him the same questions he doesn't give me a direct yes or no. I need someone to help me understand him, or how to understand him. I can't do it in person because he kisses me, touches me or distracts me and if I text then he ignores or doesn't give me a straight answer.

I want to rip open his heart and understand him so bad.

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@AnomalousBull
11 Years500+ PostsTaurus

Posted by Impulsv
There is nothing to understand. He knows u can't say no.

Totally agree!

As long as you stay, he's got it made and won't give up a good thing. In layman's terms, you're his dirty little secret, a toy. I personally believe that any sign can technically co-exist with Taurus and if the parties involved are absolutely without condition in love then they will stay together forever.

The problem here is that you have one side (You) who is serious and the other side (Him) which isn't. Cut and run, there's nothing to understand!

I'd also be willing to take it a step further and insist that FWB has no place in a serious relationship and starting off as something which is nothing in reality and hoping to become a couple from it is just fool thinking. The very nature of FWB is faulty. Then again, what do I know? I've never partaken in FWB as I'm more of a hardbound traditionalist and believe in courting. Some call me "Old School".

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@AbbyNormal
13 Years5,000+ PostsTaurus

as much as I understand the magnetic draw to scorpio, an evolved and sincere one will let you know they care somehow. i cant stand how indirect my ex fiance was but he was sincere from the get go. however we were both looking to settle down at the time. if he's not answering, ignoring your feelings now that you have them when you are expressing them directly to him, get out. you are being used at this point it sounds like to me. and it will only hurt worse the longer you leave that bandaid on....

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@heartlocket
12 Years500+ Posts

Too much texting is bad.

I would say he's using you.

Try to slow down, go on more dates and keep sex as more of a reward than just an impulse... The more u hold back the more he will have to reveal.