She loved mysteries so much that she became one.

Posted by rekt
@theladyscorpio

this kind of butter is why i've friends placed the entire sign. the attraction is insane. but it seems like someone is always treetrunking over the other one. it's too intense (treetrunk that word though) in a really crazy passionate weird way. and i don't know if there's the stability there to make butter work. despite both being fixed signs.

now that you've had your first run in with a taurus lady how do you feel about it? lmao.

you're probably right there with me with team JUST SAY NO. lmao.


Well scorched, I am sure she is not the first Bullette I have ever encountered. The other ones, I was merely unaware of, or forgot that they were indeed a Bullette.

Strangely enough, looking through the birthdays of some of the people I know. To determine the Bullettes out of the rest, most of them are on rather good terms with me. There are minimal levels of attraction and more of a sisterly camaraderie.

In fact, the level of bluntness and mutual work / moral ethics seem to mesh well with who I am. It seems, this particular Bullette is the one causing all the trouble. This happens to be the only Bullette where I am attracted to her, beyond a mere camaraderie. All the other Bullettes, are loyal SO or mothers, family or relationship orientated, very much caring about their loved ones, and hard workers. Yet, the one in question is quite the opposite of all that.

Therefore, I am not quite sure as to my opinion of all this, as of yet. I feel, confused and mixed feelings. Now, I am beginning to wonder if she is simply the bad apple of the lot. Since, the rest of you are amazing.

Her sheer laziness and constant predatory ways are getting on my nerves. It is all too unprofessional to my liking, because I am a hard worker, always have been, no matter what it is that I may be doing.
It turns out, she has been married for a year but has a young daughter with her husband.

The more I find out, the less I want to even want to be friendly anymore. The more I discover, the more revolting she is. How could someone look that quirky yet beautiful in a way, yet be so very ugly.

I know the answer to that, it was a redundant question. Human nature never ceases to still surprises me with even uglier rendition of itself.
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The prize goes to you @PVJamz, so it seems she is a Bullette. A married one at that, who pretends her husband is her boyfriend instead.

She openly flirts or hints at pursing men when she sees them with money, whilst keeping it all a secret from her husband.

Dear lord, I am very glad I kept my distance and had my attraction to her under wraps.

She flip flops between distance coolness and utter physical flirtations with me but on my part, no reactions have been given. Now, I feel the attraction still but my sheer disgust at her personality far outweighs it.

Who knows, perhaps she has an open marriage with her husband. Who am I to judge but to keep secrets, whether it be an open marriage or otherwise, is wrong in my books.

Also, she has had relationships with women before but they had left her very much heartbroken and devastated in the past.

Dear lord! Yeah you dodged one. I don't know what it is about the Taurus-Scorpio pull but it's crazy strong.


Unnervingly strong, I have never felt it before and do not have any idea what to do with it. Perhaps, it is because I have never had a friendship with a Bullette before, or at least within a capacity where I would have to see them often enough.

For business reasons, I would still need to be on good terms with her and frankly now I do not know how to handle this situation. Merely cordial friendliness, does not seem to work, because she is rather moody, if not at times a lazy individual, professionally.


Be friendly but aloof. That's what I do.
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Mermaids are better at this, than Stingers are.

We are better at being friendly or aloof, either or.

We only have an on or off switch, the grey area is a bit harder for us to wander around.
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Posted by TheLadyScorpio
@CaramelizedCoffee

The Crabapple I have gotten to know, is far from grumpy but she does whine a little when she is tired or stressed. However, she is a very hard working individual and dedicated to what she does. I love that about her, whereas the Bullette, if she could laze, she will. That annoys me to no end.


we're good listeners, the scorpio is a whiner and grumpier than sheet, i follow her energy and whining to befriend.
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Hah.

Out of the both of us, I whine far less. Therefore my energy keeps her going, it is a good dynamic, because she makes me realise I could relax and be less anal at times.

