Taurus man being inconsistent?

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EmotionalPluto
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i am a scorpio and i just started dating a taurus man he was very interested, (we met over facebook). I was not looking for a relationship but he eventually got me to look into it, we ended up dating a while afterwards. We hung out and his palms were sweaty n he was staring me down and was very shy towards me. He said i was veryy beautiful to him and i was flattered of coarse he couldnt believe i was so calm and had my shxx together. He told me he was used to loud obnoxious females that are all over the place (he dated one for 2 years). i told him im far from it and he said he liked that and was happy to find someone like that! Eventually he said he wanted to call me as i headed home but he never did the next morning he contacted me over facebook n said he had fell asleep so i let it slide. So for the past 4 days he has been saying he wants to call or that hes planning on calling and he never does. But he does get on facebook and IM me everytime hes on, sometimes he will randomly log off! I got a little fed up and realised that he never has time for me and its only been 4 days, thats a red flag. I broke up with him n he was devistated..He said he had no idea he made me feel neglected and hes just always busy with something. He begged me to let him get to know me better and then see if i would date him again and i said yes. he said he was going to call me and did not do it...........He constantly compares me to his girlfriend like freaking out when i get mad and thinking everything is going to explode and go down hill for himself, he just doesn't know how to act. He gets jealous when i am talking to other men and is very upset when i don't talk to him like i want to be with him. I cant it is so hard, i let my guard down and its hard to let it back down now. He says he feels that we are going to work, that he doesnt want to hurt me and he wants us to be friends so i can see if i really want to be with him.. . He said he wanted to call me after he went somewhere..but who knows if thats a lie ..i told him not to lie to me and he got mad n said OKAY BRENDA DAMN!...Lol feisty ay?! So i am currently waiting on his call ..I just dont know if he is being honest or just bullshitting me.. i have NO experience with taurus men and i dont know anything about them. Thanks for your time!
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tiki33
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Of course you know the answer...He's just bullshitting you, seems like not only was his ex a mess but he is too and it also seems he's attracted to messy women, hell he stay with her 2 years and he can't even pay attention to you for 4 days lol, says a lot about him and his personal values. As much as he says he doesn't want a crazy girlfriend, he really tries to go out of his way to make you feel crazy inside over his lack of consideration towards you.

If I were you I wouldn't wait on his call and I wouldn't be his friend either, I mean how is he going to INVITE you into a relationship and then ignore you and then turn around ask you back and then say but we should be friends first to see if you want to be with me, talk about mindfuck lol.

I'm certainly not telling you what to do but if it were me I would downgrade his ass and move on to a man that KNOW how to be in a relationship without all the mind juggling games. This really isn't a taurus thing, it's a maturity thing.
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TaurGuy
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"This really isn't a taurus thing, it's a maturity thing."


Eh, not so much a maturity thing as a self confidence thing I think.. You could very well be the calm, together, beautiful, strong woman that he's always wanted.. He just seems like hes not ready for the level of what you could offer.. Often people, and what sometimes seems like at even a subconscious level accept only the relationships/love/person they feel they deserve.. If your more then what they feel they deserve or their not ready for what you offer, no matter how much they want it, they tend to self sabotage..

Bottom line: He's not ready.. And if theres nothing super special about how you feel about him that'd make you want to wait.. I'd cash in my chip's now.. Find someone on your level thats ready for what you can offer..


(Just my feelings from what you've said)