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The Lady Scorpio

TheLadyScorpio
joined January 21, 2013
from a figment of your imagination.She loved mysteries so much that she became one.
  • TheLadyScorpio
    She loved mysteries so much that she became one.
    from a figment of your imagination.
    Posted by MyStarsShine
    Jesus, is this still going on Lady?

    😀


    Well ... Devil

    For over a month stars, it had stopped because I kept away from any remote place where I would possibly run into him. During that time, I did not reach out to him and he did not reach out to me either.

    Only recently, had I reached out because he was looking disturbingly unlike himself, it worried me.
  • TheLadyScorpio
    She loved mysteries so much that she became one.
    from a figment of your imagination.
    Posted by IamTheRam
    Haaa butter i just lost my huge message now...my cellphone blocked....lool seriously i really reallyyyyyy hate cellphones.... xD

    Ok TLS, gonna read what you just typed and get back to you !

    (butterttt i need to work !! Well...not really, i am changing company next week lool)

    Ok ! I will get to it ! After lunch....lool

    I will be back ! I just read the start of your last message and it seems like good news hehe ^^


    I should hope to get to hear all your thoughts.

    Though I must say, I still feel he is tense and a bit stiff in our interactions unlike how he is with all these other women.
  • TheLadyScorpio
    She loved mysteries so much that she became one.
    from a figment of your imagination.
    The surface of the pizza reminds me of bad acne scars. Straight Face
  • TheLadyScorpio
    She loved mysteries so much that she became one.
    from a figment of your imagination.
    @IamTheRam

    He finally replied, however he avoided answering my question as to how he was faring. Though he did update me briefly about work, even branching off unto details I never asked. He was rather stiff and kept things rather curt. That was until, I complimented him saying he looked good in his new suits. Which he then coyly said thanks and immediately asked if I had meant the grey one. I knew he asked this to dig for more information from me. A hint to see if I cared or missed him, I suppose. Bloody Rams. Devil

    Now, he only wore the grey one a few days ago. However, he has since gotten three new suits (which I knew because of the tailoring incident from months prior). In the month, that I kept away, he had worn all three suits. The grey being most recent, then followed by a black, and the oldest, which he wore three weeks ago was blue. He looked best in the blue. He was cheeky, trying to fish to see if I had paid attention to his social media this entire month. Of course, I did.Laughing

    I told him he looked good in all of them, but he looked best in the blue. Who knew, Ram gents enjoyed compliments that much. I thought that was reserved for the Leonine gents. Well, that put him in a brilliant mood and for once he laughed, flirting with me through messages. That in itself, was a first. After all this, and my compliments. He said noted (I suppose he meant he will note my preference of what looked good on him ?). In which I told him, Just note blue! (proceeding to tell him everything that he had worn that was in blue), because you look good in that colour. Big Grin He did not reply to that last compliment. Straight Face

    As said before in the previous posts, I took it upon myself to be as authentic as possible. No power plays, no manipulations, no egos, nor pride. Purely said, what I thought was true, in the moment, and without thinking too much.
  • TheLadyScorpio
    She loved mysteries so much that she became one.
    from a figment of your imagination.
    @IamTheRam

    Eventually decided to reach out, could not bear seeing someone in that state or condition without at least asking how they are doing. Short, brief, but light message and also enquired about his work, whether that was going great etc.

    He was around when I sent it. Though he has yet to read or reply it, he seemed to have ignored it. Straight Face
    I will give him some time and space. After all, its been a month of silence since he last saw or spoke with me.
  • TheLadyScorpio
    She loved mysteries so much that she became one.
    from a figment of your imagination.
    Posted by IamTheRam
    Posted by TheLadyScorpio
    Also @IamTheRam, I must say in the photographs he has posted about work or in company videos. He has since increasingly looked more and more distressed. As if he had not slept in a very long time, it almost looks as if he is barely managing to function or pull through the day. The most recent video, he almost looks like he does not have it together.

    From a distance, I do find myself worrying about him. Even if only for the sake of being concerned over someone I had cared for. It really does not look like he is doing well.


    Yeah...it is obvious he is not doing well...lool he is clueless on how to act towards you at all hehe

    And the worst part is that...you both like each other...^^

    Don't worry...we will try to figure a way out of this one hehe but you know you will have to *bend* a bit more...^^

    Drama TLS...drama...it allways works with Aries lool

    Be moody ! Just...you know...Be Things ! Hehe ^^
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    However, I do know someone close to him has just been diagnosed with Cancer. They just began chemotherapy. Therefore, that might be on his mind and bothering him. I am not self absorbed enough to think that he is distressed over me. It could be that, that is causing him to look the way he is.