She could and would remain in her shell at times about certain matters, but I let it be. If she would like to open up a bit more, she will, in her own time.
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@rekt

It turns out, she is a Bullette and her birthday is in three weeks time.

Lmao oh dear


. . . and she is married to a Merman. She happens to also be bisexual, before she was married she was in a various relationships with both men and women. However, her heart was broken many times before, by her girlfriends in her past.

Yet, she pretends she is not married and tells everyone he is her boyfriend, as she openly flirts or pursues anyone who she believes has money.

Help me, I have no idea how I should deal with her, because I must remain cordial, within my professional capacity. One moment, she is seemingly cold and distant, to quite literally pressing herself against me, in which I give her space and move away. To also randomly complimenting me as if waiting for me to compliment her back.

Detach yourself. Be friendly but keep boundaries up. You're attracted to her and I'm sure she knows that. Don't allow that to get out of hand. You're both involved with other people. Focus on your man and don't play into her games. Taurus is very hard on Scorpios because there's an animalistic attraction. But keep your head about you. Don't flirt with her. Keep a wall up between you.
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As a Bullette, I would have thought her to be much more faithful and loyal. Apparently, like us Stingers, you lot come in all shades of colours. She happens to be an utter laze within her professional capacity, if she could get away with it.

In ways, she is a predator, I could see it. She would prey on those who would do the work for her, linked to her reason why she glows when she realises someone is wealthy. Money she does not need to earn, and work she does not need to do. However, I have never flirted back, not even once, not going to fall into that trap.

Scorched, I have been focusing on my man! He has been a very comforting and stable force. She tried to invite me for a meal, however work got in the way and I would have refused anyways. A one on one meal with her, would spell disaster.

Never have I ever felt this way about a Bullette before, or a Bull, for that matter. There may be an animalistic attraction but there almost always seems to be a wall, or a disconnect. I could never figure it out, is it perhaps the Bull / Bullette 's way of keeping their emotions under wraps or something else entirely ?

@CaramelizedCoffee

The Crabapple I have gotten to know, is far from grumpy but she does whine a little when she is tired or stressed. However, she is a very hard working individual and dedicated to what she does. I love that about her, whereas the Bullette, if she could laze, she will. That annoys me to no end.
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Posted by TheLadyScorpio
Posted by CaramelizedCoffee
women always want this, but they'll never get it.

you can't touch this



Hah.

There is a new Crabapple, at my company. She is blissfully wonderful and sweet, but very intelligent.

We get along really well, therefore I am certain you do not hate all of our kind.


there is a new coworker across the hall, we bonded over our mutual grumpiness, she's a scorpio, but she acts like a cancer, always whining, i wonder if she has a cancer or virgo moon

hmmmmmm
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Hah CC, she was initially distant, and very much in her shell but I had not pushed and let it be. She eventually opened up after I shared a bit of myself with her. Then we instantly bonded, she so happens to be a believer of astrology. What a coincidence.

We discussed a bit of that, but food was our main focus, something we both love.

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Posted by TheLadyScorpio
@rekt

It turns out, she is a Bullette and her birthday is in three weeks time.

Lmao oh dear
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. . . and she is married to a Merman. She happens to also be bisexual, before she was married she was in a various relationships with both men and women. However, her heart was broken many times before, by her girlfriends in her past.

Yet, she pretends she is not married and tells everyone he is her boyfriend, as she openly flirts or pursues anyone who she believes has money.

Help me, I have no idea how I should deal with her, because I must remain cordial, within my professional capacity. One moment, she is seemingly cold and distant, to quite literally pressing herself against me, in which I give her space and move away. To also randomly complimenting me as if waiting for me to compliment her back.
Posted by CaramelizedCoffee
women always want this, but they'll never get it.

you can't touch this



Hah.

There is a new Crabapple, at my company. She is blissfully wonderful and sweet, but very intelligent.

