@suntauvengem I am currently dealing with a taurus sun aqua moon and it's hard. I am pisces sun, taurus rising, sag moon and I take what he does as cold and not caring. We can be in a room full of people, and that's great that he's giving me freedom to do whatever, but he can make me feel like the most insignificant person in the room. He's so busy trying to treat everyone equally that he'll just walk past me and barely even say a word and to me that kind of feels like a slap in the face. It's the pisces in me that takes it personally I know, but it definitely hurts and sucks sometimes. It's like y'all are worried about everyone else at the expense of those that really care about you.
@thescepter and redbull I've asked him what time he was born to try and figure out his rising and moon sign, but he didn't know/doesn't care about astrology anything. So I'm curious to read more about aquarian bulls if that's what he is.
@andalusia I wish someone would have warned me about taurus men before, now I feel like I'm stuck in a situation that I know is probably not healthy and yet I don't want to give him up :/
@tauruslovesscorpio I guess I should give some more background to the argument. He plays in a band on the side for fun, he's 28 mind you so he's not young and crazy or anything, and his band was playing at a bar last week. I was talking to him about it that day and decided to go out and see him with a couple of my friends. It turns out he invited/told about the show (he would never admit to inviting her straight up) to another harem member, a 17 year old high school girl??_ we've had a few arguments over this girl because she would call late at night and start texting at 6am when I was with him but he would always just say he can't help that she has a thing for him. that situation is gross and creepy to me because he's almost 30! Anyways they took a break from playing and in passing he gave me a half hug and said hi then went and talked to other people there. That's fine though, I'm used to that because in public he does that acts so distant and yet if I'm off talking to other guys I catch him casually walking by staring. But then he goes over to the 17 year old and chats her up for a hot minute, and I just lose it. I don't say anything or make a scene I just tell my friends we need to leave. As we are walking out he goes you're leaving? and I just said yeah and kept going, while one of my other friends stopped and said what are you doing, you know that would hurt anyone. To which he responds I'm not dating anyone it doesn't matter. I hear from him the next day and just ask him to give me some space. Then today we had the conversation above??_
So my taurus guy and I, only "friends" of course because of the usual taurus butter, have been on this taurus roller coaster for the past 9 months. We got into an argument last week and finally today he apologized so I apologized as well and said hopefully we can go back to being friends. To this he responded "Thank you for that! Such a relief. I would LOVE that"??_ it was so overly enthusiastic that I had to ask (in a joking manner) is that sarcasm? And he said no. not sarcasm at all.
Maybe it's the pisces over thinker in me but why would he give such a weird answer? Do taurus males really get this excited when they get someone back they thought they lost especially since I must just be another harem girl I guess if it's been 9 months of this.. or does he think I'm stupid enough to fall for such enthusiasm and just go right back to how things were?
I've been friends with a taurus male for about 4 months now, I'm a pisces with taurus rising, and for the last couple of weeks I've been trying to distance myself a little because I can never tell how he really feels. I realized though from this distance how I feel about him and today decided to just tell him so I explained that I genuinely just want him and am serious about us being together. We've hit on these topics before but he never will open up about it so I would always just leave it alone and not push it. Today though I just decided to say it all because I either need to move on if he doesn't feel the same or feel like this is actually going somewhere. After that the conversation kind of went like this:
Him: What makes you realize you want us together? Me: Because I'm happier with you in my life than not and I know I can make you happy as well. Him: I thought I was stressing you out? (cause of the distance thing) Me: You as a person make me happy, but you aren't easy to read so it's hard for me to want to put myself out there.
That's basically the conversation summed up. From there he just said "I see". And then apologized for not getting in touch with me yesterday because he had an interview for a new job. He then talked about how it went and how he would have to move to another part of town and then sent me a picture of him in his suit from yesterday (he's 28 but he said his mom wanted him to send her a pic lol). From there I just said what me and a couple friends are doing tonight if he would like to join. And he ended the conversation asking for me to send him a pic back (nothing sexual just a selfie)...
How should I act now? He still didn't really give me anything..