    Perhaps, he wishes I might have been around to support him as he goes through this period of time ?
    I do not know.

    What I do know is this, I am worried about him. He did always say, he did not have many true friends around him where we are.
  • TheLadyScorpio
    She loved mysteries so much that she became one.
    from a figment of your imagination.
    Posted by IamTheRam
    Posted by TheLadyScorpio
    Posted by IamTheRam
    @TheLadyScorpio

    sparkle motion it TLS...there are just so many........Timelines....Laughing

    Hehe

    Is this still aplicable ? If so i will check it out and give you a feedback ^^

    *2 months latter*

    Me: "So TLS, is this still also aplicable ?!.."
    You: "He already passed away, thanks alot for the *feedback*..."

    Laughing


    It was applicable @IamTheRam, except since that time.

    About a month ago, I happened to visit that place, where I often bump into him. Upon arrival, he called me baby and other endearing names etc in front of everyone. It was a surprise to everyone as he never did so before. He made certain whatever I had, was complimentary and under his bill. Which had not happened in quite some time. Except, once I went outside to enjoy the night breeze, he proceeded to avoid me. He would sit within my line of vision but purposely chose to be cold, and did not approach me.

    He did this once, then the second time, he came out with a chickentail for himself, and for that female Ram coworker of his. They both sat together, directly in front of me but a few tables away. Her talking his ear off, whilst he kept looking my way, leaning back into the chair away from her. I felt humiliated, as he was so warm with me when I was inside. When outside, on the terrace area, he was cold. To add damage unto that, he chose her company. Since I was completely gutted, as if slapped across the face, but had enough pride to know I would not shirk away as if afraid of the situation. I will not be intimidated, and will remain a lady, generous.

    I finished my drink, proceeded to walk directly to their table. Remaining composed, and classy, whilst bidding them a lovely evening together and good night. Kisses on the cheeks, as per the usual greetings of where we are. I did it first to her, her facial expression was of complete shock as I figured she probably excepted me to be humiliated enough to simply leave and disappear. She did not except me to have balls of steel, enough to proceed as elegantly as I did. I smiled at her, and then proceeded to do the same to the Ram gent. He looked almost frightened, and scared of me, that I could remain so calm, collected, and composed. No sign of anger, demands, nor drama. Inside, however I was dying. Then, I left.

    Since that time, I had not returned to the place or any establishments under his company. It has been a month, he has not heard from me nor seen me. The humiliation of it all, the memory of it, kept me away. As I licked my wounds, and tried to recover from that painful experience. Neither has he reached out, so it must mean I did not matter to him at all. He did however, post a few photographs of him and the Ram female at work. They always look exceedingly awkward, formal, and uncomfortable in any photographs together. If not outright nervous, or frightened.

    As it stands, I do not know what to do. Though the memory of that night, has since faded a little as I am working on forgiving him for his disappointments and flaws. For my sake, not for his, so I could move on from the pain of that night.

    Is it over ?


    Why didn't you say so ? I figured you were done with it !

    Hummm...stiff again TLS ?....arff lol

    This is my conclusion on your reaction after he called you baby and stuff like that just by reading this....how was it that you reacted to all of it ?...

    Don't take me wrong at all, I do know you must have tons of reasons for it, and try to see what i am about to say in a good way, but it almost seems like you are afraid of just *being* a Woman with him !

    You are a woman ! And this guy is an Aries w\ venus Aries...In a way, he wants reactions !!...he want's drama !!...he want's you to be a Woman so he can be a Man !

    Ok, listen...this might seem at first like a twisted thing of perception about the actual reality of a man and a woman in modern society, but let tell you a bit on how Aries sees it.

    If you are not his woman (damsel in distress lol), how in hell can he be your man (knight in shining armor lol) ?

    And from what i can tell...you are not giving that to him like...at all ! smile

    It doesn't mean that you can't have your own opinion and follow it, do your own things, be very independent, have your own job and house, etc etc, and you actualy really (!!!) should do all of it !!!! This way you are showing him that you can stand tall with him anywhere, and that he can't ever trtrk up with a woman like you !!....but it's like...if i am with my woman, like anywhere on this planet, if i want to kiss her...i really hope she kisses me back 10x harder, you know ? Anywhere...I just don't care about abyone else...like literally 0 trtrks given, it's me and her and that's it...(and i actualy reallyyyyy want to rub on the faces of everyone else just on How Awesome (!!) both of us are...lol it is what is and this is how i am...lol oh well... ^^)

    So i can only guess that you actualy reacted a bit stiff when he called you all this things in front of his freinds...and your reaction...was not what he expected...at all....lol

    Remember his ego smile

    Hummm...so many miscomunications...and then he tries to make you jealous because he is pissed with you...and then you give him nothing and you even go there to give him a kiss to both of them...lol...that was a really hard blow on him xD