We get along really well, therefore I am certain you do not hate all of our kind.
Posted by Gemitati
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Posted by xXxQueenliciaXxX
Pretty sure most guys wouldn't care.


What would you mean by 'most guys' ?


Men don't look at it as cheating.
He would probably ask if he can watch💅


He most likely would not mind at all, but I would.

I am possessive of those I care about, and do not share.

He is well aware of this aspect of who I am, and greatly adores this trait.

Therefore we are keeping it, as it is, monogamous.


Too bad!!!
👀


Too bad for him, or for I ?



Us! I would love to read Part2 of this story!!!
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There will be updates as it unfolds because now I have to figure out what I should do, to at least remain cordial within a professional capacity.

Anything outside it, such as a friendship, I have lost respect for, because of her personality.
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Posted by xXxQueenliciaXxX
Pretty sure most guys wouldn't care.


What would you mean by 'most guys' ?


Men don't look at it as cheating.
He would probably ask if he can watch💅


He most likely would not mind at all, but I would.

I am possessive of those I care about, and do not share.

He is well aware of this aspect of who I am, and greatly adores this trait.

Therefore we are keeping it, as it is, monogamous.


Too bad!!!
👀
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Too bad for him, or for I ?

Posted by PVJamz
Posted by TheLadyScorpio
The prize goes to you @PVJamz, so it seems she is a Bullette. A married one at that, who pretends her husband is her boyfriend instead.

She openly flirts or hints at pursing men when she sees them with money, whilst keeping it all a secret from her husband.

Dear lord, I am very glad I kept my distance and had my attraction to her under wraps.

She flip flops between distance coolness and utter physical flirtations with me but on my part, no reactions have been given. Now, I feel the attraction still but my sheer disgust at her personality far outweighs it.

Who knows, perhaps she has an open marriage with her husband. Who am I to judge but to keep secrets, whether it be an open marriage or otherwise, is wrong in my books.

Also, she has had relationships with women before but they had left her very much heartbroken and devastated in the past.

Dear lord! Yeah you dodged one. I don't know what it is about the Taurus-Scorpio pull but it's crazy strong.
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Unnervingly strong, I have never felt it before and do not have any idea what to do with it. Perhaps, it is because I have never had a friendship with a Bullette before, or at least within a capacity where I would have to see them often enough.

For business reasons, I would still need to be on good terms with her and frankly now I do not know how to handle this situation. Merely cordial friendliness, does not seem to work, because she is rather moody, if not at times a lazy individual, professionally.
Posted by Gemitati
Posted by TheLadyScorpio
Posted by xXxQueenliciaXxX
Pretty sure most guys wouldn't care.


What would you mean by 'most guys' ?


Men don't look at it as cheating.
He would probably ask if he can watch💅
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He most likely would not mind at all, but I would.

I am possessive of those I care about, and do not share.

He is well aware of this aspect of who I am, and greatly adores this trait.

Therefore we are keeping it, as it is, monogamous.
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Posted by TheLadyScorpio
@classmate

Regardless, which troll flavour would you be ?


classy
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Ah, still evaded my question I see.

So, what would it be ?

@rekt

It turns out, she is a Bullette and her birthday is in three weeks time.
@classmate

Regardless, which troll flavour would you be ?
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Posted by classmate
@TheLadyScorpio have you ever posted your face on DXP?


Who are you ?



This has nothing to do with me. I'm simply asking. I have seen you argue with DJ and he always says you're an uggo. So. Has he ever seen your face?
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I have never posted a photography of myself on DXP.

That should answer your question.

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@TheLadyScorpio have you ever posted your face on DXP?


Who are you ?

Posted by Wineaux15
I had a female friend flirt with me before constantly... she was a Gemini. Kind of aggressive.... anywho I like that you and your mate are open enough to discuss it. I love it!


Yes Wineaux15, I am very lucky.

To have a man who is open enough to discuss all my emotions with me, and listen, whilst being supportive.

It is a very rare trait.

Hah, he even teases me about it.