Taurus males wtf

So my taurus guy and I, only "friends" of course because of the usual taurus shit, have been on this taurus roller coaster for the past 9 months. We got into an argument last week and finally today he apologized so I apologized as well and said hopefully we can go back to being friends. To this he responded "Thank you for that! Such a relief. I would LOVE that"??_ it was so overly enthusiastic that I had to ask (in a joking manner) is that sarcasm? And he said no. not sarcasm at all.

Maybe it's the pisces over thinker in me but why would he give such a weird answer? Do taurus males really get this excited when they get someone back they thought they lost especially since I must just be another harem girl I guess if it's been 9 months of this.. or does he think I'm stupid enough to fall for such enthusiasm and just go right back to how things were?

Oi mami! Stay awaz frum Tauris mens!

Posted by basil777
So my taurus guy and I, only "friends" of course because of the usual taurus shit, have been on this taurus roller coaster for the past 9 months. We got into an argument last week and finally today he apologized so I apologized as well and said hopefully we can go back to being friends. To this he responded "Thank you for that! Such a relief. I would LOVE that"??_ it was so overly enthusiastic that I had to ask (in a joking manner) is that sarcasm? And he said no. not sarcasm at all.

Maybe it's the pisces over thinker in me but why would he give such a weird answer? Do taurus males really get this excited when they get someone back they thought they lost especially since I must just be another harem girl I guess if it's been 9 months of this.. or does he think I'm stupid enough to fall for such enthusiasm and just go right back to how things were?

Maybe he just really misses you and wants to be back in some form of relationship/contact, regardless of what that is. I wouldn't look for hidden motives. Sounds sincere to me.

@thescepter and redbull I've asked him what time he was born to try and figure out his rising and moon sign, but he didn't know/doesn't care about astrology anything. So I'm curious to read more about aquarian bulls if that's what he is.

@andalusia I wish someone would have warned me about taurus men before, now I feel like I'm stuck in a situation that I know is probably not healthy and yet I don't want to give him up :/

@tauruslovesscorpio I guess I should give some more background to the argument. He plays in a band on the side for fun, he's 28 mind you so he's not young and crazy or anything, and his band was playing at a bar last week. I was talking to him about it that day and decided to go out and see him with a couple of my friends. It turns out he invited/told about the show (he would never admit to inviting her straight up) to another harem member, a 17 year old high school girl??_ we've had a few arguments over this girl because she would call late at night and start texting at 6am when I was with him but he would always just say he can't help that she has a thing for him. that situation is gross and creepy to me because he's almost 30! Anyways they took a break from playing and in passing he gave me a half hug and said hi then went and talked to other people there. That's fine though, I'm used to that because in public he does that acts so distant and yet if I'm off talking to other guys I catch him casually walking by staring. But then he goes over to the 17 year old and chats her up for a hot minute, and I just lose it. I don't say anything or make a scene I just tell my friends we need to leave. As we are walking out he goes you're leaving? and I just said yeah and kept going, while one of my other friends stopped and said what are you doing, you know that would hurt anyone. To which he responds I'm not dating anyone it doesn't matter. I hear from him the next day and just ask him to give me some space. Then today we had the conversation above??_

I just looked up aquarian bulls??_ I am so screwed. That fits him perfectly. How will I ever get over someone like that haha

I'm confused are you friends or more then friends? Sounds like FWB which means you have no rights or claim on him.

Your actions screamed jealous girlfriend. You got mad because he gave another girl there attention, while yes she was young and that's gross, you're not his gf so you really don't have a say with whom he speaks.

He didn't even invite you to the event. You showed up on your own and he came and talked to you first before talking to the girl he did invite and he apologized first when he did nothing wrong.

We have had sex before but not in months. He brought it up and said he doesn't want to make things complicated by adding sex into the mix??_ so we haven't done anything like that in months anyways

Lol, do girls really think that everything a guy says has to have a hidden message!?

If a guy says "I want a coke" then he wants a coke!

He doesn't want a Pepsi, Root Beer, a wine cooler, true blood...none of that! Just a coke!!

Stop trying to make a hurricane into a rainbow!

Posted by basil777
We have had sex before but not in months. He brought it up and said he doesn't want to make things complicated by adding sex into the mix??_ so we haven't done anything like that in months anyways

Oof. That does not sound good for you, unless he is like very religious. If not, sounds like you are definitely in a harem.

so if you have sex it's not good and if you don't have sex it's not good. After this I am staying away from taurus males forever.

Posted by basil777
We have had sex before but not in months. He brought it up and said he doesn't want to make things complicated by adding sex into the mix??_ so we haven't done anything like that in months anyways

You went from FWB to just friends. He stopped having sex with you to try and avoid conflicts like this. At the event he treated you as a friend. He does not reciprocate the same feelings you do.

basil777,

If you are willing to do anything for him. Do it and don't ask people 'because it will only confused

you.I do what my hearts says to do so.. after all I followed it and no regret it until you say

it's enough and over with this kind of thing!!!

I am not afraid to get wet... till I quit!!

I've heard many regretful people because They follow what others what them to do...

At the end... your happiness is your own and your sorrows is your own.

Why not do your best to the person you love... it's not you and it's them.

Wouldn't you like to be remembered as ''that person loves me much even to my own insanity''.

and they wish to spend their life with you over and over again...and they don't have that chance

again...and that hurts them.