    Haaa oh well...Pride smile

    Another question TLS, i know and can see that you are keeping your pride here to the max and giving him no quarter at all ! But let me ask you something....are you happy ? smile

    This is not over at all... smile

    But how are you communicating with him now ? Any subtlie hints for hin on Social Media ? What are you giving to him for him to come back to you again...and again...and again.. ? smile

    I will keep in touch and try to help you out on this one, be it any decision that you want to follow through smile
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    When he called me all those names, I reacted with a smile. He was busy, so he used those terms of endearments here and there. When he would chat with me for a minute and be off again. This was all when we were indoors. However, this was his professional environment. I would not have used the same endearments towards him, in front of all those people who work under his company. It would not have seemed right.

    You were right, at the time I was cautious of being a woman around him only because he rejected me so many times before. Also every time I tried to be a woman around him, he would go cold and not react. Therefore, I was very conscious of the fact that I must hold back less he thinks I was pushing myself unto him. Now, obviously with a month having passed. I feel much more rational and clear headed, less afraid to simply be myself. After past miscommunications, have already happened. Whatever misunderstandings that were, are let go of.

    Of course, I was not happy. It was a painful month. Firstly, I knew I had to keep myself away from any of the establishment under his company because I needed to gain perspective over the entire situation and my own emotions. Secondly, the memory of that night was seared into my mind, so it took a lot of time and personal reflection before I realised I had to forgive him in order to not have it haunt me. Thirdly, that forgiveness took a while because it hurt what he did that evening. To work past the humiliation that I felt, took a lot of self awareness on my part. Once I let go of the ego, and the pride. Adamant, to be rid of the power plays and probably manipulations that were at play on both our parts. Resolute in being myself, that decision in combination with the beginnings of forgiveness, the pain has now lessened.

    However, I am not sure if I am at a place where I could bear to bump into him yet again. Perhaps, I am almost there, nearly. Seeing him as distressed as he has been, that does pull at me, and it worries me. I cannot help it, nobody wants to see someone they had cared for, in any position like that. He looks a shell of his former being, I probably did not know him long but I certainly knew him well enough. Enough to read him, to know he must be suffering over something.

    We have not been communicating at all. Perhaps a social media hint that I had missed some of those establishments. They were my frequent haunts, and I missed the breeze at that location. It was a place where I used to go after a difficult work day to destress, to relax. I have not reached out to him, neither has he reached out to me. Which made me think, perhaps he never cared, especially if he never initiated anything. After all, you once told me if a Ram truly wants someone. He will do whatever he could to pursue her.

    Should I write him, or visit one of those establishments again ?
  • TheLadyScorpio
    She loved mysteries so much that she became one.
    from a figment of your imagination.
    Also @IamTheRam, I must say in the photographs he has posted about work or in company videos. He has since increasingly looked more and more distressed. As if he had not slept in a very long time, it almost looks as if he is barely managing to function or pull through the day. The most recent video, he almost looks like he does not have it together.

    From a distance, I do find myself worrying about him. Even if only for the sake of being concerned over someone I had cared for. It really does not look like he is doing well.
  • TheLadyScorpio
    She loved mysteries so much that she became one.
    from a figment of your imagination.
    Posted by IamTheRam
    @TheLadyScorpio

    sparkle motion it TLS...there are just so many........Timelines....Laughing

    Hehe

    Is this still aplicable ? If so i will check it out and give you a feedback ^^

    *2 months latter*

    Me: "So TLS, is this still also aplicable ?!.."
    You: "He already passed away, thanks alot for the *feedback*..."

    Laughing


    It was applicable @IamTheRam, except since that time.

    About a month ago, I happened to visit that place, where I often bump into him. Upon arrival, he called me baby and other endearing names etc in front of everyone. It was a surprise to everyone as he never did so before. He made certain whatever I had, was complimentary and under his bill. Which had not happened in quite some time. Except, once I went outside to enjoy the night breeze, he proceeded to avoid me. He would sit within my line of vision but purposely chose to be cold, and did not approach me.

    He did this once, then the second time, he came out with a chickentail for himself, and for that female Ram coworker of his. They both sat together, directly in front of me but a few tables away. Her talking his ear off, whilst he kept looking my way, leaning back into the chair away from her. I felt humiliated, as he was so warm with me when I was inside. When outside, on the terrace area, he was cold. To add damage unto that, he chose her company. Since I was completely gutted, as if slapped across the face, but had enough pride to know I would not shirk away as if afraid of the situation. I will not be intimidated, and will remain a lady, generous.

