Taurus male has a crush on me (Scorpio female)

The Taurus male is a new guy at my work who has been in our department for a few months. I had an inkling that he was attracted to me by the way he kept looking at me and always being around me (always sitting next to me at meetings etc).

A few days ago we both went away to a different city for a work related event, and both checked into the same hotel. So we went to the event which served wine while we were networking and we chatted and had great fun laughing. We then went back to the hotel and continued the wine from the hotel bar and just talked for what seemed like hours.

We were both drunk and ended up going into his room. He removed his clothes (except boxers) and got into bed and laid on his back. I got inside the bed too but still has my dress on. I took my dress off (so I was only wearing panties) and started kissing him, his neck, lips etc - he kissed me back. I then went to reach south and he stopped me , saying how we are both drunk and that we have a professional relationship. So I stopped and laid by his side. He then kissed me on my shoulder and ran his hands through my hair, as well as rubbing my tummy. He was sooo affectionate, more sensual than sexual. I enjoyed it so much. He even confessed ''ive always had a crush on you, i dont know why''. Note: We didnt have sex, we both had our panties/boxer shorts on.

We've been back at work since and there is no awkwardness. I still catch him staring at me, and being around me and we chat to one another like nothing happened on the work trip.

Problem is..i found out that he has a long term (about 3-4 yrs) girlfriend.. via someone else and also on his facebook (i dont have him added, i just looked him up) and there are photos of them together etc.

Why would he cheat on his girlfriend with me? She seems quite sweet from her photos. But he acts like he is single around me. I dont want to break them up. If I had known I wouldnt have made out with him. Im just curious as to why he cheated on her with me.

Scorpion sting, you are wasting your energy on a man who cheats.

There is no sense in pondering the - 'why'. Simply, make a run for it, keep your head down and remain as focused as you can in your professional endeavours.

He is a man who cheats, that is all you need to know.

That is enough of a red flag, for you to turn the other way.

Conserve your energy, for a man that can offer you something in return. Do not give head space to a man, who cannot even keep his own relationship, emotions, and hands in line.

Posted by Impulsv
Why he stoppe

Bet in his mind he didn't cheat since sex was not involved

Ignore him work tell him u know about his gf

Vile men deserves no further curiousity or attention.

A pity to his girlfriend (that is if she is loyal), to have to suffer a cheating boyfriend.

What a betrayal that is.

Thanks for all of your views, much appreciated.

I was completely shocked to find out he had a girlfriend. The way he acts and carries himself, like a single guy. I have been avoiding him since I found out.

Ive been looking for other job opportunities anyway and im away on holiday soon so that will give us space. I told him about this at the work event and he said that he didnt want me to leave which led me to believe he was single too. He also helps me out a lot, like he really cares.

oh well, i guess im not good at picking up signals in men who are taken.