Taurus Girlfriend Distant?

She got upset because I lost my cool in dodgeball and almost didn't come over on Friday night.

Ever since then I have noticed that she seems more distant. We have had sex a few times and it was fantastic, but the communication when we aren't together seems to be lacking. Before she would respond to everything and quickly. Now she will see my message and either not respond to it or respond to it much later.

I know she hasn't been feeling well since Friday too but her behaviour has definitely changed. She did not attend church on Sunday at all and doesn't seem as concerned about my whereabouts in the last few days, especially now that we are having sex together. (She shares more about herself now where before she rarely did.)

Do all Tauruses get distant randomly or does it happen once the honeymoon stage is over?? We are supposed to be meeting tonight for a movie and she will visit afterwards.

Thank you! Never dated a Taurus before and she is great most of the time.

Posted by piscesman707
She got upset because I lost my cool in dodgeball and almost didn't come over on Friday night.

Ever since then I have noticed that she seems more distant. We have had sex a few times and it was fantastic, but the communication when we aren't together seems to be lacking. Before she would respond to everything and quickly. Now she will see my message and either not respond to it or respond to it much later.

I know she hasn't been feeling well since Friday too but her behaviour has definitely changed. She did not attend church on Sunday at all and doesn't seem as concerned about my whereabouts in the last few days, especially now that we are having sex together. (She shares more about herself now where before she rarely did.)

Do all Tauruses get distant randomly or does it happen once the honeymoon stage is over?? We are supposed to be meeting tonight for a movie and she will visit afterwards.

Thank you! Never dated a Taurus before and she is great most of the time.

did she see you lose your cool and maybe was put off by that ?

We were playing a game of dodgeball and she was on the opposite team. A male on the other team wouldn't go out even though the ball hit him so I later walked up to him and tagged him out. She said that I had scared her and, after she claimed I was being a jerk (well, not the right wording but she was the one who suddenly got highly critical, like slowing down and complaining that I was walking ahead of her when I wasn't trying to, etc.) she said she was heading home and called her parents for a ride. I said I was sorry, I was tired and lost my cool (it was around 10pm when we played and had been a long day for me -- it takes me 2h to travel to where she lives!) and I don't want her to go home on a Friday night. She backed down and came over and we got intimate.

I suspect she might be worried about getting emotionally hurt. I have read Taurus are worried/scared of relationships once they become serious and can sometimes back away? I have been the same person she fell in love with after we have had sex the 3-4 times. Last weekend we had sex twice together, so that is the most we have 'boinked' in a short space of time.

She is coming over tonight after the movie so I suspect she is wanting more sex? We cannot have sex at her parent's place because her family is there. We have 100% privacy here.

After we got intimate the first time, she got very gabby over text, more than she has been for weeks. I feel like her parents are extremely critical and she comes to me because I am almost always relaxed and her rock in her life. Many of her friends don't seem to hangout with her often -- I get the impression she is very dependent on me because otherwise she would be alone or with her parents.

She declined moving in over the weekend because her parents are no longer kicking her out at the end of April but insists she will be living here a few days a week instead. Her parents now say she needs to find a place by June-ish.

Just started dating a Taurus myself and not had sex after 6 weeks, so if it makes you feel better you're doing better than me. I find this to be true too, they always have their phone on them, somehow when I'm with her she always looks at her phone when a message comes in. But she doesn't always reply, she doesn't always reply to my messages, the whole thing when we are not together is distant, but she does reply to arrange meet ups, so she is organised and communicates when it counts, but not for chatting. If it makes you feel better, I think you are further than me, but as a rule I think Taurus don't always reply and it's fine.

Well, I goofed up a bit and I think that scared her a little. I told her that Pisces is the most loyal sign and we spent the whole weekend cuddling while recovering from our colds (watching movies).

People were telling her that she deserved better but I have tried treating her the best that I can as a Pisces guy. I told her that sometimes people try and sabotage things and say what they think you want to hear.