    I finished my drink, proceeded to walk directly to their table. Remaining composed, and classy, whilst bidding them a lovely evening together and good night. Kisses on the cheeks, as per the usual greetings of where we are. I did it first to her, her facial expression was of complete shock as I figured she probably expected me to be humiliated enough to simply leave and disappear. She did not expect me to have balls of steel, enough to proceed as elegantly as I did. I smiled at her, and then proceeded to do the same to the Ram gent. He looked almost frightened, and scared of me, that I could remain so calm, collected, and composed. No sign of anger, demands, nor drama. Inside, however I was dying. Then, I left.

    Since that time, I had not returned to the place or any establishments under his company. It has been a month, he has not heard from me nor seen me. The humiliation of it all, the memory of it, kept me away. As I licked my wounds, and tried to recover from that painful experience. Neither has he reached out, so it must mean I did not matter to him at all. He did however, post a few photographs of him and the Ram female at work. They always look exceedingly awkward, formal, and uncomfortable in any photographs together. If not outright nervous, or frightened.

    As it stands, I do not know what to do. Though the memory of that night, has since faded a little as I am working on forgiving him for his disappointments and flaws. For my sake, not for his, so I could move on from the pain of that night.

    Is it over ?
  • TheLadyScorpio
    She loved mysteries so much that she became one.
    from a figment of your imagination.
    Hoy tengo ganas de ti.
    Quiero apagar en tus labios
    La sed de mi alma,
    Y descubrir el amor
    Juntos cada mañana.

  • TheLadyScorpio
    She loved mysteries so much that she became one.
    from a figment of your imagination.
    Virgent and Stinger Lady.

    Only if the combination is done right, and both are mature or at least ready enough to be affectionate / intimate / vulnerable in said connection.
  • TheLadyScorpio
    She loved mysteries so much that she became one.
    from a figment of your imagination.
    Quite right, @LadyNeptune.Laughing

    Though in terms of dating, it is a blessing. If I were not observant, I would not have been able to piece together this mystery as fast as I did.
  • TheLadyScorpio
    She loved mysteries so much that she became one.
    from a figment of your imagination.
    Not invested, cautious is the better word.

    I refuse to be a fool and trust a man until he has proven himself otherwise. The dating world is fraught with malicious, conniving, and manipulative characters. To better protect myself, better to be observant   Read more
  • TheLadyScorpio
    She loved mysteries so much that she became one.
    from a figment of your imagination.
    I noticed, in the last time that I had met him. As he wanted to meet me, to talk, for conversation etc.

    He spent far more time on his phone than he ever did, as compared to the previous two times in which I had met him. Also he had his notifications o   Read more
  • TheLadyScorpio
    She loved mysteries so much that she became one.
    from a figment of your imagination.
    Revolting. Scared
  • TheLadyScorpio
    She loved mysteries so much that she became one.
    from a figment of your imagination.
    When you realise the dangerously charming Virgent (who confessed he was married but separated) who you had spent time with, was on TheSugarBook app.

    Which explains the strange baby sounding notifications he was recieving. Still legally married, and al   Read more
  • TheLadyScorpio
    She loved mysteries so much that she became one.
    from a figment of your imagination.
    Mermen seem to come sideways at you with their intelligence where as a Virgent, they come right at you with their charmingly cold rational.
  • TheLadyScorpio
    She loved mysteries so much that she became one.
    from a figment of your imagination.
    The Merman almost seems innocent, if not naive in comparison to the dangerously charming Virgent.Laughing
  • TheLadyScorpio
    She loved mysteries so much that she became one.
    from a figment of your imagination.
    From one mutable extreme to another, from a Virgent to a Merman. (Though I said, I had sworn off them for years.)

    As they would say - Never say Never.Laughing
  • TheLadyScorpio
    She loved mysteries so much that she became one.
    from a figment of your imagination.
    Posted by ellesbelles
    Posted by Jules-ll
    Posted by ellesbelles
    I'm not angry anymore.
    That mars once boiling takes a long, long time to get back to a simmer... Glad to hear you are back to calm! Now I need to work on mine...

    Yesterday I was told in an informal meeting that a project for the Long Island Rail Road I've been handling since Sept 17 is going to be given to a man because my manager "doesn't think I can handle it." Oh really? It's a high profile job that Governor Cuomo has his finger on, but the total value to date is only $ 15 million. I've been project accountant on a $ 320 million development project that won awards. My cookiemonster-ass, short-man syndrome manager can kiss my butt!


    Woah.

    That would make me see red.
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    Likewise @ellesbelles, a very dangerous level of red as well.

    However, as a woman you would not be allowed to let a single inkling of an emotion seep through less they call you out as incapable of any other further potential projects or tasks.

    I hope this is not the case for you, @Jules-II