Taurus man back...

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piscesgirl18
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11 Years

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hi all, I haven't been on this in a while. I don't know If anyone remembers me, but I have a long standing relationship/friendship with a Taurus man that lives overseas. Anyway, after much drama and asking him to step back and let me get my life on track, he is back.
We established and he was very clear that we would just be friends. However, he recently started chatting with me and the texts are not "just friends". They are very sexual and to the point. I am handling it very differently now, as I don't change my plans, and am dating some pretty great guys now.
He doesn't ask who I have plans with, and I don't say if it's a date, but he's smart enough to realize that it's most likely a date. For example: He says "when are you going to be home" I will say "I have plans won't be home until about 9". Even though he knows I'm with someone he continues to text me and he will even call if I don't respond..keep in mind, he is calling from Hong Kong. I think he is messing with me, what do you all think?
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Posted by piscesgirl18
oh, one more thing. He did the whole text and called while I was in a movie with my sister..MY SIS. He knew I was with her. I did ask him what he wanted from me. Just be direct and he said "I want to be with you".
Well, there it is. What is there to question? He wants more than you do. If it gets annoying (sounds like it has), give him a firm warning that you will have to cut him off completely if he demands more than friendship. Then follow through if it happens. Case closed.
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shortii
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Posted by piscesgirl18
oh, one more thing. He did the whole text and called while I was in a movie with my sister..MY SIS. He knew I was with her. I did ask him what he wanted from me. Just be direct and he said "I want to be with you".
Did he clarify...meaning with you in proximity or with you as relationship.
We Pisces can sometimes misread things as emotional when its not.. the intention is literal. (NAWWW not us PISCES!!) LOL
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piscesgirl18
@piscesgirl18
11 Years

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We can't let each other go. We will always be connected. But I know I flipped the script and I feel much stronger because of it. When he says "jump" I don't ask "how high", I ask "why". I think that frustrates him. Everything said is true, he is overseas so I don't see the feasibility. I don't know. But what I do know is he is not going to get the best of me this time. It's like he has this radar that kicks in whenever I am truly happy and enjoying my life. He comes along and drags me back. All I know is that I am not giving up dating the men I am dating--having too much fun--and maybe that bothers him (?). I still love him, but I will never say that again. He caused too much pain the first time around. But I asked him to let me go the last time, and he said "no. I won't let you go and I can't"